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Hey, call me Neo. Inside joke I have with a friend. Lol we always joke around. paid 2 make things I enjoy fire, hangin out, and talking 2 friends. I'll help if i can. Oh yea and ummm all you gay guys, please stop asking me if I'll date you. I'M STRAIGHT AND ALREADY HAVE A GIRLFRIEND!
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everytime i am around people, im constantly looking in mirrors and if i see a major flaw i cant have as much fun the rest of the time im with them if i know i cant fix it right then! also when i dont have makeup on or it rubs off because of sweat, im embarassed and dont want guys to look at me and i kinda sit there staring into space. i also look in my reflection into car windows when im walking to my boyfriends house..and its gotten so bad that last week i saw my reflection and realized my makeup looked orange so i ran back home and told him i could hang out anymore!! how do i stop obsessing over looking bad? well.. ANY advice on this topic will be appreciated! (link)
You'd be suprised how little others think of the way you look. Just feel good about yourself, dress comfortably, and in all honesty, guys don't really go for all the makup, maybe lipstick but don't put on a lot. Just be yourself. Try not to think about how you look just hangout and be happy keep a smile on your face, trust me, noone is judging you.


I keep making plans for dieting. I try and give up im 13 yrs old 5'2 and 117 pounds.I need some inspiration. Please help! (link)
Yea it's really hard at that age, trust me. You sound fine to me, don't worry about losing wieght. When I was 5'2, I wieghed a lot more then you did. And muscle wieghes more then fat so I wouldn't worry too much about it but keep trying and theres some new diet that you can try, don't know the name never bothered to really try a diet but it allows you to eat whatever you want or something. You cna also just do situps every night that works out good!


i love to compliment my boyfriend and make him feel good, but sometimes i run out of things to say! what kind of compliments do guys like most? and how do you let them know how attractive you think they are without simply using words such as hot? i know it should be easy but i wanna know what kind of compliments make guys feel the BEST and how i should word things (link)
A simple kiss is good enough. It's a guys job to complement the ladies, not the other way around. Just give him a kiss and tell him you love him, all that kinda stuff. We don't like complements.


where can i get those shorts that say the names of sports on the but. or the mesh ones that have like lacrosse sticks in the corner or say a school name. is there a website? (link)
Try abercrombie or hollister. They usually have those kinda stuff. =)


will you go out with me?

14/female/bi (link)
Sorry no, especially if your a little kid still in diapers that won't leave me alone. Oh yea, the little name gives it away, you've used it before.


IM GAY (link)
Leave me alone, you probably aren't gay just a pathetic little kid that doesn't know his ABCs so Stopit. And if you are gay, go find a boyfriend and leave me alone.


ok
well i dated this guy about 3 months ago
and i still kinda like him
but i dont know what to do.
please helppp =/ (link)
first, I don't know if he broke up with you or vice-versa. I would just repeat the way that you two started going out but instead you should ask him out and tell him that you still like him and you want to try again. I'd start by just sorta hanging out with him, sitting near him in school or whatever it is your in and see how he reacts to you being there. Also, try talking to him if he seems to not even notice you. And if he doesn't seem to like you there, give him space and it probably isn't a good idea to mention that you like him. Good luck=)


i need helpp
im a gay male, 41 years old.

and i want a boyfriend
do you want to go out with me? (link)
Ok I've been getting A LOT of these lately and if your some kid trying to be funny I've gotten enough. It says right in my profile that I am straight and already have a girlfriend. If you really are a 41 year old gay male, can't help you. And umm it's kinda late no offence.


Okay, on my xbox360 I went into the memory card and deleted all of my game saves (they were all on the hard drive too). Then I looked in the hard drive and they were gone there too! I know i didn't select "all devices" when I deleted the content, so don't say it was human error. Is there anything I can do to recover it? I'm calling tech support....but I doubt they'll help. (link)
Sorry dude, I've done the same thing but there isn't a way to recover it unfortunatly. And the game with 40 hours in it, Yea, I play Elder Scrolls and i had all the guilds beaten, main quest beaten and a master in everything and had been playing for 150 hours so I needed to restart everything. It's easier the second time, trust me. Good luck and sorry.


