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Why do I love him?


Question Posted Tuesday July 27 2004, 3:31 pm

Alright, well, there's this guy that I know, B, and I'm totally in love with him. We've dated before, and I've told him that I've for him again. But he's asked me out before, and I said no because at the time, I liked someone else. But now that I've mentioned it again, he doesn't seem to be acting on that. We've always been friends with benefits. Like, the occasional hooking up and such. So it's like we're together already. Only, my love is there, and I'm not sure about his. He's said that he loves me, but I'm just not sure.
He's also not the best boyfriend material, if you know what I mean. He has this really nasty reputation about doing drugs, getting with girls all the time, having tons of problems. And he's definatly not someone that I would usually date. I mean, the other night, when we were saying good-bye, he had to get me out of the house first so his friend wouldn't see him and I kiss. Which is totally lame.
When he's around his friends he acts different. He acts as though he doesn't care about me. And it hurts like hell, but I can't stop thinking about him. I've really fallen for him, and no matter how much I try not to, I always find myself waiting for him to invite me over. I just don't know what to do. Please help me!


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Kaylax3 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 5:41 pm:
I think you should talk to him about his problems with drugs and about his other problems. You should also ask him if theres a reason he can't kiss you infront of his friends and if he truly loves you. If he begins to get deffensive or doesn't show that you do mean something to him then you should find someone new. I hope I helped!

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xaDvIcERsAiRx answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 5:30 pm:
if he's two faced like that, dont even bother.
but if you really do love him, tell him that you wont be w/ him if he's doing all the drugs and if he's going to be two faced.
^*sarah*^

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