Member Since: July 23, 2008
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This guy I'd been dating had a birthday party on Saturday. I got wasted and made out with his roommate for 3 hours. My best friend had a crush on his roommate. Now pretty much everyone hates me. Any ideas for damage control on this one? (link)
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No, just next time you get drunk, it won't be for fun but rather a downer donny, maybe you can make out with some bum instead.
you can't fix that mess, only thing you can do is say the biggest failure excuse lie, "Im sorry"
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im 14 my bf is 15 and weve been together for about 7 months hes a bit shy doesnt talk much to other people and well we havent done much except kissing everytime i try to go further he gets nervous and only just recently he let me see his penis and its not that big when its flacid its very small ive tried to reassure him i love him and i want to help overcome his anxiety so what can i do? what size is average for a penis soft and hard? (link)
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you went from kissing to penis WAM!
first off, make sure to not let him know that you think his Private Sector is small.
Second give him more time in the bed..
whoa whoa, wait a second, you kittens are only 14 and 15
go take a cold shower alone.
seriously.
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well um i like this guy and we like always flirt we're always like hitting each other and staring at each other and we'll always smile at each other and we always get into those flirting pushing your buttons fights so what do i do and did i mention he has a girfriend eeeppppp i'm in a jam (link)
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say to him. and in these words
if you want to press any more buttons mister, you gonna have to call it quits with your other girlfriend
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do you like to masturbate? If so how do you do it (link)
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with a hand and a bottle of lotion...
for a girl...
well we all know they don't master to the bait
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this guy really likes me and i don't know what to do.i dont like him but i dont want2 hurt his feelings.what should i do????
signed
desperate girl (link)
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Desperate girl? huh...
you look him in the face and say sternly "son, you ain't my type, now get yo ass outta my house."
if you want to touch it up a little, try this
"Im flattered, and you seem like a nice person, but I just don't think we would work in a relationship together, sorry"
Done
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Well i want to have so bad!!And i have this boy who asked me to do it with him but i dont know what to do!! I really want to tell him yea but im scared im goin to get pregent and im really scared my cherry is goin to pop!!! See this boy has a condom in his pocket all the time for whenever i give him hes answer but im scared!! Im not really scared of him and his dick im just scared my cherrys goin to bust or im goin to get pregent!! If i get pregent my mom and dad is goin to kill me and then bring me back to clean up the mess!!! Im so scared to have sex and im horney all the time!!! See i've been fingured and thats what makes me want to have sex cause when i got fingured it felt so good!!(LOL) Please Help me i dont know what to do!! Should i have sex with him and use pertection or not have sex at all with him and just let him fingure me??????
PLEASE HELP (link)
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First of all, Take a Chill pill, you got your life and tons of lame and great sex experiences for later.
Carrying a condom in pocket IS NOT GOOD, let me repeat that... IS NOT GOOD.... the heat, the condition its in...
Im going to scare you for your own benefit
theres a greater chance that his old scruffy condoms are going to break whilst inside of you.
stick to the fingers, stick to the mouth, w/e pleases you without a penis.
yata yata...
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ok so i was dating this guy and he told he was going out with his friends and i was like ok and then my friends said that they had seen his truck out side his x girlfriends house and i didnt beleive it so i said ill go and see with my own eyes and sure enough it was his truck so i was crying and he told me that it was nothin that i did he just had the urge to cheat but he really loves me now im really confused cause i dont understand why he did that if you can please help or ever better email me at 2cute4u004@sbcglobal.net (link)
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You have to stand up for yourself and look at what he did, I understand your confused, but what he did should not be tolerated
he it did and he did it low, he was thinking he would get some quick sex and then shower it all off (metaphor for not getting caught)
he got caught then was quick to say 'I really love you now' 'it was just a quick urge', well hes urges like all urges are going to be back soon enough.
my answer is DUMP HIM NOW!
