hey, i have a fatasy of being tied up and having sex like that, im a 16 year old boy and really want to fulfill this fantasy but Im not sure how to go about doing it? How do I find the right person and make sure im safe an all that? As much info about the whole thing as possible please
thanks everyone
This shouldn`t be a fantasy, don`t fall into the peer presure of having to have sex in high school. you should wait for the right moment when you think you're ready and with the right person! don't rush into the moment, you want it to be special. you`ll know when u have met the right girl. you might be ready but she might not be wait for her to feel comfortable and ready too.
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13/female. I always figured people could tell if I was happy, mad, sad, confused, or any other emotion because it just seemed obvious to me. If I'm mad my mouth forms a straight line, my eyebrowns go together, and you can just see in my eyes I'm mad. But lately I don't think my emotions are that clear. I guess my first hint was yesterday when my mom started yelling at me that I never tell her how I feel. It's just that it seems stupid saying I feel this way, I feel that way. It's always been this way with me. I just storm to my room and slam the door without a word, giving the world a cold shoulder. See my whole life has been hard. When I was practicly born my dad divorced my mom. Then my mom fell in love, but never married him, and he died of cancer the day after my birthday. Then my aunt died in her sleep on july3, in the same year my moms soon to be hubby died. I didn't even cry, I guess because I figured somebody had to be strong. Then my mom met another guy about a year ago and we found out about 4months ago he died in december. Since then my mom has fell in love 3times, one is still alive but has moved on, the second one doesn't know what to do, the third one is here at this very moment. I'm always getting into trouble over anything. I hate visiting my dad, but I don't know if he realizes it yet. I hate school, everyone knows it. I feel weird with all my moms bfs, none knows why not even me. I read almost all the time wishing I wasn't where I was at. I think to myself all the 'why' questions we all hate. So tell me how can I tell people my feelings?!?!?! How do I realize my moms love life is none of my buisness, and yet it is? How do I learn to love, trust, and express my feelings? How do I tell my dad I can't stand him? Please help me with all of these questions and more.
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showing your emotions is very hard. shit happens you need to learn how to forgive. everyone needs a chance or 2. i`m glade that your strong, and u need to be. but your mom doesn`t understand if your not strong for her then she`ll feel even worse. being strong is not easy but neither is realizing that your mom is dating. your mom will always love your dad even if all those tings happen and you need to forgive him and spend sometime with him. Your not giving the world a cold shoulder, your realizing how to show emotion. try writing poems, i do, some of the most deepest poems come from the shit i have been through. example: The death of the heart was taking over as she turned numb, the tear dipped into the gushing heart break of the one she loved, as she sat alone and empty the boy came gripping on to her arm not known theres memories that well be there forever. it was a fearful drag of the one person that she ran to was not there to be found. the scattering rain fell like slow motion, dissy feeling even weaker then before, she feel to the ground and the last thing she said was "its not my fault"
soo try writing somethings down that will help!
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about a week ago, my parents were fighting. it was so bad that me and my sister had to call my grandparents to tell them that we would like to sleepover. our parents tried to work it out but i don't know what will happen. also the next day when my dad saw us, he started crying and saying that he loves us. it was weird though to see my dad crying but i thought something was going on. yesterday i went blueberry picking with my parents and my sister. i wasn't really up to it but my mom said privately to me that we did this to be together and we don't have to be together and not have my father.
i am really scared now. please can you help me?
ty in advance. 13/f
This you have no control over, my parents are going through that same thing but they`re getting a seperasion. i`m going to be living with my mom must of the time and i get to see my dad when ever i want. You have to be strong. because if your not then your mom or dad will fall deeper into pain. look at the upside, you get 2 rooms. haha thats what i always say. things happen for a reason. its hard to know you can`t control it, its even worse when you try.
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I just got my depo-prevera shot updated 4 days ago and yesterday I had sex twice without a condom and my boyfriend cummed inside me. Is there any possibility that I could be preg.? if so will it die because of the shot or how will I know if i am.
