[Name * Kayla]
[Age * 12 Almost 13]
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i've been dating this guy for a little over 2 months now.... i like him so much... and i think i'm begining to fall in love with him... my dad HATES him... he's never done anything for my dad to not like him... my dad always said "i just want to see you happy" but ever since he found out about my boyfriend he's been really mean to him and it hurts me... i don't know how to get him to like him... my boyfriend means alot to me and it hurts me so much when my dad starts saying things about him... my boyfriend is really nice and he would never do anything to hurt me. i don't know why he doesn't like him!!!! HELP ME TO GET MY DAD TO LIKE HIM! (link)
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You should talk to your dad and tell him you really like this kid and would like it if he stopped saying stuff about him.
-Kayla
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Hey, I've been using tampons for a little while now and it's kind of weird! Are you supposed to feel a little uncomfortable wearing them if there still new to you? Do you think they feel that way because it's not up far enough or something? I know I put it in right, but I still feel a little discomfort when there in! What's wrong? (link)
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You might need to get used to them. If you still feel uncomfortable you might need to push them in further, get a different size, or try a different brand.
-Kayla
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If a person is 14, do u think their 2 young 2 have sex? (link)
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It depends, if your ready and have find the right person it shouldn't be but you always have that chance of becoming pregnant at a young age so you may want to wait.
-Kayla
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im 13 and a girl and i want to do alot of things like make out with guys and maybe in a year or so have sex with a guy. but 1. im scared im a bad kisser. 2. i dont wanna get pregnant and 3. i havent found the right guy to do any thing with...what should i do? (link)
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I think you should wait until you've found the right guy and are ready to do things like that. Don't be afraid though, the right guy should like you for who you are.
-Kayla
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Okay. i wrote the stuffing tha bra thing..let me clear sumthyn up.. when i was doing that i didnt know what i was thinkyng..i was so inlove wid him dat it didnt matter. I knoe tht it wus wrong and stupidd..and dat if he relle liked me he wuld have liked me for me..but wut shuld i do? bc everytime i go to chyll wid ma best friend i c him..so i always have to wear 2 bra's and tht relle sucks! and its not comfortable but i dont want to stop chylling wid ma friend. Its not even about the boy anymore..its about how can i stop? so i could go there comfortable?? (link)
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You should just be yourself. If he likes you for your bra size don't even waste your time, find someone else. If he only likes you for your bra size hes a jerk, he should like you for your personality only. As for the bra thing, you should just try extra padded bras or something like that. Hope I helped!
-Kayla
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OK i need sum advice! Theres this guy on mah street who i use to like n stuff.But at the time he didnt feel the same so i got over it.But now he likes me and he's kinda bugging me b/c now he likes me. I'm 13 and he's 14.And it sux cuz like whenever my older brother who is 15 has a guy friend come over the guy who likes me always starts talking to the guy n asking him who he's there to see! And im getting real pissed i dunno what i should do!! PLEASE help!!
(Alexia) (link)
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You should just tell him you don't have feelings for him and would like it if he just left you to your own buisness, he should understand.
-Kayla
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Ok this question is for all the sexy ladies out there. Why is it that when a guy looks at a girl and makes a sound or says something about it, we get yelled at or lectured? I mean you can't tell me that you girls don't look at guys and mention something to your friends everynow amd then. I'm single and I still get yelled at for looking. So please answer. (link)
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It's fine to do that, girls love attention. But if you do it in a disrespectful way then girls do get angry. Nobody has the right to yell at you for looking if your single though.
-Kayla
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my friend is a hoe..i love her to death and everything but shes a hoe. she already gave it up 2 a 20 year old and she`s only 13 years old. i relle care about her and i want her to stop but she just doesnt want to get the point. and i made her promise me before that she would never smoke agen bc it wasnt healthy and she never did but then one day she told me she broke her promise. so she`s really going down the wrong road. What could i do to get her to stop dressing so slutty and to start acting her age?? please help me.. (link)
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You have to accept the fact that thats how she wants to be. But if you feel this is hurting her you should show her how bad it is to smoke and to be doing those things and what can happen if she continues to do it. Hopefully she will listen to you and stop what shes doing before she gets hurt.
-Kayla
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me and my x bf still like eachother we r not going out for certain reasons ne more we r both too busy. but neway my friend is having this party and he is invited so isnt my best friend. my bff knows how much i like him and everything. but the problem is i go to camp and i will be late to the party..that means my bff will be there alot of the time without me. im really afraid that something will happen between them or she'll say stuff or blah blah blah. im just all paranoid and i told her about this, we laughed about it and she told me to "calm down" cuz she wouldnt do anything. well, knwoing her she will either flirt with him and theyll like eachother or say something about me or think hes ugly and later she wont leave me alone about it. (link)
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Don't worry about it. If shes a good friend she won't say anything to him and ruin what you two have. Just trust her and everything will be fine. Hope I helped!
-Kayla
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well i play soccer a lot and my friends always bitch and stuff because im always busy...yea it sux...also i like this guy but wen i talk to him he doesnt take it seriously, and idk wut to do...my life sux right about now help! (link)
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You should probably explain to your friends about your situation. If they are true friends they'd understand. Also you should try and tell the guy you like that you like him. If he doesn't talk to you then hes not meant for you and you should move on.
