Hmm.. I decided to give a bit more detail. I live in the usa, and enjoy having fun. Swimming, dancing, shopping, working.. It's all good fun.. My mother says I have probablems, because I want to save the world.. Now I know, I can't.. But I do know us people who at least put some effort into help someone, makes some what a difference. It may not seem like it, but if you've seen Police Academy, with the apple that was thrown out the window, and started the riot!! Well then, no one knows how these things get started!
WE ARE ALL SUPER HEROS IN OUR OWN WAY.
Don't forget that! It's what we all are, and can be!
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on texts from last night:
if you see area codes like these:
(405)
(1-405)
what does it mean with the 1 in front of the area code? just to distinguish between the two people texting in the same area code?
i know 1 means its a cell phone, right? but you can only text between 2 cells.. (link)
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The one is just there, there is no meaning for it.
The one is also used in long distantence calls from a house phone.
I'm not positive what it represents, but it's nothing to worry to much about i mean when texting i've gotten funny texts where the number is like +14434539876
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So.. um. My best friend is starting the last year of high school this year, and her mom is very sick and is going to die. Lately she has been in a very bad psychological state, depressed and stuff like that. She has been drinking quite a lot, and when she was drunk the other day she started telling me stuff like she doesn't know what to do if her mother dies, and half her life is going to go away and stuff like that. She also said she's happy she has all of us (her friends) and stuff, but generally she sounded like she was really in a horrible mental state.
Can you please give me advice on what I can do? (link)
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Hi
Two of my friends are kind of going through the same thing. There Grandmothers, who are the ones who raised them through out there lives are getting ready to pass away. You just have to keep close to her, let her know you love her. Make sure she has as much love as she can handle, and you should probable try to get her to brake down with out alcohol. It's better that way. She needs to be close to the ones who love her the most. She's going to hurt when the time of her moms death does come, but she's going to be okay. Death is apart of life, and you must explain to her once her mother does pass on that she's in a better place and not in so much pain. I mean I just reasontly lost my Dad in a car crash we we're in together, so I know it hurts to lose the ones you love the most. So just keep her positive, and keep close, make sure you take care of her. Don't let her become a drunk, try to find other things to keep her mind off of the subject of her mother dieing. Unless you're deffently ready to have her brake down for you. : ) Which she needs to do, to get all of it out there so she can have a better understanding of everything.
Good Luck
And Stay a Good Friend!
There Hard to find.
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Me and my gurlfriend had unprotected sex on friday, well durin 2 times durin intercourse i felt like somethin came out, as if i had came but i wasn't even ready to. Well yesterday my gurlfriend took th home pregnancy test and she turned out negative. Is the test effective since it was done 5 days after intercourse? Do u think that somethin really came out or was it just a feelin and if so can my gurlfriend get pregnant from it? (link)
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You would probable have to wait a little longer to get a pregnencie test to say positive if she may be pregnent. Yes she could be, there is such thing as Pre-Cum. Which is same as cum, but Before cumming. So there are always possibilities, you should think about using protection more often. So, give it a couple more weeks, and take another test, or go have a doctor check her out.
