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BdAy: September 1

ScHoOL: SHS '06 Graduate.
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I decided to make this to help people out if they need it. I've been told I'm a good advice giver. So we'll see. =) Feel Free To Ask Me Questions About Anything! Hope I help.




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Ok, I like the whole “crimp” style, but when I crimp my hair it goes all poofy. Is there any way I can still crimp my hair w/o it going poof on me? Thnx everyone!

Try using smoothing gel (Thermasilk has a good one). Or moose, or just regular styling gel and see how that works.

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there is a kid i like and he is like my best friend. he is goen out wit one of my best friends. should i tell him that i like him or should i just keep it a secret. he knew i liked him last year but he doesnt kno this year. when he knew last year he went out wit my bestest friend and that made me feel bad.. can u give me an answer.. what should i do???

Well if you feel like you need to tell him, go for it. Just make sure he knows you aren't out to ruin his relationship with your friend. Good luck.

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hey well i'm really nervous about the first time i have sex. im nervous about becoming pregnant, like if the condom breaks. so i was wondering if its wrong/weird for the guy to wear 2 condoms (one on top of the other)... is that really pathetic? i know im supposed to use lube but i'm still scared so could i make him wear 2 just in case?

Having him wear two condoms increases the chances of the condom breaking.

-and you asked how I know.. I know because they teach you that in school and because a lot of condom companies warn you about that.

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Hey guys....
I'm kind of really sad right now....Since my girl friend and I have been going out (8 months) she has promised me time after time that she doesn't pleasure/finger herself. In fact when I used to say Krysta I think you do she would get so mad and say shes not like that and she really doesn't.
Last night I was going through her email, and she had signed up for www.loveforum.net. The user name that was in that email was never activated so I didn't think about it again until I asked her why she signed up.
On first off she said she NEVER heard of the site and her brother probably did it, or maybe she did it awhile ago and forgot about it. I took that and accidently clicked on a link called 'Pleasure for girls' in the Sex Talk forum. The user name was PhillyChick847, which is what she goes by sometimes.
She was asking for advice on how to give herself pleasure, and hide it from me. She said she does it 3 times a week in the forum when she told me she NEVER has ever done it.
She denyed that she typed that and said there is more than one phillychick online, I took that! Then just for myself, I tried to login with my name as the password and it WORKED! After me telling her I would dump her on the spot if she didn't admitt it she admitted it.
She was so upset that she cut herself...I was really upset because I can't believe she would go behind my back and do this....its almost UNBELIEVEABLE. She told me she loved me sooo much and she was sorry...she said she just did it because it felt so good when I did it to her.
She still said she doesn't do it that often, but she can't explain why she typed that. Heres the link to the post: http://www.loveforum.net/showthread.php?t=3965
She made 3 posts and they ALL disturbed me ALOT.
I threw up like 4 times last night, I can't belive she would do this....I'm so upset...I mean maybe if she didn't lie to me it wouldn't be such a big deal. The thing that even disturbs me more is on the time stapms right after I walked her home from the bus stop she went in and did this...and shes really interested in finding more ways...I think the damage to my head is already done.
I still LOVE her so much but I don't know if I want to be with her....she can say shes not going to do it again but no one can stop once they do it, especially if she does it that much...I really do LOVE her but I don't know what to do...That really disturbed me ALOT! can everyone please help me?
Should I break up with her...please help guys...please....

Thanks in advance
Dave

Ok well I don't have an answer for this question. Because if anyone does thats stupid. There is nothing wrong with her masturbating. If she wants to do it she can. Whats th edifference between her doin git to herself an dyou doin git for her? I'm sure you masturbate a lot too. Guys do it so why can't a girl if she chooses to? Second of all.. what gave the the right to GO THROUGH her email. Invasion of privacy? I think yes. I'm suprised she hasn't broken up with you. I'm sorry cause I'm usually not this mean but that is fucked up.. it really is.

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Picture day is on Friday (tomorrow) and I was wondering what kind of makeup I should wear like... colors, and brands (the the exact kinds would be nice).
...I have dirty blonde hair bit past my shoulders, oval shaped face, pale skin, and hazel eyes. If you could help that'd be great Thanks so much.

Try Maybelline bronzer in sunlight. My friend says it is pretty. And were eyeliner to bring out your eyes and an eye shadow that brightens them. Umm.. and lipgloss is pretty too so use that!

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How long does a girl have her period? like how many days?

It depends on the girl.. usually anywhere from 3 to 7 days..

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This is a REALLY stupid question but, do you know those iPod commercials where the silouette of people are dancing around...well anyway, there is this one song that they have been doin latley and it sounds really cool, BUT I DONT KNOW THE NAME!! its a kinda rock song and its really fast. Does anyone know this song??? Thanks, ill rate.

