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Leaving...
So earlier this year, I met this guy. We became good friends because we had so much in common and enjoyed spending time together. We started hanging out more and more, and we've become really attached, I guess you could say. He recently told me that he really likes me more than a friend, and I told him I feel the same. But, I'm going away to college in 3 months. I'm going to a college that's only about an hour away, but I see college as a totally new experience, somewhere where I'll meet a lot of new people and have a ton of schoolwork that will keep me really busy. Plus, I won't be home that often. But, this guy really wants to date me, and honestly, I want to date him because he's amazing. In my heart, though, I feel like dating right now isn't such a good idea, considering the fact that I'll be leaving this fall; I know it would hurt so bad to go from dating him and seeing him every day to only seeing him once a month. I don't want to hurt him, either; I know i'm gonna meet alot of people, including other guys, and that might definitely change our relationship, you know? But I also feel like I'd be missing out on a great relationship if we don't date and just stayed friends. I'm really torn up about this. Please help?
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Hmm.. Well, I'd deffently explain to him how you feel. It's probable best not to date him, sence you're going to college. You love/like him don't hurt him. You probable know what it's like to be dumped right? Most men like to have there girls around alot.. And a girl whom is not around enough for a man is like when a man dumps a woman... It's painful. I'd just wait it out, if you're ever suppose to date or be with this guy, you'll find each other at some point when available. Believe in faith m'love... It's a key to the world.
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