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I'm 19 & I've been talking to a guy I like who is 22 since September of 2008. In November of 2008 I slept with him once, which was very stupid of me. I really like this guy but all we do is text & he ALWAYS initiates the texting. We've hung out that one time in November & again in May of this year. He never brought up spending time with me so I finally mentioned it in March of this year & again in April & responded with “Ya for sure sometime when I’m not busy w/work.” (he works a lot) Finally last month he asked me out to dinner & a movie. We had a good time, laughed, & he flirted a bit so it was really nice & we didn't do anything except hug when he dropped me off. I felt like this would be starting fresh so he can see that I'm not a sluty girl who sleeps around. It's been almost a month since we spent time & he hasn't brought up doing something like that again. The thing is that he texts me daily & will do so for hours. I do wonder if he felt obligated to spend time with me & got it over with so that I wouldn't ask him again. It seemed like he enjoyed his time with me though. If I take a while to respond when he texts he will text something like "Fine don't text back! lol" like he's being playful. I'm confused because I don’t know if he likes me or just enjoys the attention that I give him. This has stressed me out so much & I overanalyze it every day. I have no idea why I feel the need to hang on instead of dropping him. I did tell him that I like him in December 2008 & he said he wasn't interested in a relationship because he got out of a 2 year relationship a few months before & his ex treated him badly. I don’t ask him if he likes me or why we don’t spend more time together because I don’t want to scare him off or pressure him. I’m exhausted with this situation now & I just would like some help =( (link)
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This guy actually sounds really sweet and all, but yeah it's a bit odd you 2 don't spend alot of time together. You shouldn't be scared to pressure him or scare him. Sounds like you two have none each other long enough to be a bit more open. Should text him sometime soon, and ask if he wants to hang out after work or something. Tell him you haven't seen him in awhile and miss him, and would like to go get some coffee or something. Just make it small, like a friendly meeting. Don't make it a huge super date thing. Maybe if you spend more friendly meetings with him, it'll all fall together and you'll go on another great date. : )
I hope it'll help in some way.
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so i rly liek dis bitch iv bin seeing l8ly shes real hot liek omg 10 and shes got dis wiked big booty yknow PLAYA amirite?!!?!1newai shez bin tellin me to buy hurr moar prezntz n shit and iv got no more money i spend it all on weed n dis bitch tinkz im ballin or sum shit n i wana no how 2 tell her ive got no muny for her but i want her 2 keep puttin out yknow
-Playa (link)
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Time to find away to get more money. Because if she's the kind of girl that is only putting out for presents and stuff, well you're pretty much screwed. Probable should save the money to spend on your woman, so you can keep gettin your nut off. Yah know? Alright well there isn't much I can think of.. I mean unless you have someone else to run to for sex?! Then you just tell her, and then if she leaves she leaves.
I find women who depend on presents and money to get her in to the sack are worthless.
Good Luck Playa.
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So I started hanging out with this chick becuse she seemed to always have ciggs. We became great freinds fast! I then started to hang with her family and freinds and we all became REALLY close I consider them my second fammily. I was hanging with just her friend and she told me that my smoke buddy really likes me. I really like her too I kno that she wont admit to it so I dedcided to get me and her drunk so that we could talk freely and if something goes wrong we could blame it on the booze. we got drunk and she said that she really likes me and me made out. So the nxt day she tells me that she dosent want to jeperdise our freind ship. I had a drug test the nxt day so I began to drink to get it out of my system and she drank too along with her freind. she started flirting with and I made out with her then i fingered her. Her freind then got on top of me and my smoke buddy said it was chill and that she thought it was hot. So I went with it and eat both them out. I went on vacation the nxt day and tonight when I texted her to ask her if we were chilin tommorrow she said not till later thz guy that she has bin hangin out with will be comming over (he only wants her for sex and she really isnt that kink of gurl) when she is home alone. She says that she really wants him. I dont kno if she dosnt want me anymore and if I should give up. I really like her but is she only doing shit becouse were drunk??
Or is she mad becouse I got down with her friend, she said it was cool (she is bi) I dont kno WTF to do can any one help (link)
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Well I'm guessing you're a guy, and considering you like this girl, but she likes this other guy.. and you got her drunk to get answers... It could just be that she did like you, but thinks you're using her for sex, like you think the other guy is. I'd suggest talking to her, if you like her enough to sit down and explain how you feel maybe you can start going somewhere with a real relationship. Don't worrie about being a guy, if you two are close enough.. she'll take it as it is and understand. If it has anything to deal with when you had the three sum, just explain to her, you don't see her friend like that, and you wouldn't have done it she'd said not too... Do you understand? .. You just have to be a bit more open with the girl you've got feelings for.
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This is going to sound a little stupid probably, but my boyfriend has lied to me about something small and now it's totally made me wonder if I can really trust him.
