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people bumming ciggerattes from me constantly and iam sick and tired of it!


Question Posted Monday September 28 2009, 11:04 pm

my name iS Rachel and I go to a mental health center 5 days a week monday through Friday but anyways here is my problem they let us smoke at the center and there are a bunch of people that smoke and I don't mind giving out ciggerates once in a while and everybody gives them back to me except this one girl who lives in a group home and I understand that she only gets $31.00 a month out of her social sucurity check but it never fails she always asks me for at least 6 or 7 smokes a day and I know she can't afford to pay me back should I mention it to a staff member or would I be a snitch?

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christina answered Tuesday September 29 2009, 10:33 am:
Either say you don't have too many cigarettes left or don't smoke around her.

The staff isn't gonna do anything about it.

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The_MoUsY_spell_checker answered Tuesday September 29 2009, 3:52 am:
What do you expect a staff member to do about it?

Just don't give her any if she never gives them back.

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hitler_the_goat answered Tuesday September 29 2009, 2:30 am:
stop smoking when she's around. I've been in similar situations, and this is the best alternative. sucks when you're the last guy with cigarettes on a combat outpost.
-Gunner.

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California26 answered Tuesday September 29 2009, 1:56 am:
you can always just tell her you cant afford to be handing out smokes and leave it at that.the staff wont do nothing you gave her the the smokes.i wouldnt call it snitching more like resolving a small disagreement.aaaa..program drama i miss it sometimes.

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Daintree answered Tuesday September 29 2009, 1:49 am:
you said: should I mention it to a staff member or would I be a snitch?
NO.... You tell her yourself she has to buy her own smokes You can't afford to pay for her habit too. You have to be strong and say NO MORE sorry... buy your own or give up. Her wage is not your problem. why should you support her habit Has she ever been to your house for Xmas?
She's out of line.

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