and thats a deal breaker ladies
- Joel
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ok about the shy boy.He is 16 years old. I am 15. I have asked some people in his grade about him, this is what i've found out. BTW this is gonna be long! He is shy,and has been picked-on in the past i guess because he doesn't meet societies standards of masculiity.He applies himself in school and gets extremly good grades. He cries a lot i guess due to low frustration tolerence. He also cried when people pushed books out of his hands(rude i know). He has never had a girlfriend which is good and bad for me. Good because compared to nobody i'm pretty good plus i'm giving him the time of day. Bad because if he did like me he may not have the courage to ask me out. Two boys in his grade(junior) said he was gay, which I highly doubt. He is on the swim team and plays golf. His family is fairly well off(he has a mustang convertible). He looks at me an awaful lot and during a convocation moved in the same row as me like four people away and looked at me like 7 times, but never spoke. He sits alone sometimes at lunch. When he does sit with others he sits on the end. Which I think means he doesn't like to feel closed in. After he is done eating he goes and sits with the populars but is not necessarily included in the dicussion if you know what i mean. 2 other juniors said to go for it because if I would just talk to him I have like a 90% chance with him. Arrgh, I am just soo shy though. I honestly don't know if i'll ever get the courage to talk to him. I know I am just building him up as something perfect in my head which is why it is so hard. I mean he's only human. So my question is really 2 parts. 1-What do you think I should do as in like conversation..ect. and 2- Do you think I have a chance in hell. Please be honest. And I AM SOO SORRY THIS IS SO FREAKIN' LONG!! SORRY (link)
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you talk to him, your gonna be his mother#&!*in hero, I tell you that mis, hes gonna love and love you.
Trust me, Courage is something you got, Everyone has it, And you got it! now go show it!
btw seriously, you must be really one cool girl, why can't boys meet well off nice people like you.
So #1 90% chance, the other 10% is hes really gay.
#2 tell him you want to eat lunch with him tomorrow, and or then ask if he would enjoy company to a park or if he wants to go buy some milkshakes together
its gonna be a little awkward at first, but you got it, remember you got courage! everyone does!
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i broke up with my boyfriend cuz all my friends were preasurin me about going out with a total loser. its been about 3 month since i dumped him and i still like him. i want to go out with him again cuz i know i made a mistake by dumpin him but i dont no how to tell him that i still like him? (link)
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tell him you'll do the naughty in the bed
No NO!, im just kidding, don't do that, even if it works.
tell him with a warm heart that, you made the biggest dumbest stupidest retarded mistake of your mentality challenged life by making your friends a bigger priority then him and listening to them by getting it on with some other guy who was hotter then he is, tell him hes your number 1 fan and you love him very much and hes the only hot man you see around, MMmmM show him the lovin girl
#1 FAN!
~ yeah!
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I'll try to make an extremely long story short. First of all, I have TERRIBLE taste in men. My last boyfriend "Jared" convinced me that he really cared about me, in an effort to get me to allow him to move in with me. Of course, I fell for it, and he did. Then, he started drug dealing from my house. In the end, we got arrested, I lost my house and ended up moving back home, and he dropped me like a bad habit.
I got quite the lucky break in that I was put on probation for four years with a differed sentence meaning that I can have my record cleared when I'm done. Also, once I've completed all my requirements while on probation (which I have), I can go unsupervised (meaning I don't have to report to an officer), and petition the judge to have my record cleared early. "Jared" wasn't as fortunate.
Now my problem...I feel like as long as I'm on probation I'm completely useless. I'm working at a job I absolutely hate for minimum wage because I can't seem to get hired anywhere else due to my record. I've always had low self esteem because I was born with anmiotic band syndrome which left my fingers deformed from birth, so I've never been able to meet guys let alone talk to them, and after this last guy, I'm terrified at the very thought. I'm in school as a Criminal Justice major (ironic right?), but with the hours I'm working at my job, it's nearly impossible to keep up with. Things that I used to love are now becoming a chore, like singing on the praise team at my church, or simply attending church at all. I don't have many friends in my hometown, and the ones I do have are all married or dating which is even more depresseing on my part. I feel completely unwanted, un-needed, and unnecessary! I feel like I just exist. Everyday is the exact same routine. There's no excitement, no nothing. I've even gone so far as to wonder if anyone would even care if I died today. I mean, I'm not suicidal by any means...I just wonder. Sure people would be sad for a few days, but I've never made an impact on anyone's life. They'd all forget about me in a week or so.
It just seems like as long as this is on my record, I'm at a stand still. I've talked to the District Attorney about petitioning the judge for an early expungement, and he made it very clear that if I do, he will contest. I've done everything I know how...cut connections with bad influences...completed all my requirements for my probation...paid all my court fees...held the same job for almost two years and became the manager. I don't smoke, don't drink, don't party.
I fully understand the fact that I have to pay the price for my actions and bad judgment. If I can't get an early expungement, or even if I do, what do I do about feeling like such a waste of space? I don't need to be rich and famous, just have sone sort of purpose, and know that I am needed or at least wanted by someone...ANYONE!! (link)
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"Careful about your major, you do know that your going to be limited with a bad record, even if its cleared. I suppose it depends on what part of the criminal justice job you are looking for and country"
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Im sorry, I didn't feel like reading it all
but now that I did, I feel bad for you. Its no doubt A tough situation that your in.
