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Okay. School started for us on August 25th. And i ran into an old friend at a new school that i had transferred to. I haven't seen him in about six years. So we talked...and it seemed like the relationship began to grow and everything, and we started talking. About a week in a half later, he told me that he was feeling guilty. When i asked him why he said, because before i even came along, he had full intentions of dating one of his old girlfriends, and her the same. He also told me that he had some relationship problems. So reluctantly, i told him that he needed to go back to her and work it out. It hurt me to say so, but i was thinking about her and how she should be feeling. And then about a few days later, I heard that she was talking about me and saying stuff like "I don't like her ass." and "I don't know who she think she is trying to get with him." And that hurt me even worse. I'm still in love with him, and he keeps saying the same to me. So i guess you can say i'm in a tug-of-war deal with all this. I've sacrificed everything for him. But i mean, if he's saying all this to me, then what's stopping us from being us...It just hurts me whenever i see them walking in the halls, or hugging and everything...i just love him so much...Please help. What do you think i should do? (link)
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I am 15 and dealing with stuff like this. What i do is wait it out. If they break up, ask him out. If not, there are other fish in the sea so to speak
Hope that helps!
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for a 19 y/o and a 15 y/o to date?
ive already told them that its wrong (at least in my opinion) for them to "do stuff" with each other
but is it wrong for them to just date, if they dont take it further? (link)
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If it is true love, i don't see why not. If they are truly in love now, they will be in a few years from now when the 15 year old is legally old enough to marry.
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15/f
i have suffered with acne for what it seems like FOREVER and im SICK OF IT. i just want it gone!but whenever i go to the dermotologist or doctor they say i have 'mild' acne and when i beg for something they give me a weak ointment to use that deosnt do crap.
so i talked to my mom and told her to call my docter and tell him to either give me accutane or birth control cause this is rediculous.
so my doc finally called back and was like no i dont want her to becuase accutane has so many side effect (my brother was on it though!) and that he didnt want me to be on birth control becuase i already have migraines and it would mess with them. so idk what to do!
im like begging my mom to call back and tell him i dont care and that i just want to be on something cause i want my face to be perfect so shes gonna try but i dont know if he'll let me! and i also asked him to let me on doxycycline hycl...whatever but he wouldnt let me cause it turns your teeth brown. UHG!
idk what to do! this is so stupid and its my body i dont get why he wont let me decide what i can take!
does anyone know any other acne medications to take? that work?
please please please thank you! (link)
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I dont know if this helps, But im 15 as well. I also suffer with acne. If you want to TRY Clearasil or Zapzyt and apply it twice a day every day it SHOULD start making a difference. Just be patient.
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sooo ok dont judge me because im asking this. im completely normal, i just love my boyfriend so much. weve been dating for 2 years and he suffers from schitzophrenia and he refuses to take medication because he hates the way it makes him feel. i feel so horrible 4 him because he is in so much pain and its just getting so much worse. i know he doesnt want to live anymore. yesterday he asked me to kill him and at first i didnt think he was serious but we talked for a while and he said it was the only way or he would do it himself. i dont want him to go to hell for committing suicide so i told him i would kill him so id go to hell instead. i havnt decided if im going to kill myself yet because my boyfriend says he doesnt want me to do that. but i dont know if i could deal with the fact i killed the boy im in love with. but what happens if a 16 year old kills another 16 year old who asked her to do it? jail? death penalty? psychiatric center forever? im not crazy im just putting the one i love out of his misery because i cant stand him being in pain any longer. id rather be in pain for him. just wanna know what would happen. dont try to do all that talking out of it and stuff either. wont work. thanks (link)
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TELL SOMEONE! if he is really serious about it, then he (or you) needs to talk about this to authority whom are trained in this matter.
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How to get a boy to like you? Im 13 and a female (link)
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There isn't a specific way. What i was told when i was your age was to be yourself and you will find the right guy some day. Everyone has a soul mate, they just have to find them. Be yourself; that would get you the right kind of boys.
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So I'm 15/f and I have my first boyfriend. We've been going out for about two weeks and I haven't kissed him yet, and neither of us have ever kissed anybody before. I'm pretty nervous, and I'm sure that he is, too, but I'm going over his house in a few days and we're going to be alone, so that will probably be a good time to get my first kiss, and for him to get his. I really don't want to screw anything up, so does anyone have any advice on how to go about this? Thanks so much, I really appreciate it :)
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What I did when I had my first kiss was that I first kissed him on the cheek. If he kisses ur cheek back, maybe you can try a peck on the lips. Hope this helps.
