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I am a 14 year old girl, with lots of expectation from life, I am in Love with my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, I am not into the dating thing, i was in it and got my heart broken and now, Jesus and i are "dating" i guess you could say ..I've been on a spritutal high ever since .. I refer to biblical stand points to all of my advice, i am a servant to all that asks, I love to talk and sing and i am trying to figure this think out called Life and see what my purpose is on this earth .. l0l

Promise me Women of Jerusalem, by the gazelles and the wild deer, not to awaken my love until it is ready.. Song of Solomon 2:7

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Does anybody know any good bible scriptures? I know that Psalms is good.. but anybody know any on wisdom?

Proverbs is the BEST book about wisdom !!!
I like Song of Solomon personally, and Acts, Revelation is the bomb !! LoL Thats just my opinion though .. :-)

Hi, Advicenators. Normally I make up my own mind, but I need a little help. If you're going to be sarcastic or rude, don't bother.
Gender: female
Grade: Eighth
I have a problem with my Sunday School teacher. You see, I honestly believe that I have more Biblical knowledge than her. I know that sounds conceited.. but it just seems like it! Yesterday (Easter Sunday) our "lesson" was on miracles. This is what the conversation was like:
Teacher:Who can preform miracles?
Teacher:Only Jesus can preform miracles! No one else can!
Me:*raises hand*
Teacher:yes?
Me:But Jesus isn't the only one who can preform miracles.. Paul, Elija, Elisha, the Devil, the Twelve Disciples.. they all preformed miracles..
Teacher:No, no, no. That's not what I said..
Me:You said "Only Jesus can preform miracles".
Teacher:Anyway, girls, as you see.. blah, blah, blah.
At this time, I'm feeling pretty screwed over since she just blew me off. All of that conversation is an exact quote. This was the third time that I was able to correct her (and the third time I got blown off) yesterday alone! It happens every Sunday.. she doesn't know the lesson, she doesn't know what she's talking about.. It makes me mad!
I know that I am much, much more mature Spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and in my knowledge of the Bible and Christ.. (not trying to sound conceited..) but the lessons are never fufilling! I could gather more from my eight-year old sister's Sunday School lesson. Get this: I was the only girl in my class of seventh and eighth grade girls that knew what the Rapture was! Oh my gosh! How dumb?!
So, I was considering talking to my youth pastor about this. I'm naturally shy, and I don't like to put myself in that position.. but this is so annoying.. and a waste of my Sunday morning! So.. do you think I should speak to my youth pastor about this?
PS - I don't really get along with my teacher, I'm nice to her... but we don't get along. :\
PPS - Sorry it's so long! Thanks in advance..

I understand, but like you said the other girls didn't know what the rapture was so maybe she is putting it on a lower level so they can understand it .. Maybe you should go to the nexet grade level for your sunday school class and if someone asks why then just tell them that you weren't learning anything in the other one ..

Ok, Im in love with this girl Renee. She is the greatest thing that ever happened to me. I went away with her for a weekend and I was really happy... she was really happy.. We kissed and stuff. We fell asleep in each others arms. The next day when we were heading home she was kind of distant. I noticed it and asked her if she was having second thoughts. she said she didnt like me as much as I like her and that the feelings the felt that night had gone away.. I still love her, deeply, I think about her all the time, and we still talk, but I dont want to love her but I cant help it and its killing me, I'm afraid if I stop loving her, I'll stop liking her all together, and I really dont want that to happen.. Im not entirely convinced that her feelings for me are gone, I think she is just hiding them, not wanting to be hurt... but I'd never hurt her!

What can I do? Should I just keep trying to get over her? Should I persist? Could my theorys be true that she is just hiding her true feelings? HELP!!

17/m

Keep going after her !! If she is hiding her feelings then she'll know that your true and you really do love her and your not just playing the "dating game" ..

Sometimes when a girl likes a guy a lot, she becomes dumb around him and can't think of anything to say. Well, I'm like that. I'm too nervous to say anything, I never talk to him unless he talks to me... I think he has a crush on me, cause I really never noticed him until he started talking to me . And I developed a crush on him .
The problem is that everyone's telling me
"dont walk up to him, people will start talking"
That's one of the reasons I'm too nervous to talk to him!
When is the perfect time to talk to a guy you like? should I start saying hi to him instead of waiting for him to say hi to me? never really say hi to him, he always does and I reply.
Please dont delete this question, I need the advice. I rate of course.

I COMPLETLY know what your talkin about !! I am the same way with this one guy !! um .. Just say hi first , i conversation will start up .. Talk about anything !!
Good luck !!

