Question Posted Monday September 19 2005, 11:29 pm
So I've come to the conclusion that I'm not very ugly, I'm just okay looking. My problem is that I'm so terribly shy with people I don't feel 100% comfortable around. And this is really affecting how people see me. I had 1 boyfriend a few months ago that I met at a show but got to know onlne, and online I'm really outgoing and talkative and charming because I have the whole internet to shield me. This is why it worked for a while and we went out and had fun and all that good stuff. Now if I could just open up and be myself around guys I see every day, maybe I could get somebody. How can I do this? Please help.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Dumbblond1chick answered Tuesday September 20 2005, 7:14 pm: Be more outgoing stop caring about the consiquences and just say whats on your mind if you can do it online you can do it in person. just be your self i used to be liek you and then i learned how can i expect guys to like me if they dont know me now im myself always and just don tcare what people things its been a positive channge im much more Popular and i get asked out alot. I Have alot of poeple who are talking to me. If peopel see you dont care they think you are cool and if you dont care that means you are because it means you are confident in yourself people see this and they see that if your that confident you must have something to be confident about. be confident COnfidence is everything! [ Dumbblond1chick's advice column | Ask Dumbblond1chick A Question ]
xoBrowneyes answered Tuesday September 20 2005, 8:43 am: Find a friend that has alot of guy friends and go to the movies and then out to eat or something this should get you around guys. Try to start out with guys you don't like and then work your way up. Just remember to be yourself and have fun. CLAIR [ xoBrowneyes's advice column | Ask xoBrowneyes A Question ]
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