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Hey everyone!! My name is Kristen, I'm 15, Single, and love playing volleyball!![A]ge: 15..going on 16!!
[B]irthday: February 2!
[C]olor(s): Pink
[D]ream boy: Nice guy, Good personality, Sweet, Interesting, Social, Loving, Caring, and looks are just a plus!
[E]yes: Brown
[F]riends (best): Mara Spagnoli!!
[G]reatest things: Family, Friends, Sports, Summer!!
[H]air: Brown w/ Blonde Highlights
[I]nterest(s): Hanging out with friends, talking online, shopping, playing volleyball!!
[J]ealous of: Mara
[K]razy?: I guess sometimes
[L]ocation: Chicago Illinois/Mount Greenwood
[M]arital status: Single..not really liking it
[N]ame: Kristen
[O]bsession: Volleyball and Friends
[P]izza(s): Cheese and Pepperoni
[Q]uestion: hm....
[R]andom: Yes...
[S]chool: Marist High School
[T]alent: Volleyball, and Having a good time
[U]nbelievablly Embarrasing moment: Way too many to just put one.
[V]ery best thing about me: Personality
[W]orst thing about me: Don't know
[X]..yah nothing begins with X: Xtreme?
[Y]ummies: Chocolate Shakes
[Z]odiac: Aquarius
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ok heres my problem.. i like these 2 guys. One is my best friends ex. boyfriend and they broke up a few days ago. Hes a sophmore. And hre goes to Ligonier. (Cord Taylor) The other one is a senior at Mt. Pleasant. (Spank Kastner) I dont know which one i like more. Mostly every weekend im with Cord and we might go tro Fright Nights this weekend. But if he takes another girl then i wanted to take Spank. Spank knows i like him though. His uncle told him biut i dont have the guts to tell Cord. My one friend was supposed to talk to him butidk if she did or not.
I want to go out with one of them that i can havbe fun with. Cause every time i go with friends, they always have a boyfriend or girlfriend with them and im always left out.
What can i do? i need help and alot of advice.
Signed:
Troublesome Redneck
Well don't have your friend talk to him for you because things could be said that wrong way (i'm not saying they will im saying they could) talk to him yourself and you should see how he feels about you..do this for both of them and if both feel the same way about you go with the one who you feel safe, comfortable, and can have a good time with! Good Luck! let me know what happens!
Ok, I am dating this guy, we have been together for a while now and every time I go somewhere, my mom doesn’t want me to be with him, my mom hates him basically… and I wish she didn’t cuz I really love him and he loves me, but it is hard with my mom, so every time I go somewhere with a friend of mine, I sneak him with us, and every time I go anywhere, I sneak to his house or whatever. We’re not having sex, but we are getting to know each other pretty darn good. And I hate having to sneak him with me, but it is the only way we can spend time together, and I feel really bad having to lie to my mom to spend time with him. I’m 17 and I believe my mom should let me see him…what should or could I do to improve my situation…he knows how bad I feel having to lie to see him, but I love him and it will be worth it in the end. I just don’t know what to do, I don’t wanna sneak and lie until I turn 18.
You shouldn't have to lie about seeing your boyfriend..and your mom shouldn't stop you from seeing him..just because your mom doesn't like him doesn't mean that you don't have feelings for him and that you shouldn't hang around with him. You should tell your mom how much he means to you and that you love him and maybe just maybe she migth change her mind. Sneaking around to see the one you love isn't something you should have to do. sorry if this didnt help.
i came to school today thinking i dont have friends anymore and that id have nobody toturn to if anything happened well i found out different except i still find somethings are wrong and stuff... for a while like an hour today i kept thinking of killing myself... i know it sounds serious but i dont think i would have really done it... should i get conseuling or just leave it alone... i think im in control of how i feel so it really wouldnt matter this was the first time i ever thought fo doing this... i also thought of cutting but im not the kind of person that wears sweaters and stuff so everybody would know and that whould get my friends not tlking to me... they would kill me so whatever... but is this something i need to tlk to somebody about? i think it just might be that i need some more sleep because i know i wake up tired and im tired for most of the day... like i am now. but im pretty sure i got over the killing myself thing.
