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Friend or User
Okay there's this person who I know and like they have always depended on me for like a lot of stuff since like 7th Grade and now were going to be Juniors in High school. but we never hang out like maybe ocassionally on a friday during the school year. and like recently they called me like at 1:30 in the morining for me to come pick them up and take them to my house and I'm not 16 yet and not legally to drive but my family is out of town....so they told me to pick them up from somewhere because they did something really stupid and didn't want to risk getting in trouble with there parents...but yet me get in trouble for several things....what would you guys consider this person?
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i dont mean to be mean, but truthfully it just sounds like shes using you. i know it hurts to realize that but i think its the truth. if she only calls for you to get her when shes in trouble, i guess she trust you, but you still can't let her walk all over you like that.
<3 Jordyn
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OKay ..Now if a frined is risking for you 2 get in troubnle then jus dont help her at all..i mean its happening all over the world kids driving with no liesnse..so im tellin ma sis went trough and she aint no longer frinends with that person...so Try to follow oN what you think is good and you should have the right choice..Hope i helped /..
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If they would risk you getting in trouble so that their butt would be saved, they were using you. I would consider this person low and really out of their minds. The next time she/he asks you for a favor, set some boundaries. Tell them that you dont believe your relationship is give and take, and that without that your 'friendship' is a meaningless nothing that does not exist. Dont let people use you... especially when you could get in major trouble. Good luck with everything---- XoOOoxoOooOxOooOxOooO
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Uhm.. I'd say these people aRe using you. These do not seem like Real fRiends at all! WhateveR they did that was so stupid... it's theiR fault, and they shouldn't dRag you into it! I say dump 'em!! Hope I helped!
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