Go see a doctor, but i really wouldn`t worry to much about it.
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Hello. I'm very nervous. Okay well me and my boyfriend have sex now. I'm 14 and he's 16, and he popped my cherry. We usually have sex, alot. We sometimes don't do it with protection. He pulls it out though. I'm just extremly worried. My period always changes though. It rotates, like some months I get it at the beginning of the month, and some twords the very end. Last month I got it at the beginning so I figured I would this month, I haven't. I'm scared, but I don't know what to do. I've been getting cramps, like you do from the period. Uhh, do you think I could be pregnant? What should I do!!!! Thankss. (=
Your 14 going into high school and you already have your cherry popped! thats not good! and your not using protection!! do you know what your getting yourself into? this is some Jerry Springer shit right here! hes fucking 16 get over this guy or have protection!! you really don`t wanna have a baby, my friend has one and trust me her life is shit!! does your parents know about this? really you should take a pregnants test to be safe!!
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A girl I know, but I'm not really good friends with, is having a pool party. She invited 3 boys, and I don't know any of them. I wouldn't care if they were there if it was just a regular party, and I have a boyfriend, so I'm not worried about any of that dating stuff. What I'm worried about is, that I hate how I look in my bikini. It's the only bathign suit I have, and I don't really want guys to see me in it. Especially when half the girls at the party, are anorexic bitches. I think it'd be rude if I didn't go, and I don't know what to do.
You should go! who cares what the guys tink, they`re all asswholes anyways. if your having fun then no one will say anyhting about it. bikini`s are fun! and shows how your not affraid of that people think.
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I have this friend who gets mad really easily, but you can't tell her anything. She is so untrustworthy. If she thinks you like a guy then she'll claim she's in love with them and i'm an awful friend if i try for them. She gets jelous easily also. I can't stand her anymore, but I have all my classes with her and all my friends are friends with her...:( so what should I do? She is driving me crazy. Please help. Thanks!
I have a friend like that too! ughh there soo annoying. find a guy she hates and is cute, get to know him more and become friends. hoepfuly you`ll get a thing for him and he`ll get a thing for you. If not fuck her go for the guy you like! trust me she`ll get over it!
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for like all of elementry school and 7th grade i was basically the shy people-pleasing girl who no one really noticed unless i was thier passing grade. in 8th grade things really turned around and i still got striaght a's and got like 2 new bes friends and alot of other close friends. i think the only reason i could really talk then was because my best friend since 1st grade was with me and we can be wierd and loud together and i can feel sociol. now i'm like that with my 2 other best friends and kind of with a new close friend. well now i'm going to high school and it's a huge new school with a ton of new people i don'tknow and the ones i do who new me as that quiet girl and i don't want to be her agian becuase now im independent and loud and don't care what people think and i just think if too much new gets thrown at me ill close up agian how do i learn a new school and keep who i am...how do i make new friends,keep my old ones and not be peole pleasing? o and i how do i stop freaking out?
Don`t be shy, high schools a big deal, trust me i`m going in it right now. be urself, no ones asking you to be something that your not. stay close to your bestfriends but have an open mind to things. you never know who you fit in with unless you are yourself to everyone. remember, trust no one!
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I have a best friend,
and we've been friends for a few years now,
but I'm really getting annoyed with her.
She always wants to hang out and its really frustrating to me to have someone constantly need me, I have other friends, unlike her.
She uses that as an excuse to make me hang out with her too.
What do I do?
I've already tried explaning to her
how I feel about it too.
But really shes getting on my nervous.
16/F
i have friends like that too. have a night with the girls! invite your other friends and her, go out to dinner or the movies and she`ll learn how to meet new people. and have more advence like that.
