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Tell her to back off
I was at work yesterday at the college I go to and there was a high school recruitment thing going on. This girl and her friend asked me a question about the Ticketmaster we had and I gave them the number for it. When I found out they wanted tickets to a country concert, one of the girls said she hated country. When she said she like Pink Floyd and stuff, I jokingly said "Haha what's your number? J/K" Well a few minutes later, her friend gave it to me. This girl isn't that attractive and goes to a high school far away from the college I go to. I didn't know that at the time and asked her out for coffee. When I confronted her about the high school thing, she got all sad and shit and said you prolly won't talk to me again. I'm not that mean and I said we should still go for coffee. She will not stop text messaging me. I don't know how to politely tell her I don't want to do this anymore and to get her to leave me alone. I don't want to hurt feelings but this has to stop. Any little interest I may have had in getting to know this girl has quickly evaporated. How do I tell her to buzz off?
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Simply don't reply or contact her again, she'll get the hint eventually. It's no big deal and I wouldn't worry about "letting her down easy", this type of thing happens all the time to normal people so I'm sure she'll learn to deal with it.
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You have to take her feelings into consideration obviously you have left an impression on this girl....so i would tell her that since your in college now you dont have much time to text and hwat not...say you will text her when you have time to get together. that way your not hurting her feeling but you iwll get the texting to stop
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I think you have to be blunt and honest with her. Tell her that there is too much distance between you to ever let a relationship work. Tell her you enjoyed having coffee with her but you have no intention of getting involved with her now or ever.
Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind and I feel in this situation that is what it will have to be. I know you don't want to hurt her feelings but in the long run if she continues to text you, you will have to be forceful.
I hope that my suggestion helps you out and if I can help any more please let me know. Good luck.
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hey, well next time you should find out more info on a girl before telling her that you want to get to know you. telling a girl that your not interested in her because of where shes from is like a stab in the heart. just explain to her that you dont like her in "that way" and that you just want to be friends.
-caitt♥
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