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asking a guy to a dance
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so at my school there having this 8th grade farewell dance. and i want to go with this one kid that i kinda like. lets call him taylor. well he's like really cool and i love his personality and he's pretty good looking. lol. anyways i want to go with him but im scared that he wont ask me. should i just ask him? if i should how do i ask him. and im one of those people who HATE being rejected. like i take it so personally and if he says no it might ruin our friendship and i don't want that AT ALL.
so help.
please and thanks.
-cuttechick24
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Try having your friends ask him out for you. That way, if it is a no, they can let you down far more easier than what they can do. GO FOR IT!!!
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Well, you said it might ruin your friendship, so it's good that you're already friends with him. First, make sure he doesn't have a date. If he doesn't then hint around about it a little bit. Mention the dance in a conversation. If he doesn't catch the bait, just come out and ask him. Say, "Hey, I was thinking of going to the farewell dance. Neither of us have dates. We should go together?" That way if he does say no, it won't be that much of a rejection since you were so casual and not weird about it. It would be a lot worse if you were like, "Hey, I think you're really cool and I like you. I want to go to the farewell dance with you." Then if he said no, it would be awkward and a harder rejection. It's hard to reject someone when they're cool and collected about it, like it's just a friendly thing.
Hope this works,
Darby(:
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