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my best friend..?
okay, i have this guy best friend..weve been best friends for like 6 months now..he just gotta gf like 4 months ago,and be4 that he usta REALLY REALLY REALLY Like me more than friends..but then he stopped...recently it REALLY seems like he likes me again, even with his gf, its kinda freakin me out alil..like i really think that he thinks that i like him too..all tha poems i write and put in my aim profile about love i think he thinks is about him..all tha songs i put for my voicemail, i think he thinks are about him...and he has a GF. AND i dont even likke him at ALL like that hes like my brother!!! i have talked to him bout it like 2 months ago, and he REALLY hinted it but didnt admit anything..in a cd he made me there was a song that went like this, "i wish we were more than just friends.."blahblah..its kinda freaking me out...whut do i do :-/ i cant really talk about it with him nemore, i mean i make it realy obvious that i dont want to be more than friends not only cause he has a gf but because i dont like him that way!! help please
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tell him that you don't like him more than a friend.if he doesn't like ur feelings or doesn't respect ur feelings you really need to get rid of him cause he's not a true friend.
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I've had this problem myself with a few of my friends. Recently I met this guy over the summer and we were really good friends from the beginning, I went away for a weekend to my cottage in Wisconsin and my friend introduce another girl to him. We sorta liked each other but then he started to like her alot more. It got me mad when he said that he liked her alot. I wrote a poem for him too but told me that "we're better off being friends b/c if something happened and we weren't friends anymore after I would be upset." Well we don't really talk to much anymore or hang out. Back to yours. If you don't like him like that let him know again until he gets it, because if something happens I don't think you want him to get hurt. It's ok if he likes you but you don't like him..its all about what you want the outcome to be. If something gets worse, tell me and I'll try to give you a better answer!
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hmm.. sound like what I'm going through right now! Sweetie I've been in this situation sooo many times, especially since I have a lot of guy friends. There's a quote that describes your question almost to a "T":
"A girl and a guy can be just friends,
but at one point or another,
they will fall for each other..
maybe temporarily,
maybe at the wrong time,
maybe too late, or maybe forever.."
In your case it's just him falling for you. Your situation is bound to happen, because it's a natural thing! Although you don't feel the same way about him, your info/voicemails may suggest *to him* that you do. It may be very difficult, but you're going to HAVE to talk to him. Trust me, if you put it off, there's a chance that when the truth comes out, he'll be so hurt that you may grow apart. And I'm sure you don't want that to happen. (If you did, you wouldn't be writing to us)Let him know how you feel about the whole situation, and let him know that it makes you uncomfortable. You may not love him as a boyfriend, but it'll be better if he knows that you deeply care for him as a friend. And who knows, maybe your prior run-in with him crushing on you has you over-reacting and he really doesn't like you. Good luck with everything -n- I hope that I helped you out!
-Cassie-
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just keep being yourself around him adn look for a guy to date then date him adn im pretty sure hell get the picture ... hope i helped! -kayla
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