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my best friend likes this guy she is almsot 16 in 11th grade and the same with this guy.
but this boy has a gf..
my freind is not an idiot and she knows that he has a gf so she knows she will not make the move on him, but the thing is.. he flirts with her alot. he IMs her once in a while and asks her wat shes doing the next day and she seys she doesnt no and asks him the question bak, but then he seys "nothing" and he signs off..
another time he IMed her and said "call me sometime, you know it wont kill you"
my friend has her mind made up.. she knows that shes not going to call him bc he has a gf.
he signs off after he says what he wants to say, liek right after he gets out wat he wants to say, and she doesnt no wat to do ? what does this mean? he likes her rite??
honestly hes trying to see what otehr options he has i really dont think your friend means much otherwise hed be calling her. he just wants to seem like hot shit and have girls hitting his cell up. dont let your friend be a fool tell her that even if he did get with her (honestly i dont think he has any urge to) that this is the type of bf she would have. Teh type that even with her as his gf would be flirting with otehr girls. Hes a wannabe pimp type is what it seems to me always wants to leave the girls wondering and always wants to see what girls he could get if he was single.
I am 16 almost 17 in a few months ( female) and i met this guy bryan at a party and we started going out together and meeting up with eachother and sum frends every saturday night. he doesnt go to my school so we would basically spend every sat. nite together. we began to get pretty close and we kissed.. then hooked up.. but the problem is. .he is one year and a few months younger than me.. it doesnt really bother me.. but he is a grade younger than me too. that is mainly the problem.. i defiantely would consider making this a more serious relationship except that he is in a grade younger then me.. i am going to 11th grade and he is going to 10th. it seems like such a big defference bc wen we used to "date" he was still in 9th grade adn i was in tenth. 9th grade seems sooo young ..the problem is not that he is immature or anything.. bc he defiantely is not.. if anything he may know more about a long term relationship than me. I went out with my other bf for 6 months and he had a gf for about 2 yrs on and off.. but more on.. .. they broke up about 2 months before me and him startted talking.. what i was mainly worried about was that people would find out weve been seeing eachother and think that we are going out and that is mainly wats bothering me. he is younger than me and it makes me look bad.. i dont want that reputatiion:"that i go for younger guys" and i no that people always say that i shouldnt care wat other people think, but the reality is that you should.. bc that is wat matters.. its like going around sleeping with guys not caring wat people will say about you.. like if they would say ur a slutt or a whore.. but the truth is that you do have to care wat other ppl think bc if you dont then you will fuck up your reputation and i dont want to do that. we are currently not talking or communicating anymore but i do no this. he is now with his ex gf.. they are bak together but i honestly dont understand why.. like i dont.. she looks like she doesnt shower.. and i gues shes just like somone he nos he can go bak to.. she seriosuly is obssessed with him and even wen they werent together she'd always be hinting things like.. - i want to be wih you- she'd basically be all up on him and i thikn she is his comfort and thats why he went bak to her.. they really probably had sumtihng.. 2yrs.. like damn, i totally understand wow.. but thats not what really bothers me.. i diidnt really like him thattt much to like cry over him bc i was "with him" for like 2 months and thats bc i wanted to have sombody.. and i realizedc i just wanted SOMEBODY.. even if it wasnt him,.. i just wanted somone..my question is .. if an opportunity to be with him or another younger guy than me comes along.. should i take it even if it may fuck up my rep? ( bc i really feel like he would have been such a good bf.. ) but i dno if hes worth my rep ( or if any guy is)
also,my other question is- how do i act around him if i see him one day
like we ended really weirdly... we jsut stopped ccalling eachother and that was the end of it. do i say hi to him? or wat? like if i run into him shoulkd i hugg him? how shuold i act?
