Q: My class is looking for really cool saying we can use for our class posters and yearbook entries and stuff. So far all I have is: "Welcome to the class of 2012! At least the world is ending AFTER we graduate! :)"

Can anyone else think of some good ones?

Q: Okay, I've been her best friend since sixth grade,and we're in 9th now. and since last year every time she switches her friends to her new boyfriends friends. Like when she dated an emo guy, she was all emo and was only friends with his friends. and now shes dating a football player. and shes all besties with his best friends, who are girls. and sometimes she will invite me to do stuff and talk to me, but just when shes not with them. Shes like their clone. she never even talked to these girls before she dated this guy... so i dont know if i should talk to her about it and just let it go...

Q: I have a monster hickey! Can anyone tell me how long it might take to go away? It is purple and really obvious so I would like it to go away as soon as possible. If you have had a hickey how long did it take to go away or at least become less noticeable? Can you tell it is my first one? LOL!

Thank you!

Q: I'm going to a college in the fall (Miami of Ohio) where the majority of people are white middle class. I like it a lot but I've heard it's got a pretty big greek life. most of the people that aren't in a frat/sorority join things like student government and other things. I really want to rush a sorority, but I want to get into a good one or not be in one at all. but I don't know anything about it. how do I make myself an asset to the sorority?
I'm really funny (class clown in my senior yearbook), I'm smart (5th in my class of 239, 4.55 GPA), & I'm usually up for a good time. how do I present myself so that the sororities want me? I've heard from people that go there which ones are considered "good" & which ones are kind of lame.
um, please no one judge me about this & if you're just going to tell me it doesn't matter what I get in or sororities are stupid. I'm looking for some real advice & maybe first hand experience. hopefully someone understands me :]

Q: so i have a huge crush on this boy the year above me in school and when i say huge i mean huge i love him now. he knows i like him and i was thinking of asking him out bt wont to get to know him better first so i was wondering what are some good convo starters that dont make me sound like a nod lol
thanks (:

Q: 16 female... So this is kinds wierd I got my period on time when I was supposed to and I had it for my usual 5 days but it wasn't as heavy as it usually is but any ways today, two days after my period has gone away I woke up to pee and when I wiped I had blood so basically spotted. Idk why this happened?? What could it be? And if it helps this is my first month on birth control pills. Help!!

Q: okay so, boy crisis.. last night i was with my boyfriend and we were umm, awkward sorry, being intimate lets just say, and well obviously i wasnt completely paying attention to what he was saying but then all of a sudden i heard, or at least i thought i heard him say "i love you" so i was like 'omg omg omg' in my head and said it back, cause well, i kinda do..though i did so rather quietly, but then he said/asked me something random that made me think he didnt actually say it..so now i'm really freaking out for many reasons..

1. did he say it!?
2. if he did, did he hear me or said the random something to avoid the silence and non-response?
3. if he didn't, did he hear me say it, and that's why he said the random something cause he doesn't?
4. i can't just ask him "hey, did you say 'i love you' last night?"
5. did i just completely scew myself over with this!?

Q: I am in love with someone who doesnt care. there is no one to move on to and i need physical attention so i keep going back to him. I would just have sex with someone else but i just cant do it. i keep going back to the same guy thinking i am going to change his mind bc i think he really does love me back. i have gone long periods of time without talking to him and i miss him i dont want anyone else and i am not happy by myself

Q: So I'm the type of person that says "I love you" a lot. Like, my family's as dysfunctional as can be, but I always make sure to say it before I leave the house or hang up the phone. I say it to my best of friends whenever I say "bye," and whenever even an acquaintance makes me laugh or does something nice for me, I'm always like, "holy crap, I love you," and I mean it.

I met this guy in late September and we went on our first date less than two weeks after meeting. Because we talked nearly nonstop over text and IM, we were super, super comfortable with each other by the second date. We saw each other unofficially for four weeks and have been officially dating for nearly three weeks. This is my first serious relationship (I'm 16) though he's had a few girlfriends before me (he's 18).

I'm not one to overcomplicate love (obviously). You don't have to love everything about a person to love them. This guy is the sweetest-- he compliments me constantly, isn't afraid of PDA (romantic kisses goodbye, not makeout sessions), would do anything for me, and would never want to intentionally hurt me. He's not "in it to hit it" either-- he knows I'm abstaining until marriage and he's fine with that, and we didn't even kiss until the third date.

What I'm saying is, I know I love him, but is there a clear difference in the love you feel inside when loving someone as a person and loving someone romantically? He makes me happy, and I want to spend every second talking to him and just being with him. And I could not STAND to see him with another girl. But what qualifies love to be romantic rather than loving someone as a person? Have I already crossed it?

