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What do you guys think of this situation?
Okay, just for a little background info, my guy and I have been together eleven months in 2 days. We're totally in love, I know he'd never cheat on me, and I totally trust him.
He told me that he went clubbing with his guyfriends and was kind of surrounded by girls (I don't doubt this, he's really hot...*drool*), and was dancing with them and all that...
His guyfriends apparently were telling him "ooh, your girlfriend's gonna be pissed" and stuff like that, and he said I wouldn't.
The thing is, I told him I wasn't, but I kind of am...I mean, I've always said "oh, I'm not the jealous type" and I'm not, really. I trust him, and I know it's not cheating. It's just dancing. But it still bothers me for some reason.
I don't want to make him think I don't want him to talk to girls or anything, lol. I mean, that's hypocritical. Most of my friends are guys.
What should I do/say? Should I do/say anything, or just leave it alone?
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I'm the same way as you. My boyfriend is drop dead gorgeous and every chick in his school want to do the dirty with him. I went to his homecoming and there was this girl that was like hanging ALL OVER HIM! I got so pissed off. See, I'm normally not the jealous type either but when you hear that other women were hanging all over your man, you're gonna get pissed. If it's really bothering you then talk to him, tell him that it bothered you and if he's loyal like you say he is, then he'll say it meant nothing and reassure you that he'd never do anything to hurt you. Just after that, pretty much just leave it alone. It's really not a big deal. If you really do trust him, you'll know that he's not doing anything. See, it's not him that you don't trust, it's the other girls. Hope this helped.
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maybe when hes going clubbing next time ask to go with then he'll dance with you and not other girls also just tell him your not comfertable with him interacting with girls that way say that you can talk to them and such just tell him that you want the relationship to last and the way to do is to make sure we r comfertable with each others actions. also lay easy you may be over reacting a little on the jelousy you should learn to be more open but its good to be heisatent and cocious and careful
good luck!! sincerly, Chicagostar113
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He sounds like a really dependable guy because he told you about it :o)
But make sure you tell him how you feel about it...calmly...and maybe he won't do it again!
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u need 2 let him no how u feel it wont help u ne 2 keep it in just talk 2 him about it b4 u do something ull regret
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I think that you shouldn't say anything to him, because if he wasn't cheating on your with them or doing anything that would get you upset then you have nothing to worry about! I know that at times you may doubt him but you just have to trust him, if he does do anything then it should bug him enough where he would come out and tell you about it. Just see how it goes and if its brought up again then yeah maybe mention something to him..hope i helped
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well i dont think you should say anything to him .. we both know it wasnt that big of a deal and he obviously loves you not those chicks he was just looking for a fun time and im sure something like that will happen with you sometime and you will hope he doesnt get mad or jealous too. i hope i helped! -kayla
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Leave it alone unless it really really, truly bothers you. But your right, its just dancing and he was just having a little fun. And I'm sure if you were dancing with guys he wouldent be jealous.
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Hey the same thing happened to me. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and half. In the beginning he used to go to clubs and everything and it didnt bother me too much but in a way it sorta did just the thought of him dancing with other girls. Well i told him that it sorta bothered me and he said that it would bother him too. So instead of going clubbing he and i and all our friends would just hang out. and if they all wanted to go then wed all go together! soo just tell him how you feel.
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