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My friend switches her friends everytime she gets a new bf,
Okay, I've been her best friend since sixth grade,and we're in 9th now. and since last year every time she switches her friends to her new boyfriends friends. Like when she dated an emo guy, she was all emo and was only friends with his friends. and now shes dating a football player. and shes all besties with his best friends, who are girls. and sometimes she will invite me to do stuff and talk to me, but just when shes not with them. Shes like their clone. she never even talked to these girls before she dated this guy... so i dont know if i should talk to her about it and just let it go...
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Divine...
seem like a case of dis and two-faced
I honestly think that you should just stop hanging out with her...but being the fact that
yall knew each other since six grade then yes
you sit down and have a talk give her a warning
and let her know how she act with others...and if she still be the same way everytime she get a dude
then you shold just do you and let her do what she decide to do...
I only say this cause some people ways changes
for others and for them self that they think
will get the best of their peers attention....
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Obviously you should talk to her about it. It's affecting the way that you see her, and it's taking a toll on your friendship (even though she probably doesn't realize it). If you continue to let your friend treat you this way without saying anything, you'll begin to resent her.
Tell her the problem, ask her how she feels, and then maybe come up with some things she can do to change it. It's not fair of her to ditch you for her new friends just because of someone she's dating. It's pretty easy to keep a balance between friends & relationships when dating.
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