Also, how soon is "too soon" to say it? I know his family says it a lot too, and he says it to his family in front of me, so I know he's not uncomfortable saying it. But I don't want to freak him out.

Any advice whatsoever appreciated, or past experiences :) Thanks so much!

Q: Okay, I'm an 18 year old gay/male in college. I've been told a lot lately that my flaw is that i have to many friends, and so makes it hard for people to date me. Lately everyone seems to be obsessed with me, i mean i don't want to sound conceited, but it feels like they feel like there something when there around me and like they have to be around me 24/7, but some of the people are just going and starting rumors to get people away so they can hang out with me more with out everyone else. It's been very hard and stressful lately, trying to please everyone and do what everyone wants me to do. I just don' know what to do anymore, its actually gotten so bad, i have to go outside with a different look so no one will notice its me. I just feel like i have the glamor famous life but i don't at the same time. What should i do? how do i just give up most of my friends and have alone time?

Q: Okay so I have realized that whenever my friends and I have a fight, and its my fault, the reason is because I am jealous.

My tendancy to be jealous has ruined my relationship with my ex-bestfriend. And I can see it happening again.
You are probably saying, "well just stop being jealous." or "just be happy for her." but its not like that. its not that easy.

when i make really close friend, i only make one at a time. and lets name her... Sani. okay so sani and i became closer this year. at first i thought she was a a funny, chill, innocentish girl. and sheis... butnow she always talks about boys... and now shes getting closer to other people? and its making me so jealous. and now this really hot upperclass man likes her.

what do i do? i cant talk to her because that would make it soo awkward!

Q: So I went to go see someone who I had never met before in person, and we had a nice couple of days together...we even kissed and slept in the same bed together (I didn't actually "Sleep with him" though)...he never said anything about being attracted to me or any type of compliment for that matter...and he would reject me trying to give him affection when it wasn't bedtime...this made me become even shyer and less talkative and ESPECIALLY less confident in myself (I don't have a lot of confidence in my looks or personality to begin with)...now that I'm back home, he won't even talk to me...when he's online, he won't say anything to me...I don't understand, and I am very confused and hurt...

Q: ok im a 17 female. and my boyfriend is going to be 18 in january. were both virgins and we really want to have sex! weve been together for almost a year. and everytime were together we always carry around my baby brother. like if were alone the adults are super watching us. so my boyfriend started saying just bring your brother. cause everytime hes with us then they kinda give us a little break and stuff. well i get mad cause i dont want him with us every single freaking time! and my boyfriend doesnt find anything wrong with it. well i was complaining to my mom and she says that she can tell me and him want to go further with eachother and he probably keeps my baby brother around to keep his mind off of sex and us being alone cause if we were alone wed probably do something so my baby brother is something to his mind off of us doing stuff. she said thats how guys minds work. well i askd him flat out. and he said thats true, cause he does want to have sex with me but he doesnt want us to get in trouble or anything cause we both agree that we think if we were alone we would probably try to do it. well my question to all you guys is that really how you guys think? if you dont want to have sex cause your still a little scared of the consequences you find something to keep your mind off of it? thanks in advance

Q: 15/f

It's my first year of highschool and I’ve made many friends (mainly juniors). I've been asked out quite a few times which is, to be honest, a weird thing to experience considering I’ve spent the past nine years in a school being referred to as "the tranz" or "the ugly fuck". A little while ago, no more than a little over a month ago, I began going out "dating" my friend. He's a junior and it being that we both had just recovered or somewhat recovered from abusive relationships, well, we understood each other and could empathize completely with each other.
I'm adopted and for some reason when it comes to serious relationships or even just friendships, my abandonment issues tend to lose control and instead of being extremely clingy because I’ve become so attracted to them I do complete opposite and, for a short time, become extremely apathetic towards them . I don’t do this intentionally. It’s difficult to explain but, in short, I try my best to not show how much I depend on them and refrain from smothering them. (even though that’s actually how I feel inside) I do this because I’m afraid they’ll get freaked out and leave me. Almost every guy I’ve been remotely close with has abandoned me for either not getting with them or maybe disappointing them in some way which is natural I suppose but the way I see it is that if they really want to be with me or care about me, they’ll forgive me and stay with me. No guy has ever done that.
So I was dating my friend (like I said he’s a junior and literally has all the freshman and sophomores and even a few seniors on him) and was thrilled because we made each other so happy. But then I went through my stupid little apathy phase and I suppose he became disinterested and we stopped dating and came to the conclusion that we would better ourselves by just remaining very close friends. The feeling was mutual at the time. We dated for over a month and so during that time I actually began to really like him. I still like him and everyday tend to want to be with him more and more. (even if I don’t show it) Lately we’ve gotten closer, physically that is. We’ve held hand throughout a whole entire movie. He’s learned that I moan when I get bitten and so bites me and picks me up all the time. He bear hugs me and puts me so close to his face that my lips skip his cheeks.
A couple nights ago I told him I regret fucking up like I did and apologized for my strange behavior that took place prior to our break up and ask him if he would ever consider giving me another chance and/or if he would ever be interested in me again. His response:
“probably, but if I do I probably won’t act much on it” and “_____, we’ve already discussed this. We tried and it didn’t work out. We had an agreement remember?”
Before dating we agreed not to fuck up our friendship and to just try dating. If it didn’t work out we weren’t going to make a big deal over it. BUT another part of our agreement was that we would never do anything or would never intentionally hurt each other by misleading each other.
My question is: What am I supposed to do if every time we embrace I become closer to kissing him? What does he mean by saying he won’t act on his feelings if he ever wants to date again? He’s saying he won’t give me a second chance. Why, if he’s over it, would he suddenly be so touchy still when we agreed not to mislead each other like that? Is there possibly some way I can move past my abandonment issues? (I always have to wait and see if they’ll actually stay with me and not abandon me but unfortunately that all happened after and most likely the cause of our break up) What reasons could he possibly have to be unwilling to give me another chance?
For anyone who can lend me some advice, I greatly appreciate it and apologize for the lengthiness of this question. It’s difficult for me to articulate my problem in short terms.