Your rep is very important within highschool. I used to care about my rep just as much as you obviously do now. Then i saw other people who didnt care so much and how much happier they were. i had a very simmilar situation with this guy i used to date only i thought it would fuck up my rep because he was new to school and he wasnt exactly up to my popularity level but after we broke up he dated an older girl and became popular to. I guesse what im trying to say is even though its hard to stop worrying about you rep its definitly a must because although you rep will be altered you will be happier for it. Now how to deal with the ex fling is simple he meant something to you and he used to be a friend so if you see him act happy and have small chit chat a quick hug is always good shows that there are no hurt feelings. Make sure you dont hold on to him too long cuz then its just weird. Small chit chat would be like "How ya been? havnt hear from you in awhile we really should catch up sometime" when you say this you might not mean it but it sure does make you look like the bigger person. Also i bet you could get this guy back considering the girl hes with looks liek crap so if you want him dont be afraid to try lol...
I was at work yesterday at the college I go to and there was a high school recruitment thing going on. This girl and her friend asked me a question about the Ticketmaster we had and I gave them the number for it. When I found out they wanted tickets to a country concert, one of the girls said she hated country. When she said she like Pink Floyd and stuff, I jokingly said "Haha what's your number? J/K" Well a few minutes later, her friend gave it to me. This girl isn't that attractive and goes to a high school far away from the college I go to. I didn't know that at the time and asked her out for coffee. When I confronted her about the high school thing, she got all sad and shit and said you prolly won't talk to me again. I'm not that mean and I said we should still go for coffee. She will not stop text messaging me. I don't know how to politely tell her I don't want to do this anymore and to get her to leave me alone. I don't want to hurt feelings but this has to stop. Any little interest I may have had in getting to know this girl has quickly evaporated. How do I tell her to buzz off?
You have to take her feelings into consideration obviously you have left an impression on this girl....so i would tell her that since your in college now you dont have much time to text and hwat not...say you will text her when you have time to get together. that way your not hurting her feeling but you iwll get the texting to stop
Hey .. thanx if you help me out! me and my b/f are ready to go to the next step but i have alot of discharge and i dont knwo if thats normal and if thats what he will be expecting! plz help! thanx!!!
perfectly normal...
F/14
Everybody is good at something right? WRONG.i suck at almost evrything. I dont't have any hobbies, im not in any clubs, sprots, or anything. I'm okay at some stuff and i can speak/read/write fluent polish, but that pretty much it. I'm so scraed about my future. I don't know what i want to do in college or high school or ANYTHING. I'm scared i won't be able to support myself as an adult and i will be a boring person with no hobbies or anything.
I'm 15 myself and the only thing im good at is hiphop, and my hip hop classes were shut down. Were young...Highschool is where you start figuring out what your good at some peopel dont even know till their jr year. The important thing is to try hard in school so that you have the option to do whatever you want. So what if you havnt found hobbies yet, Everybody is good at someting you said your good at speaking polish well there so many job oppurtunities for that! you can be a translator. With that on your resume so many oppurtunities are given to you! Finding a hobby is easier then you think you dont have to chase it you wait and try new stuff and one day you hop upon something and say wow i really like this :)
how much would a music teacher cost? my dad doesnt have excactly all the money in the world so its kinda hard you know? and how often would i see them? thanks!
Well itd be smart to see them at least once a week...it ranges from different prices. When i had one it was 100$ per session but im assuming you can find one for a lesser price. Your chorus teacher might offer lessons. If your not in chorus you can still ask her, she might charge less
I'm 13, and I've been told for around two years from time to time that I'm kinda stiff. "I need to be more fluid and less jerky." Yeah, I suppose that is true. Only, I don't know how. I'm not very sporty.. but.. can anyone recommend some simple techniques I can do.. at home.. to start becoming more flexbile/fluid? I haven't got horrible posture or anything but I really could improve and would really like to be more fluid. I want to do something about it, and any help would really be appreciated. Thanks in advance.
DO PILATTES its the best you dont have to leave the house your able to be in a comfortable enviornement and take brakes it helps your flexibility and tones your body!
