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Crappy Year
I had a really crappy year in the 8th grade. I was harassed a lot, turned down by 2 guys I really liked, got straight C's, & lost a bunch of my friends. I also was accused of spreading a bunch of rumors! It sucked.
I'm really afraid to go back to school though in September. There's this group of girls who are all so mean to me for no particular reason! They constantly put me down & accuse me of spreading rumors. Towards the end of the school year, there was this rumor going around, saying that I said that some chick was cheating on her boyfriend. I never even TALKED to this girl, so I don't know why I was accused of spreading a rumor. That rumor pretty much damaged my social life & school life. I wound up getting hated on by a lot of my old friends & getting harassed by people I've never spoken to!
I'm doing better now, because I have better friends now & I'm a lot more selfconfident. I'm really afraid to go back to school, though. What should I do if anyone gives me crap again?
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Wow, sounds liek you did have a bad year, but that doesnt mean this one has 2 b 2. people wil always talk about someone it gives them sumthign 2 do i guess but it shows how shallow they are. look at it this way, a new year, a new begining. start over, let the best of your personality shine through and dont let what others say put you down at all. also being kinda 2 evryone is alwyas good, because they cant have anythign bad 2 say about sumone who is nice 2 them.
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School can be crappy. Life can suck. But its no reason to hide under the covers. Get your butt out of bed everyday knowing its a brand new day and it can go good or bad depending on how you act. Its a new year and a clean slate. If anyone accuses you of rumors be like i havent seen any of you the whole summer, i have no clue whats going on in your lives therefore i couldnt spread rumors. I know its the hardest thing to do, but you really need to ignore most of what people say. If they yell at you ignore it. Talk to your friends when they talk to you act like they dont exist. When your laughing and having a fun time with your friends they'll see your unreachable and unharmable. As far as grades ... get a tutor, or spend extra time studying. Try hitting the library and doing some work there, its quiet and you can always get help from a librarian. Good luck... you should do fine this year... and you dont need those idiots who bother you, just ignore the hell out of them. good luck sweeets
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yea --> i think alot of ppl have gone through that sometime in their life. But you dont have to do anything. If you ignore them and act like you dont give a flying fuck. They will eventually back off. and dont worry about your old friends. if they can turn agaisnt you for something you didnt even do..then i dont think they were very good friends. just be patient..and DONT be affriad. you mite meet alot of new ppl. and once they find out who you REALLY are. they wont care about what other ppl say. *good lucK*
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Yep, I had the same problem in 7th grade, theres always one group of ppl trying to make ur life miserable. The best way to deal with it, coming from the master of social problems is to simply live ur life normally, like u have no friends n ur sole purpose is to go to school and learn. I know it sound MADD retarded but it boosts ur grades because ur focusing on them more and the ppl who r talkin shit to you dont have anything bad to target you about, and nothing more than that pisses them off. So in the end you win both ways. When you go back to school, just keep your head up n dont let nebody bring u down bc their not worth it anyways. Self confidence is the thing that gets you targeted the most.
much love
drew
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i remember being given crap alot one year in middle school. and i too had problems dealing with it. but i realized the best thing to do is to let them know that what they are doing or saying doesnt bother you. because they are teasing to get your goat. and if you dont allow that to happen, theres no point in them teasing you anymore. even if this doesnt stop all of the teasing. you'll feel better by not letting it bother you.
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Just tell them that you never did anything..If they don't believe you and still hate you and stuff..Then just walk away. There's nothing you can really do about it unless you tell someone. But I would just ignore them. Just be confident and let them think what they want. who cares what they think they're not worth your time!! =D
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