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Age: 15
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Does anyone know how to get rid of burns (from a clothing iron) quickly? How long will it take? Thanks Bunches! (link)
neosporin works wonders, and it only takes like 3 days!
3 times daily for 3 days and you should be set


I've been with my girlfriend for over 18 months. I'm 19 and female and i just transfered schools. She's 18 and is just going in to college. We're only going to be about an hour apart, but for some reason she thinks she's going to get her heart broken. I keep telling her that we will have to work together to make it work, but for some reason she doesn't think so. Is it possible that she wants out? Can our relationship survive while we're in college? (link)
I believe that if you two love each other enough (im not doubting you), than you can make it work, i mean, this isn't a long distance relationship or anything, your only an hour away from each other, just make sure to call her every night, and see each other on weekends! best of luck!



ok,i went to NH with my friend and missed this party. There was a girl there and i didnt want her to be friends with MY friends. 2 girls -- Jill and Sandy are my friends and i didnt want her to be friends with this girl Tiana. I just dont want them to like her more than me..i know im being a bitch but i dont want Tiana to be friends with Jill and Sandy..Sandy told me she was acting like her bffl...and that made me kinda pissed.. how can i accept that Tiana is going to be friends with them? Tiana used to be my good friend but we split up..and i just want everyone to be friends and i can accept it. (link)
I know this sounds alot easier than it is, especially because people are always trying to preach about originality, but try to fit in with them, even if you do hate her now, people change, and someday you two might just be best best best friends, and thats the best thing someone could ask for in the world, so embrace the oppertunity.

wow that sounded gay, but it was the best i got.
lol, hope i helped!


ok why the hec are the MAJORITY of these questions about sex related topics????? theres nothing about babysitting, school, sports, pets, gardening, home decortating, theater, etc. i refuse to answer any sex related questions because you dont ask advicenators.com how to get someone in bed w/ u, etc! you ask them "hey im babysitting two 3 year old twins tomorrow. i really dont like them, not that theyre bad kids, i just dont like em! what can i do?" i understand that people need advice on these things and this is an anonymous way to get it! but people, mayb you could ask your friends or something! i dont know. i just want to know why so many people talk about that on here! its kinda of gross! every other question. . .! yick. ok so please answer ill rate VERY high cause u actually continued to read this! :-P (link)
Haha, me and you think alike, refer to my question to all of advicenators, and tell me what you think via inbox. THANK YOU, I THOUGHT I WAS ALONE.


I was working on Friday night with this guy, and he was sick the whole night, he shouldn't have even been at work but my boss wouldn't let him leave. So, it turns out he has mono. And I remember I accidently drank one of his drinks that night, and I'm really worried that I'm going to get it. How long does mono normally take to set it, and what are the symptoms?

Thanks. (link)
I absolutly HATED mono, i had it in the summer of 6th grade (a long long time ago), and the symptoms set in on me about 2 weeks after. Go to your doctor right away, because if you can catch it in early stages, your recovery will be much better, because i caught mono late, and i was out of hockey (and all other contact sports i play) for 3 months. Thats the bad side, the good side is that you diddnt drink out of the same spot on the cup. Best of luck, Hope i helped!


i used to play for my school/parish soccer team which is U-14 as far as i know and this year im going to be a freshman but i dont wanna go out for high school soccer...id rather play rec league. do you think i should ask if i can still play since it is a school AND parish team or should i just let it go? thanks in advanced! (link)
Personally coming from the same boat as you (only with baseball), i think you should give school sports a shot, its a great way to keep in touch w. classmates, and do something you love, and heck, you pick up a thing or two from your coaches/peers anyway. But, if you ask to play rec. leauge still, try moving up to select or a travel team, so at least your getting more development. Hope i helped!


Has anyone tried, I think Jergen's makes that lotion that gives you some color just by using their lotion? Its not really a self-tanner since its supposed to moisturize the skin but also give you a glow after a week of use.

I was just wondering if anyone has tried it & if they have, did it work for you? I have very fair skin & I try anything to get some color. Thanks! (link)
Yeah, i have tried it, even though it is primarily for girls, and i did notice a difference, i think it just moisturizes your skin and has like traces of sunless tanner in it. Sorry for the lack of expertise in this field, but im only a guy. lol.