Janie93
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well me and my boyfriend are very happy and falling in love, but I haven't seen him in a month and its so hard! what are some things I can do to get him off my mind? besides phone calls and texting him. because it makes me miss him more. (link)
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Try hanging out with your friends. Find something you and your friends are both interested in. That way you are thinking about something else.
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Okay, So I'm 15 years old,a girl. Sophomore soon to be Junior this fall. I met this guy in theatre awhile ago. We'll call him A. He's 20 years old now. I have liked him for so long and I've had a feeling he liked me too. So one night he came over for dinner and my parents really like him. He also asked me to the movies before then, but my dad was not going for it. So we talk on the phone occasionally text alot. Then the other night we kind of told eachother how we felt. He actually likes me too. We just know this age thing isn't going to workout. Also, he's transferring to another college in the state in late August. So I was wondering what I should do. I mean the next day after we talked. We hung out. We kissed. Alot. So I'm just wondering how I should go about this. I've never fell for a guy this hard. This sweet and such. I just don't want to be more hurt when he leaves then I would have if nothing happened at all.[BTW he's not like a pedaphile or anything. I know he's old and all but nothing like that.]
Thanks for any help you can give me. (link)
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ok, so he's five years older than you, so what? My parents are eight years apart and they are yelling at me to not date 2 years over. I say age is a state of mind, if you don't state it, we don't mind. If you like him like you say you do, then nothing, no one should hold you back.
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So, I work with this guy. We've worked together for quite sometime and for the past two or so months I've had a ginormous crush on him. Lately, we've neem flirting more than usual. (E.g., now we play fight in lobby, he puts his arm around my shoulder, he plays with my hair, sticks out his tongue at me, etc.) So, seeing as I'm afraid to tell him I like him.. I don't know what to do. I don't want to jump to conclusions and just assume he likes me. So, I'm looking for another opinion.
That's where you come in.
Please and thanks. :) (link)
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ASK HIM OUT! i mean, what's the worst that can happen, really? Ok, so maybe he says no, but that doesn't mean that he's the only one that you like. There are other fish in the sea, so to speak. If he says yes, make sure you know what the limits are with eachother so you don't go "too far"
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basically, a few months ago, i started seeing a guy, who i really, really like. he said all this stuff to me, like how he really liked me, how amazing he thought i was ;/. i went away for a little while, before i went he promised me he would still like me when i came back, funnily enough, i came back and he was going out with somone eles. i buried it and pretended not to care, but felt horrible inside. it had been a while and i hadn't seen him properly, but whenever we spoke on msn, he would either flirt or act really off. a few days ago, i was drunk, and told him i still liked him on msn, he said he didnt know if he liked me like that, but we decided to meet up, even though he was still going out with that girl but he said he was really considering dumping her. i met up with him with my best friend and another guy, to be honest the day was awful and awkward, i just felt completely crap after because i still really liked him. now affter that i find out he added my best friend on msn (who was with us that day), who i love soo much like a sister, and started to tell her how amazing SHE was and how they should meet up. my best friend did the right thing to tell me, but ran away from her in tears, i have no clue whats going on beetween them, i'm too scared to talk to him and i don't want to involve people, i just feel so crappy and like i'm stuck in a huge hole right now, because i really like him :/ please somone, help.x (link)
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Ok, dont let this ruin your friendship. Sure, they like each other, and sure, she's like a sister to you, but that doesn't mean that they dont care about your feelings. Talk to them. Tell them how this makes you feel. If the boy says "I like her" then maybe you should find another boy. There are other fish in the sea, so to speak, so go for it!
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for an exam i have to design a quiz like 'who wants to be a millionaire'
The show has to be educational, appealing and most of all fun!
I need good ideas for the set design, the question format, prizes and scheduling.
This is king of urgent please help (link)
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The design should be classic...maybe a $ sign. Educational can be fun. Try putting in questions like: in 1492, Who sailed the ocean blue? Prizes should be "free spa day" pieces of paper. Scheduling should be on Weekends.
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so i dated this guy, lets say A.. we dated for a year and it was love, we both were very much in love with each other, we were like each other's firsts and all that. but then he had to move overseas for university, and i was all heartbroken for a couple of months. but then i started talking to one of his childhood friends, we all went to the same school and within a month of talking to A's friend, lets say B, i started to like him. and this was like 4 months after A and i broke up. we barely talked, i kinda said things i shouldn't have and it was just very bad and not exactly what i had in mind after our relationship. and so with B, he really liked me and we started dating, for about 2 months, then i had to leave too. i still really like him and i think he does too, he says im his first love, and he really did LOVE me!
now, i just feel kinda lost and i know what i did was wrong, im busy running away from it and pretending it never happpened. but it did. and so i dont know what to do.
