I have a collumn? Lol. Anyways umm... I'm a very spastic person so until further notice, I'm Brittany Parsons on Facebook, the Cranazian on Myspace.
Gender: Female
Location: Canada Biieetch!
Occupation: Lifeguard, Swim Instructor, Student
Age: 17
MSN: randomidityqueen007@hotmail.com
Member Since: July 23, 2008
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Okay, so i'm 14/f in highschool , freshie!!! haha, okay so anyway. at my school we have a freshman play and only freshman can try out. Well, this is my first play. In middle school you could do the musical, my friends did that but I can't sing so i didnt. My friend can't act. She sucks. Well I've never told her this(That would be mean!) But everyone knows that if your charecter is a name (Like Stacey, Jill, Laura etc) it's a bigger role then not a name (Nurse 1, Student 5 etc.) Well my friend got Fan 2. Shes mad at me because this is my first play and i got a 'lead'. she seems to think that if i didn't try out she would have gotten my part. However we don't know this for a fact. But, shes all mad at me. Am I wrong to not be bothered by this? Like, all the good people are cast and if i quit then i'm letting down a lot of people. On top of that...I don't want to quit. I want to do it. I want to start acting. She inssits shes not mad but i can tell she is and shes telling everyone that she is and that its all my fault. I DIDN'T DO ANYTHING TO LIKE SABOTAGE HER! I guess i'm good if i made it without experience and only one class. What do you think? (link)
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She's jealous, as is common with all high school girls who have not yet... seen the light. (I'm a senior, but hey, my enlightenment was freshman year believe me). Anyways, if she's that mad, then she is probably dealing with some internal issues of inadequacy. She's not mad at you, she's mad at the person who picked you instead of her, and probably mad at herself to some degree even if she hasn't yet realized it. As for what you should do- play your part in the play. Have a good time. Try out wiht your friend again next time. Make sure that you emphasize the fact that you guys get to work on something together that you both like, and encourage her to go for the lead next time. It's too late to change anything now, so she can't stay mad at you- she probably will, but that's because like all girls our age she's an immature twit- we'll get over it someday.
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So Im going out with this kid, hes awesome, and I know im ready to kiss him, and I want to make out with him but im afraid I wont know how to do it, Ive never made out with anyone before, and im kinda scared, he plans on making out on Thursday which is 3 days from now and I dont know how to get over this. (link)
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Yea, I think that it's definitely odd that you've PLANNED to makeout on Thursday. I don't think that things like this can be planned- or else how will you know if the feeling is really there? If it's business then that's fine, but this is another story. Anyways no one knows how to do it for the first time- what makes it so much fun is that you can change things up and learn from eachother.
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heyy. i was looking through some stuff & found ur site.& i needed advice..
i manage to get mad at people very easily-if they mess w/ my friends. ive even gone after a few people, but ive only hit them..and i had a girl, who doesnt ever talk to me & does not know me at all call me phsyco..so what do you think? =/ (link)
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If this girl doesn't know you, and doesn't ever talk to you, then how could you possibly see anything valid in her opinion of you? She doesn't know you. If anything you're psycho for thinking that a stranger has any say in who you are. If you stick up for your friends, you're awesome. I do that too... just make sure that the people really deserve what you do to them. Like, I beat up people for sticking their hands down my friend's pants in a wave pool at the water park, not for calling her names.
If anything, I would suggest thinking things through, and making sure that you're not overacting. And please- don't take strangers who don't know you so seriously when they tell you things like that. Chances are, they're just assholes.
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ok, well I just moved the furniture around in my room today.
I hate the color of my walls and I want to paint.
The thing is I want to do something crazy, but I have no idea what colors, and if I had colors I dont know what to do with them.
I dont know if I want some sort of design or what, I'm kind of stumped.
If anyone has any suggestions that would be lovely (:
the only thing i know is that I dont want pink or red. (link)
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This is kind of an odd question to ask, really. You're asking other people to tell you how you should express who you are. WHat's your favorite color? Your favorite thing to do? Your favorite pattern? Pick something that describes who you are and that you would lvoe to look at every day-maybe have someone (or you yourself) just go crazy on your walls so that you always see something new in it. No matter what, make sure that it's what you want before you break out the brushes.
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Okay, i pretend to be a really happy person, but i am veryyy depressed. Or, well thats what the quizes say. I normally wont buy it, but they say its serious depression & i need help A.S.A.P. but problem is...i dont really have a doctor. And i told my brother one time and he got pissed off. I am afriad to tell anyone now becuase i am afriad they will get mad )= i know it sounds stupid but thats how i feel! And i need help. So if i tell a doctor, they'll subsrice me some pills and will tell my family. Does anyone know how to cure depression without anyone knowing? And please dont say stuff like, Spend time with the fam. becuase there one of the reasons of my depression.
Thanks =D (link)
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Hey... as a person who recently just "got over" depression, I suppose I could offer some advice. In order to do that, though, I'd have to tell you a lot about myself... so I hope you're ready to read ^^;
I was depressed for a very long time... and I mean a VERY long time. And yes, my family was part of the reason too. I was always afraid to tell anyone, because whenever I cried when I was little, my parents would yell at me... it just annoyed them. So, I learned to bottle it up and have random moments where I would punch a tree, or wait until my family was out of the house (which became more and more often) to break down and scream and cry until I threw up or passed out. Honestly though, the only thing that made me get any kind of treatment was the fact that I tried to kill myself, and one of my few friends decided to cal my parents so they could drive me to the emergency room. BTW, if you ever try to kill yourself, don't take chemicals- it only fucks with your stomach ^^;.
