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Hey, I'm a 14 year old horse back rider. I have 2 horses named Jewel and Skye, 4 dogs plus 7 I'm training(with my family), and 2 parakeets. Also I have a dog boarding kennel in my back yard. I have lots of animals ya think?! I love all feedback and questions just let me know your problem and I'll write back. Also when I ask a question I rate it in my opinion I don't want any hard feelings by it.


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i want a bra that doesnt give me any padding, but i dont want a sports bra. wut kind should i get?
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there is a bra shaped like its padded bra but it isnt it is a little thicker than a sports bra thinner than a padded they are really comfy I used them after sports bras and before I used padded


Alrighty so i just got my tongue pierced about 4pm today. And it hurt very much but i have my belly,nose,and a bunch in my ears. I wanted to know if i should be expecting anything? I know its gunna swell,because its starting to right now. But for how long? and i cant eat anything.When will i be able to? Any tricks you can tell me so it wont hurt as much? or swell as much?(it doesnt realy hurt THAT bad, but a little) So, any ideas or anything?

Thank you soo much! (link)
Keep sucking on ice.


ok well me and my "bf" want to go somewhere special and we dont want to go to the movies been there done that to many times! and not my house b.c heres the thing i want to tell him i love him for the first time!! and he has something to give me and things like that so not my house to many people, there is like 8 people there. not his house his mom is all over his kids when girls coome over, well thats what he said. so any ideas its tongiht or tomorrow but i need answers quick thanx! (link)
Ok I am going to list because I am in the mood to. LOL

- Pizza
- Bike Ride
- Drive-In
- Mall


Sorry I'll message you back if I think of anything else.


How do you know if someone is a true friend? (link)
when all my friends turned on me 1 person stayed by me that was my true friend so a true friend to me is person whosticks by me even if i do wrong or if other people are being stupid hope i helped


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Hey everyone.

I recently met a really great guy named Collin about a week ago. Ever since we met, we've hung out together 2 times. He seems amazing & we talk on the phone every night. Problem is he's 23 years old & I'm 16. I know, I know - big problem. It sucks. I never thought my parents would ever make such a big deal out of something, especially age - since they started dating when my dad was 21 & my mom was 16.

Everyone in my family thinks it's a HORRIBLE idea. They all tell me it makes them feel sick that he's even wanting to be around people my age. He's in college & he's an all-around great guy that just seems to be interested in me. We're great when we're together & we don't push things on each other. It's just like a relationship where we have mutual feelings.

I have no idea where to go from this point on. Both of my parents said they don't want me to see him anymore. [I never in a million years thought they would EVER tell me I couldn't see someone.] I know if I sit down & talk to them, and try and change their minds, they may. I just have no idea what to say.

My eldest sister, whose 29 years old is super close to my parents, so she's of course giving her opinions on the situation, and they're all bad, like "She shouldn't see him!" & "I don't want to meet him - he's not coming to my wedding!" & all of those negative things.

Please help.
Although I will want to hear all of the reasons why I shouldn't continue a relationship, please give me some ideas to where I could continue it. I don't think I could end it right now, it just seems way too much for me.

Thanks in advance. (link)
my parents are 11 years apart do a guilt trip because technically they are being hippocrits right?


My dog just got put down. I miss her so much, how do I learn to forget about her? (link)
Ok I had my 14 year old dog that I've had my whole life put down a couple months ago. Listen don't try to forget about her. It will make it hurt more trust me. What helped me was I made a collage (pernounced coe-la-zch) of her life. Put it on your wall and everyday you feel bad think about what your dog would want you to feel like. Be happy for her life and now you don't have the responsability and you will have time for other things. Just don't forget her.

Need anymore help just msg me I have been through it and I know how it feels.

Jenni



P.s. my other dog had puppies and I named the puppy Babe Jr. (babe was my old dog) and it is like a memorial and it still reminds me of the fun we had.


well, i have an ash blonde hair color. it's blonde but it has like this touch of ash and it's a very uncommon haircolor. like not that many people have it. I LOVE MY HAIR! but, recently i just was wondering what i would look like as a brunet. like, a light brown/medium brown hair? but, i'm afraid to use hair dye because what if i never get my ash blonde back? is there anything i can use that won't harm my hair as much.l i hear celophane might work and henna. but, i wanted to get the opinion of others before i went ahead and did it because i
just want to see how i look like with brown hair, i want my blonde hair back after (link)
If you want a definate answer get a cheap bran and do a little strip of hair and see compared to normal if you like it and if it will go back to normal.




Jenni


my boyfriend told me hes in love with me. he looked into my eyes and said it and i think im in love with him too.his friends always tell me that im all he talks about and when im with him he kisses my hand and does the sweetest things and he always says never to let go of him.also he invites me to all his lacrosse games and he ditches his friends just to see me even if its only for 30 minutes...thats a pretty big deal right?when guys are the first ones to say it..they mean it right? or could he have said that because hes afaid of losing me?? (link)
You are soooo lucky! Most girls (me included) would die for a guy like that. Also he said he loves you first is a big deal he is showing true companionship and not the petty teenager act. You should be so glad to have someone that cares for you like that. :-)


Jenni


ok so i always wear pretty much the same color make-up every day and i really wanna try something new does ne one have suggestions? like what color eye shadows and eyeliners would look good? thanks

i have light brown hair and light green eyes if that helps = ] (link)
I would say maybe something classy like a thin black eyeliner, white glimmery eyeshadow, and a little mascara. It's kinda hard to tell with out seeing you, but also maybe even a green eyeliner to make your eyes POP!!!