Don't kill yourself...just sit down and think of every thing you have in your life to live for..your friends should be there for you all the time..(even if you did cut your friends shouldn't turn away from you they should try to help you) you don't actually need couseling but just think of what you have to look forward to in the future...if its not good then try and change it..its never too late to make changes...hope I helped!
I am so sexually confused! One second I'm bi and another I'm
gay! I am 14yr.s old a freshmen, confused on what my sexuality is. People says I'm gay, but I still think girls are cute, but I would
rather go with a boy. So what am I!?! Need answers...
First of all don't listen to what other people have to say. Just because your different from everyone doesn't mean that you should be criticized for it. And secondly you still think girls are cute your not gay..if you would rather be with a guy that's fine.. the question is would you be with a girls or would you rather be with a boy 100%? Either way if you are bi or gay it doesn't matter.. Be who and what you want to be.. no one else matters
Okay, just for a little background info, my guy and I have been together eleven months in 2 days. We're totally in love, I know he'd never cheat on me, and I totally trust him.
He told me that he went clubbing with his guyfriends and was kind of surrounded by girls (I don't doubt this, he's really hot...*drool*), and was dancing with them and all that...
His guyfriends apparently were telling him "ooh, your girlfriend's gonna be pissed" and stuff like that, and he said I wouldn't.
The thing is, I told him I wasn't, but I kind of am...I mean, I've always said "oh, I'm not the jealous type" and I'm not, really. I trust him, and I know it's not cheating. It's just dancing. But it still bothers me for some reason.
I don't want to make him think I don't want him to talk to girls or anything, lol. I mean, that's hypocritical. Most of my friends are guys.
What should I do/say? Should I do/say anything, or just leave it alone?
I think that you shouldn't say anything to him, because if he wasn't cheating on your with them or doing anything that would get you upset then you have nothing to worry about! I know that at times you may doubt him but you just have to trust him, if he does do anything then it should bug him enough where he would come out and tell you about it. Just see how it goes and if its brought up again then yeah maybe mention something to him..hope i helped
Ok. Well ive gone out with this guy right? Lets call him James. But that was two years ago when me and james were in the 8th grade and he didnt take relationships seriously therefore never kept a girlfriend for more than 3 weeks. So anyways now me and James are best friends, but we like each other again. I dont know if I should go out with him though because I do not want to ruin our friendship. My question is for all you guys who went through this and did go out after being best friends, when/if you guys broke up, did you stay friends? or did it change?
I have done this with 2 of my friends..I did go back out with both of them..and both of the out comes were good..me and both of the guys are still really good friends..it might be different with you..hoped this helped if not sorry!
I don't think I react to things the way I should,
I lost my father in 97 and I didn't cry all the much and I loved my father very much, then in 2002 I lost my Brother to A Car Crash, and I just don't think I was as sad as I should have been I know you guys are probally think I am cold hearted and made of stone. I fear the same I mean I feel regular emotions like LOVE and anger, and Joy. But when it comes to sadness I just kinda of go numb is something wrong with me, or am I just worrying too much?
I lost my dad in 2003 and a really close friend in 2003 also..I wasn't as sad for my friend as I was for my dad..I thought I was cold hearted too but trust me your not at all..you have different feelings and reactions to others and other things..not all your feelings are the same..Don't worry about being cold hearted if anyone ever tells you that you are dont listen to them..I know it was your brother but still you at least have feelings and you did cry right? Your fine don't worry about a thing!! let me know if it gets better or worse!
hey!
this question isn't for me it's my friend, i need to know what to tell him.
ok..
my friend and his girlfriend were going out...all is happy. Well, then one of his ex-girlfriends gave him a note that said she wanted to go back out with him. well he hadn't talked to her in a while, and he started to talk to her again. so she assumed that meant they were going back out. well he's all caught up in it and he's not a cheater...he's really not.he hates when people do that. but now since he's gotten all caught up in it he doesn't know what to do. he really likes his original girlfriend, but this other girl thinks that they're going out and doesn't know about the other girl.
so what should i tell him?
sry it's kind of long and confusing...
You should tell him to talk to his ex and find out what she thinks and if she does think that they are going out then he should simply tell her that they aren't. His ex could be jealous of him because she's not going out with him another girl is. And if he really likes his current girlfriend then keep that relationship because it could lead to good things!! Let me know how it turns out if you can...
my cousin got me and her boyfriends brother 2 talk. and well he goes 2 my school now, hes a sophmore and im a freshman. we "got to know each other" for about 2 weeks. and we were just friends with benefits, and well after the two weeks he finaly asked me out, and its almost 2 weeks that weve been 2gether. and we are really close! and were planning on having sex, and were both virgins! im just nervous! any advice?!
