Question Posted Monday September 19 2005, 10:42 pm
I just started a new highschool & met a really nice boy named Matt. I got his AIM screename & we talk online. At my old school I just dated whoever was nice to me, and I would date them after only knowing them for like 2 days. I want to be different in this situation, I want to get to know Matthew a lot before I make a full decision on whether or not I should date him. He seems dateable. He's super nice to me & I like him a lot, I'm just NOT that sure.
I feel really awkward around him, my mouth gets all dry & I just shake, and get all nervous. I'm guessing these are signs I like him of course. But how can I stop them? It's making me mad, I just want to be able to feel totally comfortable around him. =D
Thanks a lot.
Dumbblond1chick answered Tuesday September 20 2005, 7:18 pm: to feel comfortable around him come naturally you jsut have to get to know him Aim is helpful and i used to do the same thing but now i realize teh moest effective way is to hang out as friends first. hang out with him as friends if you still feel you may like him after a few times of hanging out tell him. you can tell him on aim just make sure your comfporatble with him. Realtionships last longer if your friends with theperson too. [ Dumbblond1chick's advice column | Ask Dumbblond1chick A Question ]
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