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To Many Friends?
Okay, I'm an 18 year old gay/male in college. I've been told a lot lately that my flaw is that i have to many friends, and so makes it hard for people to date me. Lately everyone seems to be obsessed with me, i mean i don't want to sound conceited, but it feels like they feel like there something when there around me and like they have to be around me 24/7, but some of the people are just going and starting rumors to get people away so they can hang out with me more with out everyone else. It's been very hard and stressful lately, trying to please everyone and do what everyone wants me to do. I just don' know what to do anymore, its actually gotten so bad, i have to go outside with a different look so no one will notice its me. I just feel like i have the glamor famous life but i don't at the same time. What should i do? how do i just give up most of my friends and have alone time?
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Divine_Mine...
you don't have to give up your friends
cause that would be wrong just make a time schdule
like have a day when it just you in your friends hangin out and a day when it you and your boo hangin out you understand....
as far as everything else with the famous life
style just live it but don't follow it as in be incontroll of your life cause you have no choice but to live it but you can always controll it....
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Well i'd tell them that you'd like some space and that you'll hang out with them another day i wouldn't push them aside completely seeing as you do need some friends you don't want to make yourself more stressed out then you already are i'd try and talk to them about it see what they say it's worth a shot and if talking to them goes wrong at least you tried there's no harm in trying :)
Hope this helped!
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