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Is he serious about me?!
So after my couple of months revenge on my cheating ex-boyfriend, i have come to forgive, then turn to someone else xD (evil isn't it?)
Anyway his name is Jovon, we have been friends since the 7th grade but ever since the recent breajup, we have gotten much closer. Later on, i told him i had feelings for him (bad idea???) He told me that he likes me too, only thing is he doesnt just want to like me for my body. I completley understand: he's kinda known as a man-whore, he bounces from girl to girl for theirr bodies. He also told me he wanted to spend some one on one time with me, so he could get to know me better, that he didnt want me to be, "another fling" that i could be a promising girlfriend and lover (we are both freaks, so i saw that coming). I need some more opinions!!! Could he be real serious about me?? I mean he has fingered 3 of my classmates in short-term relationships (1-3 months)and then moves on. But if it was like the others he would've forced it on me...
Question: Should i ho for it??
Gracias
~Olie 14/f ;)
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and guess what, you'll be the fourth. im sure all those other girls fell for the same damn thing he said to you
but if for some forsaken reason hes telling the magical truth behind his beady eyes then okay date him, but involve little to no sexual activity, see what happens and see how long it last.
Luck to you
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I think that the habit of cheating will always come back somehow in most cases but I don't know the guy. I don't think you should go for it right away, just spend time as friends and make him really care so much about you that he wont hurt you again.
If he is a true manwhore/player, he would know that the like "i don't just want you for your body" will work on a lot of girls.
So he could be telling the truth, or really just wanting to sweeten up to you. Be careful, and take it slow :)
I don't think 14 is way too young to start being serious, it depends on the type of person you are and everything. I'm 15 and I met the love of my life a year ago when I was your age. Too bad he didn't feel the same way. :(
Good luck :)
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You shouldn't HO for it! But if you think he's truly truly truly honest go for it. But your kinda young to be doing anything really serios.(Not trying to be a parent) Go slow to be sure about things. But if you guys were friends since 7th grade he should know you pretty good by now don't you think.
Lillian
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