I really like this guy named Mike. Me and my friend Logan went to the movies with him and he held are hand and kissed both of us. Then after that he gave us his number. I was really attracted to him. He asked out my friend Logan but she said no. I really like him and he knows i do but now he likes some other girl. why would he kiss me and hold hands with me and telling me all this stuff on the phone and now likes another girl?
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confused (link)
Once again, a typical teenage "pimp," im very sorry that you had to experience that, because no girl should be treated like that, and please, a guy like that in 10-15 years will be bumming money off of you for drugs anyway, so just keep yer head up and look for a guy that is worth your love, and once you have him, keep him, because true love is not something to waste.

any more problems feel free to drop one in my inbox

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DREW


Today i feel like, well i dont know. Like i want to just cry and stuff..and i really dont know why. Im not upset, or anything like that.
Why do i feel like im going to cry? (link)
I wouldnt know, because im a guy, but alot of my other friends that are girls say that they get like that when they PMS, they either get rly sad and want to cry for no reason, or for a really stupid one, or just hate the world and everything in it. Hope you have a better day, hope i helped


My car has recently strared to squeal/screach when I break. It's not all the time, mostly when I am in traffic. I assumed I needed break pads, so I had a friend check them, and they are fine. She assumed I have a "hard spot" in the pad. Could this be the cause? What else could it be? (link)
Check if the brake fluid went bad, sometimes if your car sits around for a while the brake fluid seperates, and all the oils in it go to the top, making a squealing noise when you stop, especially in traffic when its stop and go, because its very jotty.


There is this guy that i had met and the next day he took my virginity and then 2 days later he came back for more. I didnt really know him and we starting freaking out hat i might've been preg.But i am not and like ever since he has been scared to talk to me. I dont care that he doesnt talk to me but like doing what i did with him ruined my life. I got kicked out of my moms house and like alot of stuff happened. I dont talk to him because i am not important to him or whatever. I feel so used and gross. I wish this feeling can leave me but it wont. I need to feel clean ,any advice? (link)
You've already done the best thing possible, let out your emotions. What you can do is still try and explain the circumstances of what happend, and maybe he will be a little nicer to you and not totally avoid you, and for the most part, that guy sounds like a jack-ass. The third thing you need to do is deffinately the hardest. Put it in your past, because nothing will change it, absoloutly(sp?) nothing. I know that sounds completely difficult to you about now, but you dont want to dwell on your past, focus on your future and your goals. if you ever need to vent, drop one in mi inbox n ill get rite back to u

much love (and good luck)
DrEw

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I went to visit my aunt and met this guy and i guess he says he lieks me and when we were in the car he asked when i was going to be his gf and i said i didnt no well i havent seen him for awhile and i call him and talk to him on the phone and i really really like him what should i do becuz i really want to go with him (link)
Hey, this is all up to you and what your gut feeling tells you to do. If you really like him and you think he will be a good bf, then date him, if u dont really think thinks will work out too well, then just stay close friends until u figure out for sure. You should call him n try to make plans to meet somewhere like the movies or go ice skating or something, theres no harm in that!

much love
drew
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this question is for my friend:

my boyfriend is so sweet. he'd never cheat on me and he never acts Interested in another girls or stuff like that. do you think he could be gay? because he doesn't seem to be interested when girls are wearing skimpy clothes on tv or pictures and id ont think he looks at it on his own. but he gets horny around me. i don't think he is but soemtimes i wonder. (link)
Sometimes you'll find that guys are very loyal, especially if he is shy at school and stuff, but you cant really tell if he looks on his own unless he tells you. Second of all, i dont think hes gay because hes going out with you unless hes trying to cover being gay up. i bet he is interested in girls in short skimpy skirts n stuff like that but is just too scared to look with you, no offence but im sure he does without u with him.

if u need ta ask me nething else drop one in mi inbox, or im me at HckyAg89 on aim

much love
drew


I had a really crappy year in the 8th grade. I was harassed a lot, turned down by 2 guys I really liked, got straight C's, & lost a bunch of my friends. I also was accused of spreading a bunch of rumors! It sucked.

I'm really afraid to go back to school though in September. There's this group of girls who are all so mean to me for no particular reason! They constantly put me down & accuse me of spreading rumors. Towards the end of the school year, there was this rumor going around, saying that I said that some chick was cheating on her boyfriend. I never even TALKED to this girl, so I don't know why I was accused of spreading a rumor. That rumor pretty much damaged my social life & school life. I wound up getting hated on by a lot of my old friends & getting harassed by people I've never spoken to!

I'm doing better now, because I have better friends now & I'm a lot more selfconfident. I'm really afraid to go back to school, though. What should I do if anyone gives me crap again? (link)
Yep, I had the same problem in 7th grade, theres always one group of ppl trying to make ur life miserable. The best way to deal with it, coming from the master of social problems is to simply live ur life normally, like u have no friends n ur sole purpose is to go to school and learn. I know it sound MADD retarded but it boosts ur grades because ur focusing on them more and the ppl who r talkin shit to you dont have anything bad to target you about, and nothing more than that pisses them off. So in the end you win both ways. When you go back to school, just keep your head up n dont let nebody bring u down bc their not worth it anyways. Self confidence is the thing that gets you targeted the most.