B and i decided not to tell A ever! because it would ruin our relationships with him and he'd be miserable. please help me, im so confused and i feel guilty too! most definately! :(
thanks. (link)
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The best thing...even though it may come between people...is always tell the truth. If you feel guilty, talk to A about your feelings for B. If B really loves you, he should stand up to A for you, even if he isn't your friend anymore, you should tell him.
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I like this guy alot and he likes me alot too. The thing is he has had alot of girlfriends and i have never had a boyfriend before. We have been talking for like a week and he wants to go out with me but im scared. Im scared because i know how he is he gets mad over stupid things and i dont want to get hurt. Today i found out that he was staying after school to talk with his ex to see if they could get back together. I dont know what to do becase i am so upset about it. I want to go out with him but at the same time im scared to. THANKS FOR YOUR HELP!!!!!! (link)
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It may be hard, but since you feel threatened or scared, you should always stay away...i wouldn't ask him out. :(
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so at my school there having this 8th grade farewell dance. and i want to go with this one kid that i kinda like. lets call him taylor. well he's like really cool and i love his personality and he's pretty good looking. lol. anyways i want to go with him but im scared that he wont ask me. should i just ask him? if i should how do i ask him. and im one of those people who HATE being rejected. like i take it so personally and if he says no it might ruin our friendship and i don't want that AT ALL.
so help.
please and thanks.
-cuttechick24 (link)
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Try having your friends ask him out for you. That way, if it is a no, they can let you down far more easier than what they can do. GO FOR IT!!!
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15/f
does anyone have any fun ideas for a 16th birthday, thats parentally approved? (link)
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go to your favorite dinner place and invite everyone to a movie that is PG-13 or lower
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okay so i started talking to this guy, we talked for probably 4 hours. some for facebook. then over text, he was telling me how pretty i was and how my ex was stupid for breaking up with me and all this stuff, and how we should hangout. The next day i texted him, and i never got a response, and i haven't talk to him since that night which was friday. Nor has he been on facebook. What do you thinks going on, also my phone keeps messing up and not sending texts to somepeople but idk if he was one of them. (link)
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He is probably grounded right now. Give him a few weeks to resolve this problem and text him or message him on facebook then.
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How do I show a guy whom I am in love with what he means to me when we don't live in the same town and he now has a new girlfriend, but he does like me because he said so but to be fair to his girlfriend he has pushed those feelings out. I want to be with him and would do anything for him but how do I show or prove to him that we are meant to be together and how much I care?
I know he still likes me but he says it is different now because of this new girlfriend. We talk but not often. I did tell him that I was in love with him and he couldn't say anything to it. He says on certain level he is in love with his girlfriend and yes he says he has 'strong feelings' for her? Is he a lost cause? Should I just put my feelings that tear my up inside aside so he can be happy or do I continue talking with him? My heart wants to be with him and it's killing me that I'm not :(.
I have tried moving on from him - actually I am 'seeing' this guy (guyx) but everytime I talk to 'guyx' all I think of is the other guy who consumes my thoughts and heart. I don't know what to do :( (link)
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I know that what you are going through is hard. My advice to you would be to not talk at all to him if all you want to do is date him and be nothing less than that.
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when we first started dating my ex gave me a little heart necklace with our names on it. we broke up about a week ago but ill be seeing him today. should i give him it back? do guys take it as an insult? like a side of me wants to keep it to remember my first love but then the other side of me wants to get over him as soon as possible...what should i do? (link)
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If you feel the need to give it back, do so. If not, just keep it. Either way there are good and bad situations. Weigh the situation and its outcomes before deciding whether or not to give it back.
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i woke up on sunday morning and my foot was really hurting. i couldnt even walk on them without severe pain shooting up my leg. i looked at it later and my last two toes are waaaaay swollen. they are still swollen now, and i dont think the swelling is going down at all.
does anyone know whats going on with me? (link)
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i know this is redundant, but have a doctor look at it.
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Well my best friends boyfriend and me used to like really close then recently me and him grew apart and he has been a complete ass to me. He asked my friend not to talk to me that much anymore and if she listens to him i dont know what im going to do. But she would never break up with him and if he said he was going to break up with her cuz of me i no she would never talk to me again cuz she really loves him. what do i do? (link)
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I would talk to your best friend and tell her how you feel. If not her, then talk to her boyfriend. One of them has GOT to listen to you!
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