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My one friend is sometimes like really fun, but sometimes she's a bit of a downer on everyone. She like will make things uncomfortable or not as fun and it's not as fun hanging when she's there. What shoudl I do?
try and bust her confidence, something might eb going on in her life and she can`t always be happy. Hang out with her more and get to know her, shes probably affraid to be who she is.
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So I like this girl and me and her have talked about likeing eachother but she has never flat out told me yes or no. So should I just take a leap and tell her I like her, or should I just ask how she would feel about me and her getting toghter and if she likes me . Any advice would be appreacited...
Girls love to hear that someone likes them. if you already brought it up before she`ll have an idea, and probably wonders whats going on in your head. i say take the leap! if you fall just get up and find some other girl. who needs to be treated like dirt anyways?
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now that i'm going into 9th grade (my last year of middle school), i have started getting depressed lately. i keep thinking about how i've never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, and i keep thinking that nobody likes me. what can i do to make myself feel better about myself. i'm 14/f if that helps any.
THANKS!!
I`m 14 too and i know what you mean. 8th grades a bitch even the guys!! they`re very judge mentle and it annoys the shit out of me! Depression is not fun and just don`t do anything crazy (kill yourself, cutting, drug, etc.) don`t go that far! anyways its all in your mind. relax look in the mirror and say that your beautiful because if you feel good about yourself everyone can see it. try and talk to someone. i`m all up for ears.
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k, so me and the ex. we dated for over 2 years. he broke up with me because he thought we were too serious. it's been about a month now, he's over it. i'm not. what are things i can do to completely get over it, besides hang out with friends (they all work a lot), find another guy (im not interested yet), or write. please help me.
Awww thats sad, i understand breaking up is a huge thing, getting over a person takes time. you need to learn that your an amazing person and you want him to want you back. Start look for a guy, you say your not interested but you have to be! to get over him its the only way.
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So me and this guy had a thing for eachother. We were getting really close. Well he moved a while back and comes home often. But...now we haven't talked for a while and it seems as if we are falling apart. How do i talk to him again so we can be as close as we used to be and maybe end up in a relationship?
Call him and leave him messages, don`t call him like 5 times a day. once in awhile, and have fun conversasions. Laughing will bring him back to memories and he`ll wanna see you more!
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hi...ive recently jus started goin out with this guy, and i realli love him.
the problem is .. he isnt the type of guy (looks wise) i wudda gone for .. the only reason im goin out with him is because of his personality and caring side...is this stupid?
deffently NOT stupid. Oh god i did the samething and i missed out of such a GREAT guy!! If your happy then who cares about what he looks like! sweet guys only come around once in awhile.
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Im about to start school soon and im going to a new school.How do i deal with bullies?please answer this question.
Starting at a new school is exciting and scary at the same time but if u just act yourself and make yourself stand out you`ll be fine. bullies are mean but everyone has them even if its your parents. You find away to forget about things quick and move on. don`t let them bring you down! they`re just cocky little shits! haha
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i have a boyfriend of about 4 months! and i totally love being with him! but i cant be with him all that much! if we are lucky maybe once a week, but thats if we are lucky. I have been going out with him fer what feels like a long time, and i cant tell if its real or not. Ever since i started going out with him nothing feels right, i mean i feel like we are totally different and it can never work. And actually we are pretty different but idk he really likes me and i think i really like him but i can never tell!! i think i said it all but please help me i dont know what to do and i have talked to him about this too but he just says that hes sorry, but idk it just never is right, just please help me
4 months is along time, even longer when it doesn`t feel right. I think the best thing to do it break up with him because its a weird place to stick with a guy you don`t feel right with.
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my gf is always flirting with this other guy at my school and it really pisses me off cuz she barly talks to me anymore can someone tell me a way to get her bak to me
A way to get your girlfriend back is. Set up a date to go to dinner just the 2 of you. bring her flowers to make her realize how amazing you are to her. And at the same time you guys can talk about anything. Don`t tell her thta your getting upset with her flirting she`ll just be really uptight about it.
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