Use protection..don't do it if you don't want to..if you are that nervous about it wait..don't jump right into things and if he's forcing you to do this then tell him no and leave! Not too much of a help sorry!
My Ex is one of my best friends now and I have a new Boyfriend and He has a new Girlfriend... But today at lunch he pulled me aside and said this:
"If we were together again, like we were at one time, would you try harder to make it workout?" Now This has me seriously confused and I dont know how to take it So I just replied "I dunno" Wat did he mean?
He may be jealous of you and the fact that you have a boyfriend..He might still have serious feelings for you..you should sit down and talk him about this him because if you guys both still have feelings for each other and you want to make it work again you should try it! Hope it helped!
can you get preagnet by giving bjs?
There is no possible way for you to get pregnant from just doing that!!
hey
I just got my homecoming pictures back from wallgreens and the ones other people took of me and my friends are really dark because i 4got to remind people to use the flash. Can any place add light to pictures? Or no? If so where can i get it done. How much $?
I'm not sure if they can lighten them..but maybe take them back tonight or tomorrow to walgreens and ask them if there is anyway possible to get them lightened. The kodak pictures makers might be able to do that but I'm not positive. Sorry!
ok last week a well used to be friend of mine KNEW i liked this guy and tehn he asked her out and she rubbed it in my face and i wanted to kill her *still do* but teh guy is my best friend and well now were not even talkin in school but online hes like "oh ur my homi and i'm ur homi were best friends u no that" and its so fuckin not true cause he totaly dosen't even talk to me anymore and i'm like fine so yesterday i bitched at him *sorry for all teh cursing* and i got in his face *online unfortunitly* and yelled at him and he gave me the whole why are u acting like this were friends blah blah blah well i'm pissed at him for being such an asshole to me and like expecting me to not be mad at her and to top it off is yellin at me for not talkin to her WHEN THE BITCH IS SPPREADIN SHIT ABOUT ME AND TELLIN EVERYONE CRAP AND HE WONDERS WHY I"M PISSED
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
sorry to u guys i just needed to vent a little lol
Its ok don't worry about it that's why were here to listen to you and try and help you. This sadly just happened to me over the summer. I really liked this kid and my friend knew it but she turned around and started to like him and they had feelings for each other and it would have gone farther but he cared too much about our friendship and his other friends too. But if you guys have been friends for a long time you should really tell him how you feel about him and how this girl is spreading rumors (if you may) about you, and what's the worse that could happen? Yeah I know he can say "we're better off being friends", but atleast you let him know how you feel. Let him know how he is treating you and how it is hurting you...try to have a conversation with him without yelling because if too much is said or done you might ruin the friendship...just let him know how you feel and that's the only thing you can do. It's his fault if he doesn't want to act upon it..he's the one missing out not you!! Hope it helped..if it didn't I'm really sorry!!
Ok, well there is this guy that I kind of like, and he is a year older than me (he's a sophmore, i'm a freshman) and mii sister is a sophmore, and she was talking to him and asked him if there was any freshmans that he would go to homecoming with, and he said my best friend and me were the only two. Does that mean he likes me, or just knows me really good (we are neighbors, and it is all sophmores and freshman around our block) And should ii just wait and see what happens, or just forget about it..? Thanks!
In a way it could mean both. He may like you but is afraid to say something because you might say no or tell him you don't feel that way. Or he may just think of you as a really close friend like a sister maybe. I would wait and see what happens, and not just let it go because if there was something and you didn't show any interest in it he may think that you don't like him and will forget about it too. It's good to take chances every once in a while, and you shouldn't be afraid to either!! Let me know how it works out.
