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hello. i am a girl and 14 years old. i have a boyfriend. he is the sweetest most wonderful person you can ever meet. there is this other boy in school and he told me he liked me. yesterday, i was in school and i said "im bored, i want to makeout" my cousin went over to the boy and told him to go to the restroom when i went. i went to the restroom and he was there. i like him too. so then we kissed. i feel bad about this. i kissed another boy when im going out with another one. i feel so guilty and i dont think it meant anything to him. But i feel like i did something really really bad. i dont know what do to. i dont want to hurt my boyfriend in any way. what should i do? (link)
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you know ... that's tough. I am the kind of person that wouldn't tell my boyfriend cuz I would be afraid that he would get too mad. How many people know though? Cuz if you think he'll fidn out or someone will spill the beans it'd be best if you told him first. Then he couldn't hold it against you just act REALLLLYY sad and everything.
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well there this guy at school and well he like likes me he ask me out and i thought i liked him and i told my sis that i did then my sister had told him i said yes then like i broke up with him then like he is trying to give me money and expensive gifts and well i havent excepted them but im confused what should i do. (link)
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Awww he must really liek you. he wants to win yuor heart back by bribign though and that's not always good. If you don't truely liek him though and just give in because he's spending his money of gifts for you it's not fair to him or you. tyhen your pretending you liek him he should get the picture if he's a smart guy that he should stop buying you presents because you don't like/love him the way he does to you.
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Ok, so whenever my best friend has another friend over she won't talk to me (I mean like online). Your probably thinking "ummm, it's rude to talk to you while a friend is there." But she talks to other people! I know this because if I IM her on the bottom it will say (their screenname) is typing. Then she just stops typing when she realizes it's from me and immedatly puts up her away message. Then someone will ask me if I know why she went away without saying anything. My question is how should I confront her? Do you think she is hiding something from me? Thank you. (link)
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my boyfriend used to do the same thing only it was all the time. Well he DUMPED ME a day after I confronted . So yea she could be hiding something. If she's your best friend just ask her you guys should be really open I don't keep any secrets from my best friend.
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If I walked on the tredmill for an hour every morning, didn't eat as much and ate healthy, and did crunches and excercises, do you think I would get skinnier within a month? Thanks. (link)
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Yea deifnetly. i tried beign anorexic for like... a week and I lost 4 pounds. So doing it the healthy way you'll deifntely see results. Probably in less then a month but you have to stay motivated.
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ok this morning i woke up and i have this HUGE zit on my chin! and the really bad news is.. i have a date tonite.. is there anyway i can get it to go away really fast?! please i need your help and thank you in advance (link)
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to make it smaller, even though you aren't supposed to, pop it. Then wash ti with cold water to close your pores then put on a ton of coverup. Sadly, ther's nothign you can do to get rid of it instantly that i can think of. If ther was someone tell me!
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Im in my junior year of highschool and i know its one of the most important years besides your senior year.. but i have no motivation what-so-ever. I have motivation in school cause my friends are doing work, so i might as well do it too. but when i get home i dont want to do it... i just dont care. I was wondering if there was something that will get me motivated.. thank you in advance! (link)
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yes it's very important and it's even more important to be motivated because if you aren't then you'll have no will to do good. Think of college, what do you want to be when you grow up? You need to do well in school in order to get into a good college to get the job you want to get the money you want to get the *Life* you want to live. Just think about your future and what is going to happened if you don't excel and try your best. If that doesn't work I'm not sure what you should do.
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okay my name is Julie. your my favorite columnists you give the best advice. help me with this problem. k?
GOOD okay my parents would yell at me if i come in after my curfur. my curfue is 2 Am and once i came in at 6 and they screamed at me. they wouldnt let me go back out for a year. they thought i would be drinking or something. but i wasnt im not like that they dont believe me how do i make is so thqat they do believe me and i dont get in trouble? like one time i came in and they are like "where were you" and i was like i was at my friends house. they were like "yea im sure, why do you smell like smoke?" im like my friends smoke i already told you that! ARGGGGG i hate them they never let me do anything! please help and fast!!!!