Steriogram- Walkie-Talkie Man

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Alright Well..I want to lose weight in my thighs and abs and stomach area. Does anyone have any GOOD excersizes that will work in a month in a half or so? I wanna loose 20 pounds. Thanks and please dont delte.

go to toneteen.com and see what they got for ya ;) Hope it helps *amber*

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Hi well my boyfriends friends come up and pinch my ass , everytime I ask them to stop they ust kiss me like Im thier own and my boyfriend lets them what do I do?

tell them to fuck off or else. haha, just talk to ur boyfriend about it and let him know ur uncomfortable with it. hope it helps *amber*

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i have a seriouse problem with keeping a boyfriend. I have never been dumped because i always dump them so quickly! its so hard because i always wnat new guys, im never happy with just one, and i never want to hurt anyone or cheat on anyone! i have a boyfriend right now and i like him sooo much, he is perfect for me, but for some reason i want to dump him, its so hard and confusing, what should i do!

if you like him, don't dump him! =) simple as that. hope it helps *amber*

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im in love with this girl, i mean like IM IN LOVE.
but i dont know if she likes me. i have gone out places with her, like football games and shit. but i just dont know. shes really hot and its the first person ive felt this way about, i mean sure ive liked girls but not like this. i seem to never know when to kiss a girl or hold their hand or put my arm around them, its just sumthing i dont know, when do i do any of those things!?!?!
plz answer me ill rate a 5!

do it when you feel the time is right ! Anytime can be a good time ;) Hope it helps *amber*

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Ok im 14 and a 34 in like ltd 2 bras that is wicked small!!! but im fit! and i went through everything.. im going to be a freshman in a couple of days!!! what do i do!!! im small! and i cant wait for them to groww!!! and guys are going to not want to go out with me HELP!!!! and dont tell me to stuff cause that is like so obviose!!!

signed so SMALL!!

Don't worry about it.. your small. you'll prolly grow eventually. & who wants huge boobs anyway? Theres no point.. I defiantely don't have huge boobs and i'm fine with that.. I know in time i'll grow some and thats okay too.. but don't worry about your boobs, cause if guys don't like you cause you are small.. they are stupid. Hope it helps. *amber*

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U c i like this girl who goes to my school and we r great friends. But the prob is she is goin out w/ one of my best friends. At first i was just gonna wait and c what happened but they've been goin out for a while. I dont wanna mess anythin up but i cant stop thinkin bout her. And when i'm w/ her i feel sumthin.
HELP!
thnx in advance

Awh that sounds really cute.. haha I went off topic, but it does. lol. Maybe you should spill your feelings to her. But let her no in advance that you aren't trying to mess things up with her and her boyfriend. Let her know that you just want to get these feelings off your chest, I'm sure it would help a lot.. it has for me. Just being honest with a person can be a ton of help! Hope it helps =) *Amber*

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One of my good friends is dating this guy, Erik, that I liked for 2 years, but she never new it. And so they been dating for 7 months, and Ive been a bit down latly. He just recently broken up with her, And he said he did it cause he wanted to go out with me cause he heard I liked him. But I don't wanna hurt my friend, beacause she's really down, and crying and all. I feel really bad, but on the other hand I really wanna go out with him. What should I do?

~Amberlynn

Well I'd say talk to you're friend about ti and find out how she would feel if you two were together. If she is uncomfortable with it, I wouldn't take the chance unless you are okay with ruining a relationship with your friend. Chances are you are not. But if she doesn't seem to uncomfortable with the thought, and you've liked him for so long I'd say go for it.. Of course, as long as you think its really worth it.. especially since your friend is so hurt right now. Or maybe if you don't think you should go for it right now, talk to the guy and see how he would feel about waiting a bit. Hope it helps. * Amber *

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what is the name that chicago is in? thanx

Illinois

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i have the worst cramps ever! any girls now some good cures?

Midol.

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Hey guys! I wanted to let you know that each and everyone one of you gives great advice. Well, this isn't a question of "advice", more like a question. I was just wondering.. do any of you guys know any good quote sites? Thanks so much!

the quote directory

http://www.geocities.com/quotedirectory0x/mya.html


hellz angelz

http://www.hellz-angelz.cjb.net/


hope it helps *AmBeR*

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Where can I find lyrics to songs at. I tried www.dapslyrics.com but it wont let me in. Thanks.

i always go to azlyrics.com..

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ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month now and we talk all the time on the phone and online but when we get to school we dont talk at all! we haven't even hugged..! and like all we do is say hi or wave and walk away like we're in health and Intro to something together and like everyone always talks but we never do! well me and my friend Sam are going to watch him practice and the kid she likes practice for football so if you have any advice on how to get him to talk to me in school please hurry cause my friend is coming over now! alright thanks!

-I rate high-

He's probably just shy or nervous around you in person. Yu should go up to him and start a conversation first. Or ask him why you guys hardly talk in person. I'm sure you'll figure thisgs out =) Hope it helps *AMbER*

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k, im the girl who asked the ? about askin my mom to wear thongs. Do ne of u no where the sell cute ones. I jus like to be accesorized. I WONT SHOW IT!! lol. I jus would like to know where they sell some cute ones so when I go to the store, I can look and pick??? THANXS!!!!

Places in malls like DEB, Gadzooks, Charlotte Russe, Rave, Victoria's Secret, and lots of other stores have pretty cute ones =) Hope it helps. *AmBeR*

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