i was wondering if anyone knew any tricks to make henna tattoos stay on your skin longer or not fade. i am going on vacation to the beach and i want to get one but i dont want it to fade beore i come home. ive had one before and they always fade soon. does anyone have any tricks? thanks (link)
My pathetic little brother always liked getting those tattoos. Baby powder is probably the best thing. Another thing you could do is get that kind that's on the paper and you put it on with water if that isn't a henna tattoo and by a couple of the same 1 so when 1 faids u got another.


so, i recently transfered to an girls school from a coed school. so i'm kinda new to the environment. its been about a month of classes alredy and suddenly, i feel a bit different to this popular lesbian. and it MIGHT because i'm starting to like her!! but this can't be happening! i think a girl having a crush on a girl is gRoSS!!! but then, what can i do about it?? how do i stop myself before i do anything stupid!!?? please help me!!
-Carlotta (link)
Listen hun, Don't worry about it. That's what happens when you go to an all girl school. Besides, you aren't lesbian thats bisexual which is totally different. Every girl is bi sometime in their life time. You won't do anything stupid because you don't want to. You can always change schools. But there is always lesbians at an all girl school, that's why I've never been to an all boy school, it changes you. I'd leave and hang out with boys as much as you can lack of the oppisite gender is what causes it.


I write songs. And recently I've been going through a difficult time. My ex said he still loved me... he wouldn't say that if he didn't mean it...it took me a year to get over him...i was wrong...blah blah blah...so I'm in love and my mom says I'm not allowed to love him I'm only allowed to like him...but I love him and he loves me but she thinks I'm too young to date or something...i dont know anymore. So I'm writting a song about how I dont want to be told I'm too young and I don't want to be told how to feel, or think, etc. but I want it not only to be about love...like it can have more than one meaning...so if you know of a bible verse that relates to what I'm trying to say please let me know...example: 1 Timothy 4:12 Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity.
THANKYOU
-Lauren (link)
write about david and galiath. David was a young boy who was able 2 take down a giant even though his older brothers couldnt. Hope that helps.


I'm 13/f.My friend is 13/f too.Here's what happened:
I bought some new clothes for school.I showed my friend while she was at my house.She said my clothes were ugly.She then proceeded to go to my closet.Needless to say,she got my into giving her some pants,a nice leather jacket,a hat,and some make-up.I don't know how she does it!She just begs me for it.So,when I ask to borrow her lipgloss,she says no.I give her all this stuff(unwillingly),and she won't even let me borrow her lipgloss.and,she insults me too.She says I have no style.I want to start out fresh next year.So:Should I dump her because of this,or still be her friend? (link)
She sounds like a deedeedee. Forget her ass and find a real friend. If she wants your stuff then I guess you gotta pretty good fashion sense. I'm sure there is some girl that would absolutely love to be your friend. You seem kind and are good at sharing if you gave away your clothes to some girl. Good luck!!!


14|Female...For about two years ever since I found out my dad cheated on my mom...my life has been completely different, i use to feel really confident about my body but now i dont, i feel over weight and ugly (even though im 89lbs)I also have really bad trust issues now..I dont want to be like this anymore I want the old me back, My mom says the best way is for me to talk to someone about it but I cant talk to her because I know that it will upset her about the dad thing and I cant talk to my older sister because she will think im just going through some teenage stage...my mom suggested I see a therapist but i dont know if I want to or not because it just seems weird telling a stranger my feelings...and also I know they cost alot of money so I dont want to just waste money if I am going through a teenage stage but I dont think it is just a teenage stage...Im just really scared I am going to do something crazy if I dont tell people how I feel. So my question is...should I see a therapist or not? (link)
Wow screw a tharapist. You need serious help. Your afraid your mom will be upset so your just going to let your dad continue to cheat on her? That's cold. It will be better if you tell your mother rather then let her live a lie. Say that you got married and had a child and they found out your husband was cheating on you and wouldn't tell you I don't think you'd like that. I believe that you are simply feeling guilt and anger. If you tell your mom it would help.


