Question Posted Monday September 28 2009, 10:04 pm
Welll me and my ex broke up in last october because he cheated one me with his ex girlffriend. We was in love . Den I met this boy . He was in my class . We started going out in december . We are goign strong for 9 months now . But its like now my ex wants to come along in the picture and idk y I let him . We are both in charge of the youth events in da church so its like we have to talk . And one day as we was planning something we kissed for a long time . I told my boyfriend because I dnt like to keep stuff from him . So my boyfriend didn't break up with me . Im so thankful but he said I need 2 choose between him or my ex. I dnt wanna be with my ex because he is da past . But I wanna cut my ex out . Well not out completely but I just feel like im not ova him . I lost my virginity to my currnet boyfriend and my ex got mad at me when I told him . My current boyfriend is very serious about realtionships and I like that . I just wanna know how can I get ova my ex .
karenR answered Tuesday September 29 2009, 7:06 am: Just a note for those who will complain. Because this is your first question to the site, it isn't being deleted for using misspelled words like da instead of the. All future questions written like this will be deleted.
The quickest way to get over the ex is to simply stay away from him. Don't make him a part of your life anymore. No need to discuss your sex life with him, for example. Its no longer any of his business what you do or with whom.
It will take a little time, but, if you have strong feelings for your new boyfriend, it won't take long before you don't think of the ex very often. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
o0Yourmom0o answered Tuesday September 29 2009, 1:21 am: I was in a situation similar to this a few years ago. You basically just have to think about how you felt when you found out that he cheated on you. Horrible I'm sure. And once a cheater always a cheater I believe is how most cases go. Just think about how much more of a potential this boyfriend is and how your ex obviously doesn't care about you too much if he cheated on you.
I'm sure he's a good person, but if you want to stop thinking about your ex you need to sort of get mad at him. Because if your just mad then you care and think less about the person.
Good luck :) [ o0Yourmom0o's advice column | Ask o0Yourmom0o A Question ]
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