much love
drew

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My question to ask is about Health & Fitness.I've always been going on diets but they never seem to work for me.I mean I want to have the perfect body and be perfectly fit.I weigh about 140 I'm like medium not fat or anything just a little.I would like to weigh at least 110.Do you have any Advice for me? I always been eatting the wrong kinds of food because its soo hard because my mom makes brownies and cookies stuff like that sometimes.I try going on diets but I always seem to eat alot.I did try to starve myself the one time but I told myself thats not the bright Idea.I need too be skinny I want to be skinny and phsyically fit.Please help me
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Ok, the best diet on the market right now is the South Beach Diet, because its the cheapest and you can eat pretty much everything, but again, everything bases around if your active or not. If your active and play a contact sport, you should be fine with just a little bit of a diet, because a little food does nothing if you are not properly fueled for your game or practice, so dont starve yourself, because you will gain it back anyway. If your not active, the diet is pretty hard, so you should go with the atkins diet, which is pretty much no carbohydrates, which is mainly foods with bread. Also, if you can help it try and stay away from cookies and brownies, yeah i know its rly hard bc i have a mom like that too... but the payoff is much greater than what you put into it. You should grocery shop with your Mom or Dad or whoever takes care of you, and buy things that are healthy choices, like i know they have low carb sodas, like C2 (made by coca-cola, and it tastes exactly the same,) some other foods good to eat are like NutraGain bars, because they fill you up pretty good, and are just as good as cookies.

good luck on your diet, hope u loose the weight, but you have to stick to the diet, i suggest you look it up on like google or yahoo or sumthin like that. 30 pounds is a lot of weight, you will deffinately feel the difference, your going to have alot of energy

hope i helped... plz rate
drew


well i play soccer a lot and my friends always bitch and stuff because im always busy...yea it sux...also i like this guy but wen i talk to him he doesnt take it seriously, and idk wut to do...my life sux right about now help! (link)
Yeah i know how u feel, i was in the same situation because i play travel hockey that takes me anywhere from cleveland to pittsburgh.. n i live in rochester Ny (halfway between syracuse n buffalo). what i try to do is explain to my friends why i cant spend alot of time with them, and most of the time they respect that, all you have to do is tell your friends that r bitchin that at least i have a life and follow my passion. For your guy problem, all you have to do is tell him to be serious... just say lets say his name is Jake... "jake.. stop im being serious"


much love
drew

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ahh i have so much celulight on my butt! what are some ways to get rid of it?? PLEASE HELP!! (link)
Cody is EXACTLY right about the body fat thing, and unless you buy the good cellulite cream, it doesnt work.. you have to excersice all around to loose it, its free, and fun if you do it with a friend!

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drew


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hey everyone...ive never had a guy treat me right...they all use me for sex, my body or watever and i dont do nething wit them tho...im pretty every 1 says and alot of guys like me but they r all the same...they ALL even tell me "when u gonna let me hit that" im like never and theyll ask me out n juss wanna fuck...so i kinda juss stopped well im startin h.s this yr and im hoping to meet a guy ther...who will love me for me....the thing is...im going camping on tuesday..i think its a gr8 chance to meet guyz...i juss dont kno wat to say to them if i see a hott one....wat shuld i do? do i wait for one to come to me? do i go up to a guy if i think ill like him? help...i want a bf s0o bad... (link)
Ok, you have 2 problems that guys will use you for.

1.Your being desperate... you will NOT meet a good guy by being guy crazy and wanting a bf that bad, slow it out a bit n let them come to you, thats what normally happens anyway.

2.If you dont want to be treated like a sex toy for the rest of your life, look a lil beyond the looks and go for the personality, its a sacrifce most of the time worth taking.

if you correct these 2 things, i promise you that over time (like a month) things WILL change.. and standing up against the guys who say such degrading shit to you will help a lil too ;)

much love
drew


ok well .. im a freshman and im a captain in a way for soccer and i need to find more ways to make money bcause we have a lot of things to do .. but it could get expensive so we have to try and make money .. weve done a car wash and asked for donations .. so i dnt kno what else to do .. im good at the captain soccer thing not the whoole money thing . help =) x|0 (link)
Theres a lot of things you can do to raise money, im in kinda the same situation for hockey and we did the following:

*Can Drive (you collect cans from you and your teammates neighbors, then bring em in to your local grocery store or suttin for money)

*Raffle Tickets (they are VERY cheap to buy... you can get huge rolls of them 3 for a dollar at most stores, and sell them at your games, for like 2 dollars, half the winnings go toward your team, half goes to the person who wins)

*Door to Door sales (my team has done many before, ranging from cookie dough to pepperoni sticks... yeah I know its wierd, but effective)

*Golf Tournament ( there are MANY components here, and they are very diffucult to organize, but make TONS of money, im talking 10,000 range.
you need to get a 4some of golfers together, charge them like 80 bucks to play in it, have like hole sponsors and charge them like 200 per advertisement from them, i highly suggest you dont do this one unless you have unreconsilable committment to this fundraiser.)

thats pretty much them all, hope i helped somewhat... lol

pc Drew




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