It looks like you want to feel needed and loved
so you want a lover
I suggest and I know its easy to say. you start working out, you start eating right, and you start caring about yourself, at the same time, find a man who you think has great moral character, pretty or not, love is an amazing thing. make sure moral is the key.
Take a look at life, and see whats really important? whats really going on in the world?
wheres it all coming to
I understand you go to church, Like me I go to church, but Im no true christian but I know god is real, I just deny him and its my fault, it true, I don't want to anymore but, Im with idiot.
the best thing to help me, and i doubt it will help you is exercise and music. I run and workout often, and many times play the guitar because I am sad.
this world is sad, yet you got to stand up and try to be on the right angle.
maybe, Write a book, help children, or just plain out help yourself.
good luck, sorry if i didn't help, no idea how to truely, but remember there are many people in your situation who have pulled out of this, and you can do it too. you are awesome because you work hard, you handle things yourself, you seem like one tough cookie, and tough cookies last a long time.
don't change my rating, being number 1 is not always a bad thing you know :P
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I started dating a guy about a week ago and now i dont know if i really want to have a boyfriend. i really thought i did at the time but i find myself thinking more and more that i should just be single cause havin one is too limited. i would never cheat on him but im still gonna go out n flirt with other guys n talk to them. i like the idea of a boyfriend but then when i get one i dont want the relationship factor. i want everyting but the being tied down factor. i really like this guy but want to be able to see who else is out there too. what do i do? if i end it i will miss him but if i dont end it i'll be sad cuz im so tied up! is there a way to tell him i still wanna be close to him but i dont want to be actually dating?? the moment after i said yes i thought oh myy wait cant we just be dating but not technically? please help! (link)
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you know what, by the time your 30 you'll still single and you'll still be flirting.
just for his sake, don't lead the poor fellow on. end it
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Ok so i'm 15 and i like love ........sex...........lol but only had it when i wasl ike 9...when would be a good age for me to have it? (link)
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When your 45, trust me.
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i'm thinking about coloring my hair, just a different shade maybe. lighter, or darker? i wanted to go with light brown hair, but i'm not sure if that really compliments me.
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thanks :) (link)
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Pink, totally Pink.
Its the universal flattering color!
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okay so my mom wont let me get in cars with guys.
it sucks really bad.
she says that she needs to meet them first and let her get to know them and she means that by the guys coming over to my house.
i hate bringing guys home because its really boring at my house and nothing to do.
i sneak out alot and that is because she wont let me get in cars with guys. i wont do anything bad with them but she dont trust me. i really hate it. i cant ever hang out with a guy unless they come over to my house or i sneak out. i dont know what to do. everybody gets to get in cars with guys, even my best friends, there is this one really good girl and she even gets to and my best friend get to too and her mom didnt even know him. it just sucks, im tired of it. help me please. i will give out a 5. (: (link)
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"i sneak out alot"
"because she wont let me get in cars with guys"
hmph! you strike me as a intellectual female I mean that is of course im talking about your mom.
meaning '"Thought and reason"'
tell you something, your mom obliviously loves you a whole shit ton more then those other girls
and she has enough reasoning to keep her daughter safe, its just to bad your mom doesn't have night detection watch.
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i have been through so much in the past year, that the truth is, i just don't know how i've been able to do it all. I've been trying to fight an eating disorder for the past year. Close to full recovery, right after the day I graduated from high school, my mother decides to tell me that i'm adopted. i started college in the summer, because i enrolled for summer b, before i knew my mom was going to tell me that. so, right after graduation, she tells me that, i get back into my eating disorder, and i have to start school right away. i started school extremely depressed. i didn't know who i was anymore, or where i came from. two weeks after that, i find my biological family, and i discovered way too many things. some were good, some were bad. but the bottom line is, that i'm a little bit depressed. there has been a lot more going on in my life. this is just an overview. i can't do it anymore. sometimes, i get so depressed, i can't go to school. my mother treats me like an infant. i'm in freakin college, and i love my mother so much, but it pisses me off. i constantly have to remind her that i'm not a baby. i'm so upset and i hate my life so much. its like nothing makes me happy. i honestly don't know what to do, and i wish i could just not go to school or anything, but i fear that it will make it worst. can anyone give me any type of advice? i use to be a happy girl... and i now i can barely remember what it feels like to be happy. (link)
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The Key Answer here is: God
Lady, or mis or girl, Jesus Christ will fill that empty spot of yours. He won't turn you down
promise He made.