Basically, he told me that he couldn't really afford to go crazy and all-out on our one year anniversary day, which I was completely fine with, but then he kept going on about wanting to buy this Playstation 3 game that was something like $70. Anyway, I found out that he bought it a couple of days ago, but he told me it was only $10 because he had traded in some games at the same time; however, he accidentally left the receipt for it in the living room, which showed that this was not the actual case--that he had actually paid full price for the Playstation 3 game.
Now, before you think I'm crazy or something, my boyfriend and I have had problems in the past and have been working on getting our trust back for each other. (He had a wild night out with the boys once that totally crushed our relationship for awhile) It bothers me that he couldn't just be honest with me about this, I guess. I mean, it wouldn't have been a big deal at all...why lie?
Do you think I'm overreacting? (link)
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Overreacting? Most videogamers would probable say yes.(lol) I'd say no, if you're suppose to be so important to him, why would he go buy a 70 dollar game instead of an anniversery gift?
He could always get the game some other time, couldn't he?
I'd confront him, if you want a fight. If not, and you didnt care about a gift, then just let it go.. I don't think you're very happy in the relationship you're in though.. (just an opinion.)
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I'm trying to make some new friends and I was told that I should find some common things between us to form a link, which should spur more conversation and positive attitudes between each other. I'm not entirely sure what to ask to get to know these people though! What are some really good questions to ask to get to know someone? (link)
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Life:
What do you do for fun?
Do you like (whatever you like) reading, working out, shopping?
Have you moved before, or have you always been from (where ever your located)?
Do you like making random friends?
(Key to making friends, good friends is being yourself. Don't hide, and be open and friendly. - treat others the way you wish to be treated.)
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this is a VERY long story, but im gonna try to lay this out as short as possible and please, im desperate here, you have NO clue what i've been through these past few months, and i need all the help i can get..
last year i met a REALLY sensative guy. he was 16, about to be 17, and i was 14.. he was soooo shy, hes VERY insecure. when we first started dating, all he said to me was how i saved him and pulled him out of his misery because he has had no luck with relationships and was treated like shit by girls his whole life. hes not even that cute and popular, and i have a waaay higher social status in my grade/ school then he does in his grade.. but ive been known to have wierd taste and i can look beyond looks and things like that very easily. i think when we first started dating him i was just excited over the fact that he had a car and he was a junior and i was only a freshmen.. but i actually did end up falling in love with him. and he was COMPLETELY in love with me. we lost our virginities to eachother and ill tell you, im smart, and not at all a bit naiive.. i knew this kid loved me. & we did NOT have a sex based relationship whatsoever.. we became eachothers best friends. both of us lost all of our other friends because we were only with eachother 24-7. he called my mom 'mom' and i did the same with his mom.. we were incredibly close.. and sense he was older, i felt so comftorbal and secure with him, and i went to him with all my problems, and he would help me.. ive been suffering from depression for years and me and my mother never had a good relationship, and my father left me, and i was molested as a baby.. but when i was with him, he made me feel so comftorbal. we told eachother EVERYTHING. and i was postive he was there to stay. he promised me forever every single day. we dated for a year. i messed it up, biggest mistake of my entire life.. he started getting very annoying and up my ass. you know when youre in a bad mood and you just want to be left alone? well he would never leave me alone. he'd be like 'its okay babe i love you' bla bla. all mushy, when i just want to be mad!. i tried talking to him about this many times and all he could say was im sorry i just love you soooo much i cant help it.. all my friends called him whipped cream and everything.. it was BAD. but anyways, one night i was out with my friends the day before a cheer competition, and my ex was there.. and somewhere along the lines, we kissed.. my boyfriends friend was there and told him that if i didnt tell him, he was going to.. i knew he wasnt going to break up with me or anything.. so i told him.. but the thing is.. i think i was looking for a fight with him because our relationship was so boring. when i told him, it pissed me off how he was crying instead of being mad, yelling at me. so i started