I have this friend and she was best friends with my ex and well things started to get bad in our relationship and when we broke up, I told her "Oh, I like..(lets say)..Bob". She told my ex I liked Bob, and I was upset because thanks to her it seemed like I cheated on him when really he cheated on me. I started liking Bob, and I realized to not trust this "friend" anymore. I started going out with Bob and I told my friend not to talk to Bob because I didnt trust her with my relationships, thinking she will ruin this one too. Hopefully not yet, but I dont want her to. How can I save my relationship? What if she tries to ruin it again? Bob is my friend's ex though but she doesnt care about him and I believe he doesnt care about her either. I really dont want her to tell him lies about me, or try to steal him from me even though she has another boyfriend.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? HotSauce answered Tuesday April 28 2009, 7:12 am: Oh, so you have a friend that wants what you have, even if she's not interested? Well, thats easy, just watch what you say around her. Don't let things that she could use against you be throw out there in mid-air, she will grab them most likely. Also, if she does tell him lies about you, you and I both know he'd be a fool to believe her. I mean she is his ex.. and they must have broken up mutual, or for some reason dealing with her. Just an opinion. But yeah just hold your tounge infront of her. You'll be fine. :) [ HotSauce's advice column | Ask HotSauce A Question ]
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