Thx in advance good advice and ill rate you a five!
--Julie--
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You lost their trust from when you stayed out too late so you have to show them your trustworthy by coming in on time alll the time from now on. I dont really know because i dont have a curfew because my dad never had one cuz his parents both died. So he says he turned otu fine and so will I but yea anyways, that is the best i can do
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I don't understand this. I've been studying Psycology for years, yet I don't get why I can't fall asleep. I was diagnosed with Insomnia when I was 8. This isn't Insomnia. When I lay down to goto sleep, I get scared. As if something is in the room with me. Last night I went to sleep and I felt something behind me. I've been having this problem for 3 months. My doctor said it's normal, that it's just Anxiety, but I CAN'T goto sleep. What should I do? (link)
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Well you rthe one who studied physcology and you don't even know so i suggest that since you don't even know to seek more professional help immediatly. you don't want to lose sleep
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Well, tomorrow afternoon we get out of school at 10:30 a.m. because of exams...me and my friends were going to walk to an ice-cream shop and eat. The thing is, we have invited guys to go with us. I dont want to look like a complete slob when we go. Do you have any adivce on how to dress and do makeup? Its supposed to be around 56 degrees tomorrow, so I want to look cute, but still stay warm. THank you so much. (link)
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I would say... something warm cuz it's kinda cold out and a bit slutty! then it'll be cute like jeans and ummm and a wikid cute sweater then liek the classic make up black eyeliner pink gloss etc.
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Ok I'm from North Carolina and I'm Homeschooled..Well im in 12th grade and almost done but me and my mom just found out that she has to issue me a high school diploma not North Carolina so like where do we get the diploma ?? I will rate high !! (link)
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Your gunna have to contact your local government officals
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okay i was going out with this guy for about 2 yrs.. and then he broke up with me because i was always lieing to him (which was very bad thing for me to do.. and i regret doing it!!) i tell him all the time how im sorry and i want to get back with him because i love him. and he just says he doesnt want to get hurt again but he still feels a great deal for me. and cares about me and likes me. we are still REALLY good friends and we tell eachother everything and we are always there for eachother. But we also still have sex and do other sexual things.. and im just scared that he could be using me..!! what do u think??? please help!! (link)
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dump him
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hey ive had sex before a long time ago and i got so scared i was pregnant after...but i been with my bf now for 7 months and were ready to have sex...i really want to i just dont wanna get pregnant so my question is..whats the best condom to use?? and how long is it before they usually break? like when should he take it out?? (link)
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I think... that maybe you just dhouldn't do it!then u won't care plus babys r smelly
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okay so i went out with this guy for only two weeks...he asked me out ONLINE two days before school ended. he is hela popular and stuff and im not that popular and people said that we were kinda random, but we had soo much in common...and he was really hott. so after two weeks, he tells me that he's moving to a different state, and my bitchy friend told me he was lying so he didn't have to go out with me again, but then he really did move. now, its like 6 months later, i hela miss him and i dunno why....and he visited like last week but he didnt even want to hang out with me, and everyone was al "o ya he's in town i saw him today' but i had no idea..should i just get over him (link)
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Yes you should.