saying things to make him mad.. i said TERRIBLE things. like i was gonna keep cheating on him because he basically lets me, and how i know i take advantage of him because he trusts me so much but i shouldnt.. and he was like well maybe i have to break up with you then.. and he was like i really dont want to. and i was like fine just do it idont care! yelling at him and stuff.. and then he did. i was thinking we would get back together in a couple weeks.. so after we broke up, we still talked because we obv. still loved eachother and everything. we acted like we were going out, and we even 'hooked up' a few times.. but when he asked me back out, i kept saying no, i wasnt ready.. because the relationship was SOOO akward after we broke up.. he was acting so different. and i knew why. it was because i broke his heart. and i did, bad. so one day after we hooked up, my friend told me that her brother saw my 'boyfriend, x-boyfriend, whatever u wanna call him' at a store.. and he was saying how he was done with me and he was trying to get with this new girl 'leesh'.. i was FURIOUS. i called him up screaming at him asking for all my stuff back and it was over for good and everything. but really, i wanted an appology from him, not my stuff back. btw, i was very remorsful for cheating on him and saying what i said to him, i mustve appologized a million times.. but he didnt say anything, he justgave me all my stuff back and acted like it was nothing.. and then i kept trying to get him back, but he kept rejecting me. i was litterally down on my knees for this kid. until one day i found out he had a girlfriend. not just some girl.. the girl who dates ALL the boys that i date after me.. but thats a whole nother story.. anyways, i was devistated. i couldnt eat, i couldnt talk, i couldnt sleep, i couldnt go to school,, nothing. all i did was cry and cry and cry and cry. i tried talking to him seeing if we could be friends and stuff, but he hates me now. if i send him one text, he shuts his phone off. he goes all different ways in the halls so i dont have to see him in school, he wont even look my way. he saw me practically drown in my own tears and he didnt even care. i wrote him long long letters, i tried everything i could just to be able to talk to him when i need to, so i wouldnt be so hurt about the situation.. now, i have two weeks left of school and im failing 4 classes.. and im an honors student. i DONT fail. its not me. and im grounded because of it, so i cant even go out and try to forget it. its been sense thhe end of february... and still,all i can think about is killing myself.. people say they are heart broken.. but this gives heart broken a new definition. there is litterally a hole in my chest. and i keep getting maaaassive anxiety attacks in class, and i do go to counceling wich is sort of helpful but we mostly talk about my parents.. three days ago, she broke up with him. and he was very upset from what i heard.. he hasnt tried talking to me or anything but i dont know what to do, i want to talk to him but he'll just ignore me.. i love this kid and care about him with my life. today i thought i was going to DIE. it was the last day of school for the seniors. the last time ill EVER see him again. the last time ill ever get to look for him i the halls so i can walk by him.. that was the only time i ever got to see him, and today was my last day. and when i walked by him for the very last time of my life today, he didnt even look at me. it was so painful. he couldnt even have the heart to say bye to me considering im his first love and helll never see me again. i havent been able to stop crying sense i last saw him. i dont even know what to do with my life any more. someone PLEEEEEASE tell me what to do to get him back. ANNYTHING. I AM DESPERATE FOR HELP. we had such a good relationship till i cheated and we Never ever had one fight. but you dont even understand. this kid wouldnt even look at any other girls, deleted all the girls in his phone book, couldnt go an hour without texting me just saying he loved me, couldnt go a day withouth seeing me, brought me flowers randomly, did EVERYTHING for me. how can you love someone so much and go through everything we've been through together, and then just completely shut them out of your life? (link)
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-Stares- So many words.
This kid (ur bf/ex/love of ur life) seems like the perfect guy, but you said he'd been trashed by other girls before. Thats not good, you used his own past against him, by doing it to him.
You Also said you got bored with the relationship cause he would never fight, but also that he was up your ass twenty four seven. In a relationship like that, it's hard to keep it standing especially if you're one that likes to be alone, occasionaly.
I don't like to say this, because it hurts.. But you may not get him back, you might have to wait it out, till destiny finds itself back to you.
Maybe he's suppose to be with you, but it's not yet.
Give it time, more time.
You can't apperently talk to him, see him.. Can't just sit back and watch the world go around...
