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Rumors
On Monday, my friend Gabi told me that on Saturday, my best friend, Emily, had kissed a friend of ours, Chaise, on a dare. I was surprised she hadn't told me about it, and contacted her immediately to ask what had gone one. She had told me that no one else that was with them was going to tell anyone, including Chaise, and I promised not to either.
On Tuesday, Emily called me and told me that Chaise had told her that I had told 5 other people about what had happened on Saturday, when I hadn't told anyone. I told her otherwise and tried to forget about it.
The same day, I heard Chaise telling someone else that he was dating Emily. But when I confronted him about this, he told me had never said anything like that. I told Emily what I had said over Facebook. Chaise then found out and called me a bitch, bastard, and whore in 5 messages and all over my wall, and then tried to talk to me after wards. I deleted him from my friends and contacted Facebook, reporting him for abuse, but I need to know; What am I going to do now? I can't avoid him forever and now Emily doesn't trust me.
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I think you need to sit down with everyone and explain the situation. Obviously explain to Emily that you never told anyone about her & Chaise, and the person that told you was Gabi. And you need to tell Chaise that he can't just insult you, call you a liar & post it all over your Facebook.
You're right that it's not possible to avoid someone forever, but you do need to confront them to get the truth out. Hopefully they all listen to you & get the sticks out of their ass. Sounds to me like you didn't do anything wrong.
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