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So after my couple of months revenge on my cheating ex-boyfriend, i have come to forgive, then turn to someone else xD (evil isn't it?)
Anyway his name is Jovon, we have been friends since the 7th grade but ever since the recent breajup, we have gotten much closer. Later on, i told him i had feelings for him (bad idea???) He told me that he likes me too, only thing is he doesnt just want to like me for my body. I completley understand: he's kinda known as a man-whore, he bounces from girl to girl for theirr bodies. He also told me he wanted to spend some one on one time with me, so he could get to know me better, that he didnt want me to be, "another fling" that i could be a promising girlfriend and lover (we are both freaks, so i saw that coming). I need some more opinions!!! Could he be real serious about me?? I mean he has fingered 3 of my classmates in short-term relationships (1-3 months)and then moves on. But if it was like the others he would've forced it on me...
Question: Should i ho for it??
Gracias
~Olie 14/f ;) (link)
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and guess what, you'll be the fourth. im sure all those other girls fell for the same damn thing he said to you
but if for some forsaken reason hes telling the magical truth behind his beady eyes then okay date him, but involve little to no sexual activity, see what happens and see how long it last.
Luck to you
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Welll me and my ex broke up in last october because he cheated one me with his ex girlffriend. We was in love . Den I met this boy . He was in my class . We started going out in december . We are goign strong for 9 months now . But its like now my ex wants to come along in the picture and idk y I let him . We are both in charge of the youth events in da church so its like we have to talk . And one day as we was planning something we kissed for a long time . I told my boyfriend because I dnt like to keep stuff from him . So my boyfriend didn't break up with me . Im so thankful but he said I need 2 choose between him or my ex. I dnt wanna be with my ex because he is da past . But I wanna cut my ex out . Well not out completely but I just feel like im not ova him . I lost my virginity to my currnet boyfriend and my ex got mad at me when I told him . My current boyfriend is very serious about realtionships and I like that . I just wanna know how can I get ova my ex . (link)
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I like how you gave them all a 4, yet there answers were spot on. "STAY AWAY FROM HIM" simple as that.
that means quit the shit that involves you and him, for your boyfriends sake.
maybe, you like this, I think you like these kinda games, its only a matter of time before you and mr.ex kiss again.
Hormonal - player?
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when my boyfriend fingers me he gets me soo close but it never happens..its not even like he stops what he's doing i just don't climax. and he knows what he's doing like with the clit and all whyy can't i? (link)
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nervousness ? nawww
try something plastic or rubber, something that vibs
get the hint?
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okay,
so last night a guy came over and everytime when he wanted to kiss me i would back off. i would tell him no. and then he would get mad. i havent made out in a long time and im really scared because i dont know how to do it anymore or i dontwant to be bad at it. but he told me before that he came that he wants to date but i told him that we have to see eachother more so he said that he is going to come over everyday but i doubt that he is anymore because i made him mad because i wont kiss him. i know that yall think that its stupid for him to get mad, but its actaully not because ive made out with other guys like 2 months ago. and they are random guys to. so he is mad now. and i texted him when he left saying that ill promise him that next time that we hang out that i will kiss him. but i really want to date him but i think that i screwed it all up.
help please.
idk what to do anymore. (link)
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I would take offense to that as well, So the main thing you should focus on right now is to tell him you certainly like him very much, its just your a little scared to kiss, its a little to soon, say instead you would like to go out to this wonderful restaurant, say like mcdonalds, and if all turns out great and the time comes go for a kiss, make sure to kiss him, acknowledging that you wanted to kiss, just not yet.
btw don't go to mcdonalds.
its a poo place :( and its expensive
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Everyone in my school doesnt like me...I'm thinking its because of the vicious rumors that have been started by an old ex boyfriend of mine who doesnt know how to mind his own business. I try to be friendly to everyone but it just doesnt help. I feel like im the only person at this school who doesnt have friends. No one cares about me, and honestly, i dont care about me anymore either. i hate this school. help me. dont tell me to go to counseling either :/ (link)
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Are there any other nearby schools? you should totally look into that. If not then Best thing to do is try to be yourself, and over time slowly gather friends.
No More Big Tough bad boy boyfriends either.
sorry if thats not true, good luck
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