Okay here's the deal: this girl, who i like to refer to as my best friend. We do a lot together, she slept over about 10 times during the summer. We have soo many pictures together. We talk about everything. I'm 14/f, and i've known her since i was 11. In the past years we've come really close, or so i seem to think. When we're togheter, we have a total blast.. but sometimes when we were with other people, she shys away from me and doesnt pay any attention to me. And i know she used to be really really good friends with 3 of my other friends, they had this little group, u know? And she always talks about how shes been replaced by one of my friends in that group, and talks about how they always leave her out and stuff.. then when were with them she gets all up and tight with them. It really bugs me. Is she like, ashamed of me? I mean i have plenty of other friends, but i really feel strongly about her. She's pretty much the only person i tell everything to. And yea, she tells me a lot too, cause she knows she can trust me with everything. I just don't understand why she can't say i'm her best friend. How would i go about talking to her about this? I really want to but i dont want her to get angry with me.. please help. I know it's long :S sorryyyyy. oh i rate!
I know your sick of hearing this but you need to talk to her and tell her how much your friendship means to you and maybe she doesn't know how she is acting or treating you when you guys are out in a large group. Trying telling her what she's doing and she may begin to realize it and change. That's awesome that you guys talked for a long time..I hope this helped!
look, i go to a british school, and next year i will have to choose my subjects for IGCSE? I am good at both history and Music, but i love music 100% more! the problem is my parents, who do not want me to take music. they feel that history would be much more scoring! but i really, REALLY, love music, and i am good! i learn the Piano, and will be taking grade 6 of the royal schools of msic exam, and i play the flute and the guitar as a hobby. PLEASE HELP ME!!
i need advice!
Take into consideration what your parents said..but over all go for what you want. I think you would rather be happy with your decision to study music, rather than not looking foward to going to study history everyday. Go with what you want to do and not what your parents want.
Hey everybody! My best friend Brooke's mom died last year of ALL (actute lymphoblastic lukemia) she died on October 17th which would be this Saturday. On is the year anniversary of her mom's death and i wanted to do something special for Brooke to show her i care... any suggestions on something i could get her or ne thing i could say? i would really appreciate it!! and i rate every1!
Hey hun...I know this is a very hard thing to deal with. My dad passed away March 29, 2003. My dad and I were really close and all my friends knew how much he meant to me. This year was the 1 year anniversary, and my friends asked me what I wanted to do..I said nothing but hang out with you guys. You don't have to get her something or make special plans, just hanging out for the day with her should show her that you care about her. If you need anything else about this let me know.
14/f I have been friends with Greg for 12 years! We're good friends and have been forever. I found out fairly recently that he likes me romantically, the thing is that I don't like him back. He has been telling my friend that he would do anything to make me like him back. I don't want to hurt his feelings, but I need him to know that I don't like him and there is no future for us. I want him to let go and move on to someone else. How do I make him realize that he needs to move on and how can I help him? I don't want to lose him as a friend.
You've been friends for a long time now, and this isn't something to lose your friendship over. So just tell him that you don't want anything to happen that would or could put your frienship at risk. Tell him how much your friendship means to you! It should be fine!
okay, i have this guy best friend..weve been best friends for like 6 months now..he just gotta gf like 4 months ago,and be4 that he usta REALLY REALLY REALLY Like me more than friends..but then he stopped...recently it REALLY seems like he likes me again, even with his gf, its kinda freakin me out alil..like i really think that he thinks that i like him too..all tha poems i write and put in my aim profile about love i think he thinks is about him..all tha songs i put for my voicemail, i think he thinks are about him...and he has a GF. AND i dont even likke him at ALL like that hes like my brother!!! i have talked to him bout it like 2 months ago, and he REALLY hinted it but didnt admit anything..in a cd he made me there was a song that went like this, "i wish we were more than just friends.."blahblah..its kinda freaking me out...whut do i do :-/ i cant really talk about it with him nemore, i mean i make it realy obvious that i dont want to be more than friends not only cause he has a gf but because i dont like him that way!! help please
I've had this problem myself with a few of my friends. Recently I met this guy over the summer and we were really good friends from the beginning, I went away for a weekend to my cottage in Wisconsin and my friend introduce another girl to him. We sorta liked each other but then he started to like her alot more. It got me mad when he said that he liked her alot. I wrote a poem for him too but told me that "we're better off being friends b/c if something happened and we weren't friends anymore after I would be upset." Well we don't really talk to much anymore or hang out. Back to yours. If you don't like him like that let him know again until he gets it, because if something happens I don't think you want him to get hurt. It's ok if he likes you but you don't like him..its all about what you want the outcome to be. If something gets worse, tell me and I'll try to give you a better answer!