I feel so bad that my mama and me dont always get along. She's my real mom and we have an arguement like 75 percent of the time we're together. she usually starts it. she'll yell at me about my attitude. and i would yell at her and shell get all mad at me and i get mad at her. sometimes she comes to apologize. but one time i told her off when she was trying to apologize then she yelled at me and she doesnt apologize anymore. now when we argue, it wears off. sometimes i go 2 days without talking to her but i dont want to. i wish i could get along with her. the sad thing is that i really need her. i cant wish for her to go away because i need her no matter how much we dont get along. she just doesnt understand me she tries to help me but ends up making things worse and i know its not her fault we just argue more than we spend time together even when we are spending time together. im sorry this is so long but i dont know what to do. can somebody help me?

Well, you could apologize .. And tell her what you just said ..
Good Luck ;-)

Hey I saw your advice and my friend told him what I felt. Do you think if I told him he do something about him and his girlfriend. I mean I have tried to get him out of my head and I can't. I'm going crazy. If your good with words tell me what to say to him. Thanks.

Well .. There's only one way to find out ..
Tell him how you feel .. I know how you feel, it's hard to get em out of your head ..

Just go up and talk to him in a normal conversation and get into the subject .. Just say , I have to tell you something or it will bother me, and tell him how you feel ..
He'll understand ..
Good Luck !!

Hey.
i met this guy @ my youth group and i like him SO much. He likes me too but i dont want to rust into anything because i'm still not over the other guy i dated. I still LOVE him. what do i do?

Go for it !! I think that before you go out with the other guy that you till the guy that you "love" that you still have feelings for him .. If he doesn't have feelings for you then go out with the other guy ..
Good Luck !!

Hey what's up? Listen I had a love at first sight problem. I fell for this guy the first time I saw him and can't get him out of my head. But thats not the problem. The problem is that he has a girlfriend. i have tried to get over him but I can't. What should I do. I really really want to go out with him. help me out. I am 16 years old by the way.

Well .. That sounds like me !! LoL
Um .. My advice is that you tell him how you feel .. (Thats the hard part) You can either wait till untill him and his girlfriend brake up or tell him now ... That parts up to you .. The sooner you tell him the better ..
Hope I helped !!

after summer 2003...my boyfriend broke up with me that summer...I thought we were for real...well that following year I was starting 7th grade...I started losing faith in everything and everyone...I started skippin school, gettin in fights, hating everyone, getting lower grades than usual...I thought there was no life beyond my ex boyfriend...I never actually prayed...I'd do it everyonce in a while...and then I'd always have second thoughts towards "him" cuz even when i think positive and pray nothing ever happens for better than for worse...how do I start trusting and believing "he" IS there?

Well I kinda had the same thing happen to me .. My heart felt crushed and i didn't care if i hurt peoples feelings .. I was hurt and i was all i cared about .. I still like the guy .. But i was just prayin that God would mend my heart and he was .. slowly but surely .. It still hurts to see him sometimes but God is working on me ..

ok well latley i havn't been myself and i don't know how to fix it. i meen i pray and stuff and i am a strong christian . but i dunno it is wierd cause i don't even know who me is when people say your name you feel like you are somone when i hear it is like just my name nothin speacial just a word that was given to me. and it is wierd cause when i pray latley bad things seem to happen like in some way i get hurt emotiionally my friend hates me or somthing of such matter.

so here is the question how do i firgure out who the real me is again the one that everyone knew that i knew. the one who can think clearly

thnx

Seek Gods face !! Your name is givin to you for a purpose .. It means something .. Just pray and read the word .. God will reveal his will for you ..

my parents get mad at me whenever i say something about religion that doesnt agree with their views. they tell me im to young to have an opinion about that kind of stuff. and i do. and im not that good at communicating. so should i just tell them that i believe in god? even though i have doubts?

thanks.

Well .. I don't agree that your parent are forcing you to believe what they believe .. That brings rebellion .. Just believe what God puts in your heart ..

I feel lately that I am a fake Christian. I say I believe in Jesus, God, etc., but I just am not very knowledgable about Christianity on the whole. All I know is, when I'm talking to God, or the few times I go to church, I am very happy, because I do know that God and Jesus love me. And my family - they all believe and everything, we're just not the most religious people, I guess. But I realize that we need to truly accept Jesus into our hearts in order to enter Heaven, and I don't even feel truly like I've done that yet. I've never brought it up with my family, but I really want all of us to get to know God and Jesus so that I can expect to meet them in Heaven, because this is kind of a priority. But how do I do this without basically saying, "Okay, here we go, we are going to believe in this whether you like it or not"? I know that sometimes people get kind of offended because they think I force my ideas about religion upon them... Sorry for the long question - I rate!