You want it to happen faster, you think its what you need, go to his house. Knock on his door, try to talk to him. If he won't why not pull that old routine? Sit out side his house? Until he'll talk to you.. Do you two have a song? Play it nonstop. Worst thing, you could have the cops called on you.. but when love is that special, that deep.. You need it like a drug? You'll do anything for it.. You have to get him back? Do it, you're not naiiev?! SO... put some brains into it, you want him back.. Okay, but you better make sure you want him, don't want him cause you don't have him, and once you have him again you don't want him. Don't hurt him, if you think it'll fall back into the same steps.
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Me and my "boyfriend" had sex for the first time. He's a big jock and I was really excited that someone was actually interested in me. So when he came over to my house he wanted to have sex and I for some reason agreed to do it with him. Anyway, my period was 4 days late and I was freaking out and my bestfriend told me to take some pregnancy tests. All three of them that I took were positive. I told my "boyfriend" about it and he just laughed and broke up with me. I want to keep the baby, but I don't want to me known as a slut for the rest of my school life because I made one mistake. I don't know what to do. i still have to tell my parents too and they think I've never even have had a boyfriend before. I just need some advise, and please don't say, "your way to young to be having sex" because I already understand this. Thank you! (link)
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Hi, you're to young to be having sex! Just kidding, to each his own my dear. Lets see you haven't told your parents, and you haven't seen a doctor?
Well sweetie let me tell you, you're parents will probable tell you you're crazy for wanting to keep your baby. Even though If I was your parent I'd make you keep it. Just for the fact that you were (no offence hun seriously) dumb enough to lay down and have sex, then you can keep that baby you've created.
I don't seriously think it'd be good for you to keep the baby, but sence you're so young I can't see you uhmm having it and giving it up. You'd probable be more of a wreck then you already are for the rest of your life.
Just present this issue with your parents slowly... because we all know there going to freak.
But good luck! Please be smart, and you should have used protection. -palm2forhead-
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so today i was walking in the halls and i see my best friend walking with her boyfriend and one of our mutual friends. (this is really rare- i NEVER see my best friend in school.) she had her back turned to me but when he saw me, she turned around and gave me a really big smile and a "hey!" ...then before i could get a word in, turned right back to the other people she was with and ignored me. and she says im her bestbest friend.
i only see her once every week or two outside of school and sometimes dont even talk at nighttime. we used to be like sisters a few years ago, im'ing for a few hours everyday and hanging every chance we got. but since she got a boyfriend (its been 6 months) i've been left wondering if the title "best friends" really means anything anymore.
what do you think?
thanks so much. (link)
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Hi, I believe when a man enters any females life things change. Sometimes they don't really notice it, and sometimes they do. So perhaps she doesn't realize what she is doing, maybe give her a call or email her about how you miss your friendship. If she knows, then she probable feels that you two are changing, growing apart(?). If this is so, it's probable because she feels she's growing up when you're not because of her so called "bf". In this case, she's not a real friend. Or if this is a serious boyfriend, she's lost in translation... Deep inlove and uncouncious of reality around her. Living in her own dream land.
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So earlier this year, I met this guy. We became good friends because we had so much in common and enjoyed spending time together. We started hanging out more and more, and we've become really attached, I guess you could say. He recently told me that he really likes me more than a friend, and I told him I feel the same. But, I'm going away to college in 3 months. I'm going to a college that's only about an hour away, but I see college as a totally new experience, somewhere where I'll meet a lot of new people and have a ton of schoolwork that will keep me really busy. Plus, I won't be home that often. But, this guy really wants to date me, and honestly, I want to date him because he's amazing. In my heart, though, I feel like dating right now isn't such a good idea, considering the fact that I'll be leaving this fall; I know it would hurt so bad to go from dating him and seeing him every day to only seeing him once a month. I don't want to hurt him, either; I know i'm gonna meet alot of people, including other guys, and that might definitely change our relationship, you know? But I also feel like I'd be missing out on a great relationship if we don't date and just stayed friends. I'm really torn up about this. Please help? (link)
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Hmm.. Well, I'd deffently explain to him how you feel. It's probable best not to date him, sence you're going to college. You love/like him don't hurt him. You probable know what it's like to be dumped right? Most men like to have there girls around alot.. And a girl whom is not around enough for a man is like when a man dumps a woman... It's painful. I'd just wait it out, if you're ever suppose to date or be with this guy, you'll find each other at some point when available. Believe in faith m'love... It's a key to the world.