-Kayla
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hey i'm 15, female! There are these to guys...Tyler and Matt...and there both awesome...i've known the both for a long time...and i dated Matt for bout 2months and we broke up for the summer and then me and him made a promise that we would get back together when skool started...well i hadn't see Tyler since like a couple months ago and then i saw him bout a week ago and we have been hanging out alot lately and i told him bout me and Matt..and really i have to choose which one i wanna be w/...i mean there both great and they both give me wat i want....and my mom told me that i wasn't alound to see Tyler cuz his 17..well i'm almost 16 in Dec...and Matt's 15..and i'm older then him...but i was talking to Tyler last nite and i told him bout me and Matt and stuff and he told me that i had a lot of courge to tell him that and that i need to choose and that no matter my choose he will always still be there for me...and matt on the other hand i don't know how he'll act..i jst think he would be really pissed and probably would never talk to me again and i jst don't know wat to do or who to choose or how to decicided who i want!?? What should i do? plZe help A.S.A.P (link)
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Well, I would tell Matt and if Matt gets angry then you should go to Tyler. Hope I helped!
-Kayla
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I am VERY picky about what I eat... I won't eat most meats... only Peperoni on my pizza (if i have to) and hamburgers. I like junk food ALOT and I eat alot of it... I won't eat most foods other people eat. I have alot of problems when I stay the night with friends because I usually don't like what they are having for dinner.
I am about 5'3-5'4 and i only weigh about 135... it may sound like a lot .. but i have alot of muscle too...
What kinds of foods should I try eating so I will stay healthy?
Is there any way to make myself like more healthy foods? (link)
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You should probably try eating different foods, be different. Theres bound to be something out there you'd like!
-Kayla
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This guy that I really like, who likes me too is stationed in Iraq. I am just so worried for him! It scares me knowing he is out there. How can I calm my nerves and not think the worst will happen? (link)
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Its probably hard not to think about him having a chance of being hurt but you should try to fight it. Don't worry, think positive, he will be fine.
-Kayla
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Alright, well, there's this guy that I know, B, and I'm totally in love with him. We've dated before, and I've told him that I've for him again. But he's asked me out before, and I said no because at the time, I liked someone else. But now that I've mentioned it again, he doesn't seem to be acting on that. We've always been friends with benefits. Like, the occasional hooking up and such. So it's like we're together already. Only, my love is there, and I'm not sure about his. He's said that he loves me, but I'm just not sure.
He's also not the best boyfriend material, if you know what I mean. He has this really nasty reputation about doing drugs, getting with girls all the time, having tons of problems. And he's definatly not someone that I would usually date. I mean, the other night, when we were saying good-bye, he had to get me out of the house first so his friend wouldn't see him and I kiss. Which is totally lame.
When he's around his friends he acts different. He acts as though he doesn't care about me. And it hurts like hell, but I can't stop thinking about him. I've really fallen for him, and no matter how much I try not to, I always find myself waiting for him to invite me over. I just don't know what to do. Please help me! (link)
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I think you should talk to him about his problems with drugs and about his other problems. You should also ask him if theres a reason he can't kiss you infront of his friends and if he truly loves you. If he begins to get deffensive or doesn't show that you do mean something to him then you should find someone new. I hope I helped!
-Kayla
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it's the summer holidays and i haven't seen my bf since the start of them (nearly 2 weeks ago) He's been away every time i try to get together with him and our holidays are at different times so we wont see each other that much at all. I tried calling him and he said he'd call back but he didn't. I've hardly spoken to him at all. He isn't making any effort to see or talk to me. do you think he's gone off me? he said he'd never dump me and that he loves me but i'm not too sure. what should i do? (link)
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I think you should talk to him about how you feel and tell him that you would appreciate it if he tried his hardest to get together with you. If he doesn't show the same effort then you probably should find someone new.
-Kayla
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the person i loveeee with all my heart told a friend behind my back when she was asking him ?'s about me that he didnt think i was pretty,cute,sexy,or even ok .. so which proves im a ugly piece of shit, idk whether i should keep liking him bc im kinda not over him and i dont know why .. idk what to do (link)
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First of all, if he says stuff like that behind your back hes a total loser. It doesn't matter whats on the outside but whats on the inside. You should get over him and move on, find someone who will always make you feel happy and love you for who you are.
-Kayla
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like oh ma gawd, i have this best friend and he's really close to me like a brother and now hes dating a girl in florida, they've been almost dating for a year. And i feel like shes stealing away my best friend ='( She's a fat biatch and shes ugly, and lives in florida, i feel like he dosen't care about me anymore..it's all about his girlfriend. I've tried talking to him about it but he tells me i'm still the same person to him, but i don't think that's true..what should i do? - Love Becky (link)
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Becky,
I think you should talk to him about how you feel. Don't make him feel guilty but ask him if he could treat you like he used to and not constantly worry about his girlfriend, he'll understand. Don't worry, it will all work out!
-Kayla
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im sick of always changing myself for everyone else and now i just want to be myself but idk who i am anymore...what can i do??? (link)
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Don't ever change for anyone but yourself. Until you find out who you were be who you want to be and don't change. You'll eventually become who you want to be.
-Kayla
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Well me and my ex boyfriend Kevin just broke up yesterday....well today someone called me and was like you dont know me but i am one of phylicias friends and do you care if her and Kevin go out so i sed no...nut i really do care alot...Phylicia is like my BEST friend in the world and i still like kevin but i dont know? What should i do? (link)
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Well, I think you should tell Phylicia that you still have feelings for Kevin and you'd feel better if she didn't go out with him. If shes truly a good friend she won't go out with him or wait until you feel better before she does.
-Kayla
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