So I have a problem ... There's this girl whom i've been in love with for over 3 years but i've never gotten a chance to be with her. Background:
I used to work at a department store years ago when i first met her and sparks absolutely flew and we went out to dinner and we talked for a very long time. She told me things that she's never told anyone. (She advised me of this) but we never actually got together because of conflicting schedules then i graduated high school and went traveling for over 2 years all the while I just thought of her and my feelings grew stronger! I couldnt stop thinking of her. (and I still cant!) So when I came back I took up the guitar and drums again and I've even wrote songs about her! I went to try and find her but she had moved and I was unable to locate her! Then one day I went to apply for my current job and there she was! I saw her! She was working in a little fashion boutique next to the one where I was going to work! I began to shake and I instantly thought of the songs I had wrote and all the time that had passed and my feelings for her had only became stronger. So I went up to her and when our eyes met we gave each other a huge hug and i cant describe it ... it is ... undescribable so we talked and sadly she has a boyfriend but wants to meet up and hang out! I desperately want this chance so i get her # and she gets mine I call her and we go out to dinner we go into a deep conversation and she tells me i look really great and i tell her of my nights that i wasnt able to sleep b/c i was thinking about her ... After that dinner we lost contact again and I try to call her but she doesnt have v/m I see her again last night and we talk a little but she is preoccupied and i try to see whats up and she wont tell me I then tell her that i'm leaving again and she is sad ... I also tell her i've tried to call and she is shocked she doesnt think I have been ... I then tell her I leave in three weeks for indonesia for an unspecified amount of time and she says that we seriously need to hang out before I go ... What should I do ... ANd should I tell her the extent of my feelings ... that I feel she is my "Only One" ?
Its important you tell her how you feel before you go, You cant be keeping your feeling a secret. Give her some of the lyrics and before you leave tell her youll call her...She has a boyfriend so its important you respect that and give her time to think about this. If she does love you as your love her she will have to brake her boyfriends heart and she must have a strong relationship with him. This is a big decision you give to her. You going away works to your benifit your able to give her teh time she needs.
Hope all works well
hey. i was wondering if anyone knew some good songs by "the Fray' and i want to listen to some new ones.. thanks!
Staind,All At Once,Fall Away,She Is,City Hall
Dead Wrong,Look After You,How To Save A Life,Without Reason,Heaven Forbid,Little House,Some Trust,Oceans, Over My Head (Cable Car),Together,Trust Me,Hundred,Little House, Vienna,Unsaid
Ever been ridin down the road listening to the radio and just being like I want to download that song and that song & that song then when your actually home in front of the computer draw a blank when it's time to download em? lol or is it just me? Can yall help me put together a cd? I love all kinds of music from country to r & b, rap, simple plan.. anything but gospel or rock.
If you have a cell put it as a memo thats what i do....
Good songs: old and new!
Robbie williams- Feel (slow song)
Fefe dobson- Rock it till you drop it (one of my favorites)
Death Cad for cutie- soul meets body
R&B- Ciara,Ludacris-Oh, Jennifer Lopez,Usher,Fabulous-Get it right Fabulous-Holla back Boys II men-Thank you TLC-Damaged
Rap- black eyed peas-Joints and jams Nas-bridging the gap 50 cent-PIMP Bow Wow,Omarioin-Let me hold you Ying yang twins-Georgia Dome (get low) Paul wall-Sittin sideways Beastie Boys- Shes crafty
Help me people, I'm in Limbo.Months and months ago, I briefly dated a forty-seven year old man(I am twenty-two/f) and it didn't really work out. He said he was still in love with his ex girlfriend back in the States(he is American, I am British and living and up until the today we both lived in Britain).