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this guy and I went out for a really long time/10 months. he told me that one of his friends was into me and he was gonna try to steal me away. When one of my friends thought he was cute..i told him....we ended up braking up three or four months later.....he ended up going to her the same day that we broke up...and it was like..wow..he got over me that fast...the part that irritates me is how he talks to her and tries to talk shit about me....always saying mean things about me.....i don't know...i just want to ask him why he is talking shit... (link)
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Thats right, you want to confront him privately. Ask him why he says so much shit. Tell him you two are broken up, and it's done and over with.
They say men talk shit about there ex to there new girlfriends because techniqaully there not over there ex yet. It's just what I've heard. I believe it may be true. So he's probable not over you, and covers his real feelings for "Asshole" feelings. If you understand what i mean.
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Me and my ex-bestfriend were friends since last year.. Me and him just started really talking this year though. I would talk to him hours on end.. But we faught a lott. and i didnt know what to do. And he was a complete jerk when we did fight, and ALWAYS blamed the fight on me.. But I Liked Him Since Last Year, and i fell in love with him.. and after one of our bigger fights we were talking and he said he liked me. And i was soooo happy. Cuz I loved him.. i mean we would both say "I love you" like I love my crazy friend... but like, it ment more when i said it, he just didnt know it.. and a week went by,((he didnt want to be in a relationship)) and the next week, he stopped answering calls, and texts, and stopped wanting hugs.. and i was like... Fine.. And i asked him, why he even told me he liked me, when he knew that i liked him for two years, and he was just being a butt. And he said I had no reason to be upset.. and that I was being a bi***
did i over react? or is he really a waste of my time? b/c i gae back his necklace that he gave me, and everything.. so yeah, help? (link)
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Sounds like teenagers. -sigh-
It happens, he probable is interested to some extent, but with so much fighting.. He either is totally confusied, and maybe pressured. Who knows? But give him some more space, he probable needs time to think. He may be scared to jump in a relationship with once a friend, and now wants to be girlfriend, all touchie feeli... hold my hand take me to dinner type of deal.
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ok well im 15 and a girl. and over the years that i have been growing up i have been at my grandparents house in indiana. and i live in illinois. i love it there. and my grandma one day told me about this kid who was moving in next door to her. he was the same age as me. he is a nice guy and he introduced me to his friend casey. hes a guy. and this was like 2 years ago. and i really thought he was cute and stuff. but my friend who was out there with me at the time liked him and they ended up like dating for like a day. ha which it didn\'t work out considering the different states we live in. but we left and every once in a while i would talk to casey on myspace and i always had this crush. but just about a month ago he ended up giving me his number and ever since we just hit it off. and we talked on the phone every night for a month. and we were just so into each other. but then like 2 weeks ago i went down to my grandpas house in indiana and we hung out. and he was just so amazing. and we ended up just cuddling on the ground and we ended up kissing. and it was my firstt kiss and he knew it too. but it was just a perfect moment. and then the next day, sunday, we had to go and he couldn\'t come and say bye because he had to help with his dad. and the whole day he just seemed weird. and that night he ended up telling me that we just weren't going to workout because of distance. and i just completely broke down. he was my first kiss and it ment so much too me. and he new that we lived in different states going into this. and he kissed me anyways. and i just haven\'t talked to him for awhile. and all i can do is think about him. but its getting better. but he was my first kiss and i know i will never forget him. which sucks. because he was so perfect.... what should i do?! heart breaks are so difficult. (link)
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Okaie... He was your first kiss, and you believe he was oh so perfect. You'll probable never forget him, cause you'll stay in contact one way or the other. Don't worrie though, you're only fifteen.. You'll have many first kisses! Trust me. You just have to learn how to handle heart ache.. DOn't let it tear you completly down, got to keep that fire burning! There is always going to be another guy.. So many fish in the sea. : )