Hope I Helped!
Jenni


it was my friends bday today but im not gonna see her until monday so thats when im gonna give her her gift. shes turning 14 and shes also leaving for overnight camp on tuesday does anyone have any ideas of what i could get her???
i was thinking of getting her a gift card or something but idk.

thanks (link)
HAS A CELL? GET HER A
case
minutes

LIKES MUSIC
cd
poster of favorite band

MISC
journal set
gift card to fav store
a cool belt

i cant think of anything else sorry


Im 14yrs old almost 15 and my height is 5'1,and too small for my age{i know}.My weight is 121pounds and I think im fat !.I dont want to eat anymore because I dont wanna gain weight.I exercise 3 TO 4 TIMES a week but is not working plz help me! (link)
im 13 5 foot and only weigh 105 i am considered unhealthy by my doctor he says i should at least weigh 110 so dont think ur fat u most likely are at a perfect weight even if you rnt it shouldnt matter as long as you feel good about your self


how do i change the sounds of notifications on aim, when people are away, or return from aay, etc? (link)
my aim, edit options, edit prefrences, buddy list, sounds

or



my aim, edit options, edit prefrences, IM/Chat/Mobile, sounds

hope i helped thats what i do on my computer it should work :-/


Hi, my daschund puppy (8 month) just got in heat about a week ago. I have a male daschund who is not neutered and i plan to breed them but im not sure if i need to wait until the second heat, or if its ok to let them now? Also, she is wearing a diaper right now to prevent pregnancy and so that the blood will not get everywhere. If it is not safe for them to have puppies this early, how long do i keep the diaper on her? And one more question, how many puppies will she likely have? Thank you, Lindsey (link)
I train dogs with my family i talked with our vet (a good friend) he said 2nd might even be early and that the safest was the 3rd or even later hope i helped Jen


i've got a broken leg and it has to stay in a cast for weeks. I mean, ages! Im stuck with not a lot to do so im just eating loads of rubbish and im worried im gonna get fat.

how can i exercise so that i dont put on loadsa weight without actually hurtin my leg real bad? (link)
i had a broken leg too i sat on my couch and lifted weights also i walked a LOT on my crutch so i could stay fit good luck anymore questions ask me cuz ive been there im here to help


For the past 4 days I have been SOOOO tired. I've been so tired to the point where I couldn't function and I almost forgot where I was. I got 10 hours of sleep 3 days ago, 8 and a half hours of sleep 2 days ago, and like 15 hours of sleep yesterday so it's not because I'm sleepy. I'm just so tired and I can barely move. And my body doesn't hurt. I DONT have a stomach or head ache or anything, I'm just soooo tired. I took my temperature and It's 98.7 so it's normal. It hasn't stopped for 4 days!!! I went to bed at 4 in the afternoon yesterday and slept until 10 a.m so I wouldn't feel tired today, but I still feel just as tired! Even when I pulled an all nighter about 6 months ago, I still didn't feel as tired then as I do now! I have no energy whatsoever and I drank a lot of water so I'm hydraded. I don't know what's wrong with me. What could be causing me being sooo tired and feeling so weak? (link)
i have no idea what it is but it sounds bad so id recomend a doc


Hello, I'm a girl and I'm 14. I have a lot of fat around my buttocks, thighs, and my stomach. I'm actually had a woman at an amusement park ask me if I was pregnant! (If I was she wasn't going to let me ride a certain thing.) I didn't think I looked that bad until that day so now I'm worried about losing weight. I'm 130 pounds so I figure my goal will be to lose 20 pounds, but more importantly lose the fat. Has anyone got any tips, rountines, and exercises I should try? I like in the country so I haven't got any good places to run and it's so hot here. I can't swim, btw. Anyway, please help me lose the extra pounds so I can feel confident again! (link)
what i did/do is i have a workout bike i set it in front of the tv and watch my fav tv show and work hard and steady for a half hour every day u could use a treadmill or just do push ups or sit ups good luck


well people i have been volenteering at the local pool with swimming lessons...and i recently had 4 classes and i got a sunburn and i need it to stop the pain...so what should i do....i hvent taken a shower yet but will it be bad if I do!please give me all the advice you can....

thanks,
meghan (link)
aloe vera plaster it on and let it soak in go swimming in a cool pool


so one night i got a little sexual with this one guy then the next night he asked me out and now were all sexual and all but when his freinds asks if were going out he says kinda and we always get sexual if he comes over i try and talk but its hard too so we get sexual instead its like awkward silence so its like a replacement for talking..
i dont want to break up with him..
so i guess my question is..
how do i get to know him?
and make him like me for me..
not my body? (link)
go somewhere you wont "do it" like the mall or something so then you'll have to talk


my period is really heavy like the first 3 days! well i dont care during the day because i wear tampons but at night i wear pads. i usually have to wear like 4 seriously big pads because its so heavy at night and sometimes that even leaks through! i heard that wearing a tampon for a long time like overnight is bad for you and you are at higher risk for that TSS or whatever! soo is it? or what should i do? im even on birth control lol and im 16/f. and thats why i went on birth control because i thought it would help my heavy flow but it doesnt seem to work. (link)
if you get up in the middle of the night to change it its fine or if you sleep less than 8 hours at night its fine but if not NOO it can cause TSS(toxic shock syndrome) your best bet is to just wear a pad


Well my dad died a few years back, and my mom has been depressed and lonely ever since. She tells me all the time that it's hopeless for her to find a single guy her age anymore (45, but she doesn't near look it). Just last night she said to me, 'Honey, I'm lonely,'. And it broke my heart, because she loved my dad, but she hasn't found anyone. She has tried online dating and that wasn't her thing. What are some of your ideas for my mom to meet men? Thank you so much for your help! (link)
if she has interests like football (example) then go to a football game and chat around or maybe have a personal high school reunion at your house and talk to some of her old friends im only 13 so i dont know much about it but hey at least they are ideas




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