I recently just went through some second-degree burn trauma on Sunday. I was supposed to get my period on Monday. It is now Wednesday evening and I still have not gotten my period. I am guessing that all the stress from my injury has delayed it but I am showing no signs of getting it. I've never had sex so I'm not worried about a pregnancy but it just seems odd that its been delayed this long already. Any ideas? (link)
Doctors aren't always accurate. I wouldn't be concerned or anything butthen again, I'm a guy I've never had a period so i dunno but I'd waity for the week to end and see what happens =/


okay. i thought that this day, 6/6/06 was the day the anti-christ was supposed to be born. but everyone is saying we are all gonna die today, but the bible doesnt say anything about this. so what is actually happening today? (link)
It was just a nmrmal day. This is a little past explaination day but oh well. Satan's number is actually 616 and 666 is inaccurate. Just thought I'd say that.


i've been wondering this for a while. you know how they say dinosaurs were extinct before people came around, but in the bible doesnt it say that adam & eve were born on one of the 7 days of creation?or was that after? i dunno, im confused lol
thanks (link)
i don't think that was the correct question. The real question is which is true:the bible, or science? Makes you think, doesn't it?


i am really scared. (no this isnt anything to do ith 6/6/6 its just that 666 got me thinking of this) when the world ends, how exactly is it going to end? i do not have very good knowledge of the bible. i know that no one knows, but everyone says all this horrible ways like it will go up in flames. but why would god torture us like that? why can't he just make everything dissappear in a split second? why would god want to make the world end in a horrible way, and why would he even want the world to end. please explain this is a clear way cause im not good with this stuff. and pleaaaaaaaaseplease don't say "don't worry about it wont happen/it wont happen in your lifetime" (link)
Listen, Don't be scared and I will tell you why. Because lets say there is a Christ out there. I'm assuming that you believe very strongly in him and you most likely go to chruch but i could be wrong. Christ would love you and would invite you into his 'heaven' while the sinners are destroyed. The remainers are the evil sinners and it is God's way of punishing them. Sortof like a little kid with a magnifying glass. That's basically God, if he thinks your a bad ant your gone. That's karma. Good you live bad you die. Just another reason for you to be good ok?


Let me start of by saying: I would not be asking this if I didnt already feel bad && want to change this. SO please, don't preach.

Down right to the point?
I stole my friend's new 300 dollar digital camera. (reminder: I know it was wrong, no lecturing)

While doing it, i KNEW it was wrong.
When she noticed it was gone, she cried.
It broke my heart.

I know God forgives, but my gut tells me..he won't.

I don't know, I want to send it back to her.
I think I will, as soon as I get her adress.
i CAN'T APOLOGIZE THOUGH. I CANT TELL HER.

I don't even know why I did it.
I love her. Im not jealous of her.
I don't need a digitial camera.
I don't want one.

But I did it anyway.
Just because I knew I could.
I knew I wouldn't get caught.

I'm evil. I'm a really bad person, I know.

Yet, I can't change it.
Here's where I need help.

- appologizing to God for this.

HOW? I knew it was wrong while doing it, I knew the devil was pushing me and God was telling me not to, yet I listened to the devil.
It's happened before. I never learn.
I'll always do the wrong thing.
So what? he's just going to keep forgiving me?

- how do I stop this

any ideas?

- this feeling

even if I give it back, I'll never forget what I did. seeing her cry. knowing how much it meant to her yet still taking it. how can i forgive myself for it? what should I do? I know myself very well. I wont change, I'll do it again. And I wont let myself forget it. I know I'll always feel bad because of this.

AHHH GOSSSHH just help me please, I feel awful.
what should I do? with everything?

this feeling is sick.
I want to die.
(link)
Dude calm down It's good that you feel bad and don't worry I'm not going to lecture you. Give her the camera back, right up to her face. She will forgive you. Tell her how bad you feel and even if she wants to kill you, she will forgive you and she will remain your friend. Trust me I know what I'm talking about and The feelings that you have it's...odd. I know it's guilt but the way you put it, it's almost like i don't know but it's different. God will forgive you stealing isn't the end of the world. It is a mental dissorder that you are having, you see something and your brain naturrally wants it because it's such an easy target. Help is good and give it back to your friend. And don't become suicidal that's were this is leading you find help go to a proffessional tell them your problem. Everyone has problems, this is yours and it can be fixed. I promise you will be better even though guilt will hang heavily over your shoulders.


i dont know how to have sex. help. (link)
Ask your parents kiddo




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