Despite our initial break up, we continued to see each other,and were sporadically sleeping together. The day before yesterday, I got a call from him saying that he was about to get kicked out of the country(long story, but he basically had a dud visa and tried to slip in to the country anyway-result ejection, even in yankee loving Britain)
So we met up-he invited me over to"watch a DVD" (you get it, code for "my c*ck is leaving in thirty-six hours, be on it") and I had the best sex of my entire life. Post-sex, though, I was troubled and sad, as I felt that my need to be close to him was not a feeling reciprocated by him-idk, I'm never sure with him. In the morning he kissed me, was tender and affectionate and promised to call me that night, his last in the country for God knows how long. He didn't call, which hurt me like caustic acid being poured on a wound. I sent him a text which gently admonished him for his failure to call, also telling him that while I was confused in my feelings for him, I thought that I loved him. This morning, just about two hours before he got on the plane he sent me a message apologising for not having called and saying that while he was stressed out, our last night had been a beautiful one for him. The message was lovely except that it in no way responded to my text. I just don't know what to do. I'm miserable and confused-part of me loves him like hell as well as feeling more lust for him than for any of my previous boyfriends, all of whom have been of my own age. But he has a history of emotional difficulties and has made me no promises. He said before he left that he would keep in touch(he is going to try to get back into the country when he can). I guess I just need someone to tell me no you fool, of course it's not going to work. But at the same time, a tiny part of me needs that less pessimistic voice.So what dy'all think?
FORGET HIM! you want something more its obviouse reading your story....You seem to want a commitment and he wont give it to you. If he loved you he wouldnt have not called he would have been the one texting you and nowt the other way around.
i was just wondering, how can you improve your singing voice. i know you dont have to be born with it and i know you dont like drink milk and drink waater but like idk i want to be a good singer but idk what to do?
Practice, get a music teacher who will teach you hwo to change your voice...If you dont wnat a teacher record your voice and crtique yourself. I had voice lessons...It helps!
ok well every guy i have ever dated or any guy that has ever liked me tells me that i "hold up a wall" or that im "too hard to read". i dont get it! i dont think i am at all, so im not sure why guys say this. what can i do to make them see that im not like that?
If every guy youve been with has said you have a wall, so the fact is you probably do you just dont see it. I used to be the same, To show them your not you tare down that wall and be open with your boy friend. A boyfriend should be one of your bestfriends and conversations should include everything, You hsouldnt have limits! If they like you it should be they like all of you, They have to like the flaws so dont ever be afraid of saying whats on your mind. Thats how you tare down the wall and tahts hwo you show them, You say whats on your mind and dont limit anything when it coems to your boyfriends!
theres this guy...I really like him...but im afraid to tell him. I want him to know so bad but I cant say it...Im afraid of being rejected...I need help! what should I do? Im very shy around guys though...justincase that helps...♥Danielle
btw im 13
The most important part of being in realationships is learning how accept rejection, and that does just go for love relationships but everything in life. If he doesnt like you then dont worry sweetie other guys out there and if he does thats great! Never hold back how you feel, most guys see confidence as a very attractive quality. Im 15 and ive had many boyfriends...I wouldnt have if i hadnt had confidence. One thing you dont do is ask him out! tell him how you feel...When hes ready he will tell you how he feels..I hope i helped
what color looks best on toenails this time of year? or are french pedicures still in? help. i dont know the right color of nailpolosh to use on my toes.
French pedicures are always in lol....Its the classy yet girly look! Perfect for toenails
Well, this is kind of confusing. My best guy friend (bob) have been friends since third grade. We can tell each other everything and we laugh all the time with each other. I have liked him on and off a lot. When I like him I try to tell myself "it will never work, and if we broke up would we be able to be friends"? Well he stayed the night (slept downstairs) and my friend Kaitlyn was over too. We kind of flirt a lot, you know push each other around, just that kind of stuff. Well I think we both like each other, it would be lying to say we didn't. DO you think it would be stupid to go out and ruin our friendship
Friends with benfits keep a friendship and be like bf and gf but dont label yourself it makes everything simple. its waht the big kids do! ha ha Im 15 and believe me this is something that is better start as that and if you feel like you really liek him then become bf and gf, For now keep down the labels
I just started a new highschool & met a really nice boy named Matt. I got his AIM screename & we talk online. At my old school I just dated whoever was nice to me, and I would date them after only knowing them for like 2 days. I want to be different in this situation, I want to get to know Matthew a lot before I make a full decision on whether or not I should date him. He seems dateable. He's super nice to me & I like him a lot, I'm just NOT that sure.