Q: Hi, I'm a freshman in highschool now (15/f). I'm in honors classes and do a sport each season. But I want to become more involved in the school the community. Any ideas on what I can do or where I should go to start?

Q: 15/f

so me and my boyfriend of 8 months recently broke up but its nothing official because we have these bipolar moments where we say we hate each other and the next we're hugging and kissing each other. but he says we need a break because i was "unfaithful" to him 2 months ago. and now people at school have been saying that he is trying to get with this other girl, but i never see them talking or together so i dont even know if this is true. i know he has her number because i saw it in his phone but other than that, i wouldnt even think they knew each other. i really love him alot, there's no way i can possibly move on, there's no one out there for me except him .... so please i need to find a way to get him back and a way to prove to him that i really do love him or make him want me back . PLEASE HELP ASAP !!

Q: So we had sex last night and now it feels like my bladder is bruised inside of me. I know this is stupid but I held my pee while we did it because it was a right in the moment thing and I didn't want to ruin it. You know what I mean.

So is that what I did and do I need to go to the doctor about it?

Q: hi 14f


I was wondering how to keep my foundation from fading? i use maybeleen dream mousse foundation, its the wet kind. In dhe morning i put the wet foundation on, than the powder kind. it looks good, but during the day at school i see i can see my pimples and skin come threw. like my skins like a redish color and i use the makeup to cover it,but my face isnt all red just a little on my cheeks and chin.Help me out there? I also wanted to know some sexy makeup ideas usually i wear the gray eyeshadow with purple,blue or green eyeliner, and sometimes over lap them, it looks nice and i get a lot of compliments. I want more! haha i like to look nice, and i want my bf to be proud of his girl. :) i love make up,i don't wear it constantly though. im happy with the way i look..sometimes. tips, ideas and links would be appreciated thanks so much!!!

Q: Recently, my friend has been talking about how hot he thinks his teacher his. He keeps saying he fantasizes about her and he worships her. He said he likes walking past her room having excuses just to walk by her and at the end of the day waiting to see her leave, he said he wants to buy the yearbook and school newsaper just to oogle and at any pictures of her in them, saying "pictures of my hot teacher are like what pornography is to other people. Worst of all, he said he wishes she was a pedophile and if she wanted to rape him he'd be all for it, and he also said he hopes her boyfriend dies. This sounds kind of funny but also weird to me. I guess you could find a teacher hot, but still. Is this normal, or has he gone too far?

friend is 16 teacher is about 26

Q: Well I'm a junior in high school, and last year this boy, who flirts a lot with many girls, including me, started to really have feelings for me, and I just blew it off because he was always just play flirting. He finally convinced me he was serious, and I really started to develop feelings for him. I found out he had a girlfriend this whole time, and got mad at him for flirting so much with me. He told me he didn't like her and broke up with her. I really liked him so we started dating over the summer. He started acting very weird and ignoring me after a few weeks, I finally got sick of it and we decided we were going to take a break, which turned into a break-up. We came back to school and he apparently liked a new girl. He still texts me and tells me he misses talking to me, but always changes the subject when it comes to our relationship. He also told me he didn't like the other girl. I don't know what to do because I've tried to get over this boy but I really think I fell in love, and now I'm stuck because I know I should get over him but I cant. I don't know what to do because he obviously has problems with staying with one girl, but i just dont get how he can go from being sooo into me, to this. I'm just miserable and don't know what to do because I dont want to give this up when I know hes the one for me. Please any advice that would help would be greatly appreciated:)

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