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Ok, there's this guy at my school (i live in Vermont) who everyone thinks is gay. Even though the rumors are most likely not true, no one wants to be his friend because of rumors, and neither do my friends. I really think it's terrible how people treat him, and I want to be his friend; I don't believe sexual orientation should affect friendship. How should I be his friend without making my friends mad, or making him feel uncomfortable when my friends want to hang out with me? (link)
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That's OK my friend Justin is changing genders and it's a tough tiem for him. you have to support him and be his friends now matter what. It's not wierd, i have a friend Nick but now everyoen calls him Nicol
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Okay, I ALWAYS feel like I am forgetting to do something. Most of the time, I go through the day, and nothing ever comes up where I'm like, "Oh yeah! That's what I meant to do earlier!" But it drives me CRAZY!!! It's like I can't relax until I remember what it is I needed to do, but I never think of anything. I'm seriously starting to think there's something wrong with me, like I have OCD or something. I guess my question is, is there anyone out there with the same problem? Or does anyone know what I can do? And if it helps, I'm an EXTREME overachiever with school and just an overall major perfectionist. I was thinking it had something to do with that, but I don't know. If you can help me, thanks. (link)
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You need to be organzied! Get like a personal planner and buy lots of sticky notes. Ask people to remind you when you think you might forget. It's great that your an over-achiever I am too but sometimes you need to drop something or hang back a little. Take time to relax nad plan things out.
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i brokeup with my boyfriend but ONLY because he lived so far away and i never got to see him (everyone thought it was because of another guy but it wasn't) and ive been an emotional wreck ever since then, it was like 2 months ago and i still cry like at night and even somtimes if i start thinking about him during the day i go to the bathroom and cry during school... i'm just really confused. i mean, i don't know if i want to ask him for a second chance cuse i dont think i can stand never being able to see him all over agagin :-/ but i really want him back, and i still love him :( what should i do? (link)
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I know how you feel. Life is so confusing. You HAVE to try to move on it's the best for you and trust me it won't be that bad try to fidn someone else to hang out with surroudn yourself by your friends and keep yourself busy..its hard but u have to try for yourself
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I'm a 24 yr old girl...and I met this great guy at a bar a few weeks ago and since then everytime I'm out, no matter where I am, he seems to be there. (Like it's meant to be?) Well, I went over to his house after leaving the bars twice. The first time we just hung out, we didn't even kiss... and then the second time we went a lot farther then that. I think he's wonderful and I want him to like me for me even though everytime I see him I'm pretty wasted.. I want to keep talking to him and I don't want to ruin things because I feel wierd and don't know how to act because I went too far with someone new.. but I really like him, I think he's so perfect... what should I do?? How should I act??? (link)
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You liek him when your drunk and u do stuff when you drunk so i don't really fidn him trustworthy. I don't think you guys were meant to be that actually kinda creeeps me out that he's uauslly everywhere you are. Either he's stalkign you, its an amzing coincednece, or you are out wayy to much.
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Ok every night I go to sleep and I dream about this boy I like and I always dream that me and him are having sex....I dont realy know whats going on or like what these dreams mean. (link)
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You like him....You wanna have sex with him so you dream about it. Yea... it's normal I mean if he's hot and you liek him and that's what you wanan do with him then i Gues you would dream about it. Since in real life you can't idk I'm not really sure
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I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year now and I love his family to death. Since he's away at college they invite me to visit them alot and I stop to see his mom at work whenever I go to the mall. I have a problem, though- I got his Christmas gift and everything, but should I get something for his family? His mom seems like the kind of person that would get something for me, but I would feel really bad if she did and I didn't get them anything, and I bet she would vice versa. He has an older brother, a younger brother, a sister, dog, and mom and dad. They're really nice to me, but I'm lost on the dating/present etiquette here. Should I get them something, and if so, what? (link)
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Since there's 4 people and one pet it may be semi-expensive but since you love them to death i think maybe you could get a family gift they could all use and a special boquet of flowers for his moms. Moms love that kinda stuff.
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Hey! Ok: so I have hundreds of pictures in my a box in my room. I take a roll at every other week. My question is: How can I display them in my room (without frames) I have some along my mirror. But what is a cool way of hahging them up? Thanks so much! (link)
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I don't have any creative ideas right now, but one tip... don't tape them bbecause at some point you will take them down and it will rip the picture so be careful what you use. I have lots of pictures too and I would like cry if they ripped or were ruined.
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