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Me and my smoke buddy
So I started hanging out with this chick becuse she seemed to always have ciggs. We became great freinds fast! I then started to hang with her family and freinds and we all became REALLY close I consider them my second fammily. I was hanging with just her friend and she told me that my smoke buddy really likes me. I really like her too I kno that she wont admit to it so I dedcided to get me and her drunk so that we could talk freely and if something goes wrong we could blame it on the booze. we got drunk and she said that she really likes me and me made out. So the nxt day she tells me that she dosent want to jeperdise our freind ship. I had a drug test the nxt day so I began to drink to get it out of my system and she drank too along with her freind. she started flirting with and I made out with her then i fingered her. Her freind then got on top of me and my smoke buddy said it was chill and that she thought it was hot. So I went with it and eat both them out. I went on vacation the nxt day and tonight when I texted her to ask her if we were chilin tommorrow she said not till later thz guy that she has bin hangin out with will be comming over (he only wants her for sex and she really isnt that kink of gurl) when she is home alone. She says that she really wants him. I dont kno if she dosnt want me anymore and if I should give up. I really like her but is she only doing shit becouse were drunk??
Or is she mad becouse I got down with her friend, she said it was cool (she is bi) I dont kno WTF to do can any one help
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No, actually getting drunk does the opposite. A person who gets drunk show their true feelings. She is only talking about this other guy because she wants to get a rise out of you. It is kind of like playing hard to get. If you pretend like you don't care, she will think you are not interested but she gets a rise out of you, she will want you even more. Basically she is testing your limits. Don't text for maybe a day or two and I guarantee she will be coming after you. Girls like the mind games so it is really complicated to decipher when one is interested or not.
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Well I'm guessing you're a guy, and considering you like this girl, but she likes this other guy.. and you got her drunk to get answers... It could just be that she did like you, but thinks you're using her for sex, like you think the other guy is. I'd suggest talking to her, if you like her enough to sit down and explain how you feel maybe you can start going somewhere with a real relationship. Don't worrie about being a guy, if you two are close enough.. she'll take it as it is and understand. If it has anything to deal with when you had the three sum, just explain to her, you don't see her friend like that, and you wouldn't have done it she'd said not too... Do you understand? .. You just have to be a bit more open with the girl you've got feelings for.
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