Anyways, so after 10 days in the hospital, going to sessions and whatnot, I still felt like shit. They sent me home and put me on prozac, and you know what, I fetl worse. And I tried to kill myself again. And again. And again. Eventually they upped the dosage so much that I became a zombie, and I couldn't really react to anything even though in the back of my mind I was still screaming and crying like I always had.
So, enough said- Medicine's don't work. What does work- figuring your life out. Find out what makes you depressed, and get rid of it. I got a job, I started hanging out with friends, I started painting and drawing again. And when I got my license if I didn't feel like going to school, I didn't. I went to the local state park and sat on a tree hanging over the Eno River and read all day.
Sometimes, you just have to take things into your own hands, and notice that if your life isn't worth living, then you should do what you can to change it. Instead of looking at yourself as a victim of the world, maybe notice that you're also a victim of yourself (even if the world has made you into the person you are). To tell you the truth, I still get sad. Even right now I can't sleep because I started crying when I last tried to... but sometimes life just does that to you. However, I have stopped taking prozac, and I feel much better without it.
To some this whole thing up: getting over your depression is up to you. Think of what you like to do. Get out, open your eyes as wide as you can, stare at the shapes in the clouds, and breath. Cuz yes, life may suck. But you can always do your part to make it a little bit easier on yourself, or at least get some fulfillment out of something that you do so that until the time comes when you can be happy again, you at least feel somewhat useful. If it wasn't for a 6 year old named Eleanor, I might not have learned that.
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trifling what does that mean when a guy says that to a girl (link)
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Trifling can also mean, confusing or troubling... I think you'd need to provide a sentence here so we can get the context.
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I am a 17/f what are some good songs for a boyfriend and girlfriend? (link)
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The best song for a bf/gf is the one that you both like. It's that song that you both go crazy to whenever you hear it, your that you sing to when it comes on the radio. If you're really that lost though, it's usually good to go with the first slow song that you dance to. If you don't go to any dances, then just pick something that you think describes how you feel about eachother.
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How can I make my calves bigger? Toe raises don't work well for me and I can't go to a place to work out and I don't have a machine to work out. (link)
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If you don't have time for soccer (which, I agree, really does work... though I hate my calf muscles for being so huge. They're 16 inches around, and I'm not fat... ugh. Anyways), then try wearing some ankle weights when you walk. You can get them at just about any sporting-goods store, and they're a good way to build up some fast muscle. You could also try pointing your toes upward as you walk throughout your day, and then do toe raises later.
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I LOVE this guy but he has a girlfriend! We went ot a party and made-out the whole time and h e said he loves me but he won't break up with his other girlfriend! I said if you love me u'll break up with her. Then we randomly started making out and I love him sooooooooooooo much. What should I do!?!?! (link)
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My answer: He's a dickwad just using you as a piece of ass. If you can't tell, I was in a similar situation a couple months ago. He's really not worth your time if he's willing to cheat on his girlfriend, especially with someone who knows that he has one.
(I however didn't know at the time... asshole... but I digress.)
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i shaved my puibs 4 my girlfriend and it left all these red dots all over the area right above my dick wat r they and how do i get rid of them
P.S. they wernt there when i shaved they apperd tha day after (link)
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Those kind of bumps are actually normal in shaving in sensitive areas in general. The only thing it, us girls use shaving cream when doing to so our armpits, or otherwise, and we use soft deodorants and whatnot that generally keep the skin from getting irritated. What you have is a normal case of razor burn, where either you didn't use shaving cream, you had a blunt razor, etc etc. As the girl below me said, lotion would probably work. You can wait for the hair to grow back and then shave again using a better razor (maybe get a girls' one, I don't know), or better shaving cream to make it easier on your skin.
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im moving and im seriously in love with this guy. wat do i do? (link)
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Well, it depends how far away you're moving, and for what reasons. You aren't really giving us a lot to work with here ^^;
In any case, if you really love this guy and you're moving far away, then you can try to stay in contact with him through webcam or something similar until you can see eachother again. Just warning you, it gets really hard like that sometimes and one of you might start to lose feelings, or one of you might get tired of having a long-distance relationship. Eventually, you will probably have to move on from this guy. It's up to you to figure out when.
But, if you're not going for long, then it could always work out, so don't take my message as one of doom for your relationship (assuming that you are in one with this guy). I'm currently in a long-distance relationship, and so far it's worked out fine. There's no sure-fire way to tell what works, though. It all depends on the people.
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i have sex problem. i can not take time with my wife and my panis is very soft and not stand (link)
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First off, I think that you have a typing problem. Please, if you're going to ask a question, make it make enough sense so that we can read it.
Chances are, you have erectile disfunction. If that's so, then there are pills you can take if you simply go to your doctor and ask for them.
Just to make sure though, maybe think about what you're ding with your wife other than actually having sex. Foreplay can be just as important as the actual act, and works to arouse both partners before hand (thus, making it easier to stay hard.) If anything, maybe just try doing something new and see if it will yield new results.
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our anniversary is coming and i dont know what i should get him or give him i dont want it too be way to big or fancy just something to show him i love him and care for him and its only been a month a buncha ideas are great! (link)
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It's only been a month, so my first answer is to slow down and breath. As much as one month might seem like a big deal to you now, in the long run it's not going to matter that much. That being said, I don't want to dull the moment- one month, go you! Anyways, think of something that he likes, and get him something small that kinda says "I know you." If he likes music, make him a mix CD. Give him candy or something or take him out. Just don't go all crazy and buy him anything remotely over the price of about $10-15, no matter how much you may think it fits him. For one month, keep it small. Save the big stuff for later.
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