I feel really awkward around him, my mouth gets all dry & I just shake, and get all nervous. I'm guessing these are signs I like him of course. But how can I stop them? It's making me mad, I just want to be able to feel totally comfortable around him. =D
Thanks a lot.
to feel comfortable around him come naturally you jsut have to get to know him Aim is helpful and i used to do the same thing but now i realize teh moest effective way is to hang out as friends first. hang out with him as friends if you still feel you may like him after a few times of hanging out tell him. you can tell him on aim just make sure your comfporatble with him. Realtionships last longer if your friends with theperson too.
So I've come to the conclusion that I'm not very ugly, I'm just okay looking. My problem is that I'm so terribly shy with people I don't feel 100% comfortable around. And this is really affecting how people see me. I had 1 boyfriend a few months ago that I met at a show but got to know onlne, and online I'm really outgoing and talkative and charming because I have the whole internet to shield me. This is why it worked for a while and we went out and had fun and all that good stuff. Now if I could just open up and be myself around guys I see every day, maybe I could get somebody. How can I do this? Please help.
Be more outgoing stop caring about the consiquences and just say whats on your mind if you can do it online you can do it in person. just be your self i used to be liek you and then i learned how can i expect guys to like me if they dont know me now im myself always and just don tcare what people things its been a positive channge im much more Popular and i get asked out alot. I Have alot of poeple who are talking to me. If peopel see you dont care they think you are cool and if you dont care that means you are because it means you are confident in yourself people see this and they see that if your that confident you must have something to be confident about. be confident COnfidence is everything!
15 1/2 Female.
For the record I have been kissed many times, and have had a boy friend (if you want to call him that) before.
I can't help but wish I could find a guy that would like me for me and would always be with me. Yes, I realise this is most girls dream but I can't stop thinking about it.
I have a huge crush on guy that works at the local grocery store but I think he thinks I'm older... (I tend to get told I look older then I really am) I have a couple other crushes but the guys are younger then me. Like 2 years younger.
Now, if I were reading this question right now I know how I'd answer it but i'm hoping some of you have different ideas then me.
Should I just let myself stay up all night dreaming about having a boy friend and feeling stupid that I'm thinking that or should I take a stab and really introduce myself to Billy (safeway guy)?
Any opinions are welcome but please TRY to write in english.
I want the same thing this isnt an easy thingto obtain my Answer go out with someone who is older. im 15 and im dating a 17 yearold. Dating is the first step yo uwant a grown p realtionship you have to do your part dont expect a bf right off the bat You need to date first. Start talking to guys and hanging out with them...Give Bully a chance tell him your interested And that youd like to hang out with him give him your number and ask him to call when hes free if he never calls he never calls no big deal. Be much more upfront to get what yoiu wnat is to tell people waht you need, if your having a smooth conversation be the one to brake away and say that you are interested in hearing more give your number and smile and walk away. youll be suprised how quick you will find What your looking for
OK I know there's a lot of guy questions out there but one more wouldn't hurt. My crush said hi to me this morning and he looked back to smile at me. I think it was because I had makeup on and my hair looked nice for a change. But I want things to move faster. I wanna be able to talk to him but I don't want to make a total fool of myself. I know exactly where he hangs out too. How do I talk to him without making a total fool of myself? 15/F
Signed, Secretly In Love*
Does he know you like him cause if he does he may just be joking around with you not meanly just a friendly (I know im hot) flirtacious joking. if theeres one thing i know above all if how to move things faster. Your tunr now if he saying hello to you its open for you to do it to him so hey hi and act flirtacious to him to. Whea week of this go hang out at his hang out with a few friends and give him a smile try getting his attention by saying hello. Getting what you want is a timing process but if your good at it like me lol It goes faster be flirtacious act confident talk to him...say heyy whats up if convo doenst flow say im gonna go ill see you around. Do what i tell you and you will get what you want GUARENTEED