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OK so i know this guy and he's older than me, not by much like a year. So you see both him and i are taken but we can almost never see our partners. Like his girlfriend is younger than me so her parents dont let her date him and my boyfriends parents wont let him date me for religious reasons. So this guy and i have been txting all the time and we do stuff like 'i gotta go do this or that i'll txt you back when i'm done' and we hang out a lot since we live real close to eachother. You see once he was like 'lets hang friday' and i was like 'sure' but then he got invited to go BK with some friends and he wanted me to come with him but i said no, i dont know his friends. so he was like 'i'll come over when i finish here then.' and i was like 'no its ok you dont have to' and his answer was 'No i'm coming and your not stopping me' so i was like 0.0 oh. and sometimes he'll make jokes and i'll be like 'oh no you didn't' and he'll hug me and be like 'oh come on i'm just playin.' and i mean he txts me a lot and sometimes we're not even saying anything just like being stupid. sometimes we talk about eachothers relationships too. and i dunno if he likes me or not but he's left a group of his friends like twice already to hang out with me. He even came with me on a friend of mines date to the movies and when her date was like a real bad guy he wouldnt let me go get her away from him alone, he's also stood up for me when someone teased me but like he then teased my friend. so i dunno, do you think he likes me? if you wanna ask me any questions about it i'll add additional information after being asked (link)
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He likes you. Thats easy to see, but sence you two are both in relationships just stay friends. If it's ment to be it'll work out in the end. Things could happen though, what you should be more worried about is being careful not to hurt the boyfriend you do have. So, if you like him stay friends and it'll work it's self out.
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I like this guy I have been really good friends with..and we text and chat ALL the time...he has told me many times that I am hot and pretty and he likes talking to me...just recently he told me and ONLY me that he was moving and he wanted to be in a relationship before he moved..but he likes another girl. Should I give up on him? (link)
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You should never give up, you should talk to him. Tell him how you feel, and that you want to be that relationship. Unless he means a sexual one, you don't want that probable, cause that can hurt and cause alot of damage. So find out what he wants in his last relationship, and then if it sounds like a good idea jump on it. He probable does like you like that, but doesn't speak up cause he isn't sure how you feel.
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is it normal for a virgin female to hurt so much during an attempt at sex that she won't let him get in? (link)
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Gah! Well see it can hurt alot, your first time is suppose to be painful, we all know this. It can hurt depending on how tight you are, and how big your partner may be. If it was forceful sex, then yes it'll hurt because not only do you want it physically, but you don't want it mentally either.
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Is there any places where you can send your child to have "the talk"? She is homeschooled so she cant go to a class at school or somthing. (link)
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I'm not sure, but perhaps researching it online. You may find something. If it were me, I'd want the talk to come from my parents. It just seems more loving. It's embarassing, but at least you know they care. I mean I knew about that kind of stuff on my own, but my parents hit every other little detail back then.
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I have this friend and she was best friends with my ex and well things started to get bad in our relationship and when we broke up, I told her "Oh, I like..(lets say)..Bob". She told my ex I liked Bob, and I was upset because thanks to her it seemed like I cheated on him when really he cheated on me. I started liking Bob, and I realized to not trust this "friend" anymore. I started going out with Bob and I told my friend not to talk to Bob because I didnt trust her with my relationships, thinking she will ruin this one too. Hopefully not yet, but I dont want her to. How can I save my relationship? What if she tries to ruin it again? Bob is my friend's ex though but she doesnt care about him and I believe he doesnt care about her either. I really dont want her to tell him lies about me, or try to steal him from me even though she has another boyfriend. (link)
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Oh, so you have a friend that wants what you have, even if she's not interested? Well, thats easy, just watch what you say around her. Don't let things that she could use against you be throw out there in mid-air, she will grab them most likely. Also, if she does tell him lies about you, you and I both know he'd be a fool to believe her. I mean she is his ex.. and they must have broken up mutual, or for some reason dealing with her. Just an opinion. But yeah just hold your tounge infront of her. You'll be fine. :)
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