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It's My Fault
Okay so I have realized that whenever my friends and I have a fight, and its my fault, the reason is because I am jealous.
My tendancy to be jealous has ruined my relationship with my ex-bestfriend. And I can see it happening again.
You are probably saying, "well just stop being jealous." or "just be happy for her." but its not like that. its not that easy.
when i make really close friend, i only make one at a time. and lets name her... Sani. okay so sani and i became closer this year. at first i thought she was a a funny, chill, innocentish girl. and sheis... butnow she always talks about boys... and now shes getting closer to other people? and its making me so jealous. and now this really hot upperclass man likes her.
what do i do? i cant talk to her because that would make it soo awkward!
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ok this is what you can do
do talk to her explain why...
and it okay to talk bout boys with her
and meet other people and that kind of what you need to do is try to fomr a little group of your own that include there nothing wrong with hanging out with others and with your friend...that how you become social and it seem like to me your friend is just doing her...and you should the same so go talk to her and let her know you are sorry bout your actions....
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hah i'm the exact same way. my bff and i right now are having a little mini war thing. i do things that piss her off and she does things that piss me off.
the best thing you can do right now is just to hold it in. i know that sounds bad and unhealthy, but if you explode at her and act totally jealous, it could ruin a really valuable friendship.
here's what you can do- next time you're jealous of something.. think or write something that YOU have that she doesnt. then just keep reminding yourself that you're special and that this jealously issue won't get to you and it doesn't hurt you.
then think about something else. idk what but just pick something randomly and think very deeply about that.
also, if your friend gets super obnoxious- like she's always talking about that hot guy or always obsessing over these guys that get her, you can either
- change the subject right away and talk about something else.. that shows that you're not interested in that and that you want her to shut up.
- or you could politely tell her to stop talking about that because you have a lot of stuff on your mind and you don't want to hear about her issues.
- or you could secretly think to yourself "if she keeps this up... she's going to turn into a slut or bad person and it could seriously ruin her reputation." that's what i do sometimes and it makes me feel better.
- i hope i helped!!
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Why would you be jealous in the first place. soooo ? your friend is getting to know more people and having more friends.... is that such a crime? First of all don't compare yourself to her . Maybe this really hot guy likes her but maybe someday she'll think a guy is hot but he'll like you not her. Just try and be happy for her and don't be jealous. Think of all the stuff you have that make your life awesome.best of wishes.xoxoxo
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