Well ...
As long as you love God and believe that Jesus died on the cross for your sins .. Then your a Christian .. I felt that way for a while i prayed when i was at church one time and i felt Gods presence .. It was the GREATEST thing ever !! You don't have to know ALL the history of christianity to be a christian just accept him in your heart and pray and study God's word .. He knows the condition of you heart ..
:-) Hope i helped

a friend from school died about 3 weeks ago from cancer. now one of my close friends has cancer too. its making me so incredibly frustrated and upset and angry and so worried about my friend all at the same time. i need someone spiritual to please give me a new outlook on all of this, because right now i can't stop praying and questioning why the hell things like this happen.

Well .. My Grandfather died from it and now the doctors are saying that my Grandmother has cancer .. All my family is praying that she is healed, cancer is a generational curse .. I think you need to pray that the generational curse will be broke with her and will be killed at the root and never come against her family again .. God has a purpose for EVERYTHING , even though it hurts .. I know what your going through !!

In the aftermath of the tsunami, the eternal theological question is again posed: what sort of God permits the slaughter of blameless humanity on such a scale?

On the abundant available evidence does it not seem that, if there is or was a God, it is now malevolent, mad or dead?

No, religious nutters please - this is a serious question I'm posing.

Dr Kesha

Well the tsunami hit Sri Lanka, mostly southeast Asia, alot of small islands .. Asia is the third most christian persacuting country in the world .. I believe that it was a sign from tell people to stop persacuting his people and just believe ..

I give up. I dont deserve gods love. I am not worthy enough for it. He gives me a gift and i dont use it. I fail one class, i am a porn addict. I give up i dont deserve god anymore. I dont even deserve to live, i, i really dont care. i am not good enough. I am not as loyal to him as i should be. i dont deserve him at all. im done. Please give advice or a way to end it all

Don't do this to your self !!!
God loves you for who you are .. He died for you so you could make mistakes and repent on beat yourself up .. He has a plan for you and your life .. Don't give up ..

Lately I've been getting headaches and when I close my eyes trying to get them to go away, I see things. Like there's some kind of movie playing on my eyelids. I saw my friend failing her history test and it actually happened word for word. I tried to talk to my friend about it and she thought I was joking around. I'm really scared. I don't want to be a freak. The headaches keep coming and I keep seeing things and I want it to stop.

What should I do and does this happen to anybody else?

Freaked out Psychic?

I've had that happen to me, but without the headache .. And i'll have dreams of the future .. I am a Christian, so this is my point of veiw ::

I believe that it is God trying to warn me or tell me something ..

Hope I Helped

I really want to change my religion, I am a Roman Catholic I just don't believe in their thoughs and such. I am not sure what I want to be. Does any oen have any past experience? Is it like a legal thing if you want to change religions; like you have to get papers? Any help or comments or info about other religions would be greatly appreiciated!

No you don't have to have papers or anything .. Its a condition of your heart ..

here is something i dont understand and i sont know if anyone here understands it. Why are we here just why i dont understand it we were put here by god but why it makes no sense. i mean think we live just so we can die it makes no sense so i dont understan why we would be put here by god it makes no sense because one day we could be alive and the next we could be dead just why.

I understand, life gets confusing sometimes ... I suggest you read Ecclesiastes .. Solomon and alot of wisdon but he wondered the same thing .. He said that everything was useless !! Maybe you'll get some answers in there ..

i've been really doubting Jesus Christ these past few days. i believed in Jesus before and i trust that i'll believe in him once again, i just need some motivation and i need to be reminded again of his grace and glory. please help me turn my life back to God.

WoW !! This are all good answers !! Just pray and ask God to help you .. I have been going through alot and i know this sounds kind of weird and all but, I can fell him .. Its like he holds me in his arms and tells me that it is going to be ok .. There is this song that i can relate to is says " Daddy, hold me, pick me up, never let me go .." It repeats and my think of God as my Father and when ever I need him I can go to him and he'll hold me untill the storm is passed .. Just pray and seek his face !! He's there and he loves you !!

If god knows that we are gonna do something bad, like look up porn, why doesnt he try and stop us. I dont really understand it but, i am a porn addict and its getting harder and harder for me to stop. why would god let me do it if he knows its wrong?

Well, I know where your coming from .. I believe that it is a test he gives you a choice to do it or to resist temptation .. And hopefully you'll resist ..

Hope I Helped

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