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hes mad because i didnt kiss him. chances ruined.
okay,
so last night a guy came over and everytime when he wanted to kiss me i would back off. i would tell him no. and then he would get mad. i havent made out in a long time and im really scared because i dont know how to do it anymore or i dontwant to be bad at it. but he told me before that he came that he wants to date but i told him that we have to see eachother more so he said that he is going to come over everyday but i doubt that he is anymore because i made him mad because i wont kiss him. i know that yall think that its stupid for him to get mad, but its actaully not because ive made out with other guys like 2 months ago. and they are random guys to. so he is mad now. and i texted him when he left saying that ill promise him that next time that we hang out that i will kiss him. but i really want to date him but i think that i screwed it all up.
help please.
idk what to do anymore.
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I would take offense to that as well, So the main thing you should focus on right now is to tell him you certainly like him very much, its just your a little scared to kiss, its a little to soon, say instead you would like to go out to this wonderful restaurant, say like mcdonalds, and if all turns out great and the time comes go for a kiss, make sure to kiss him, acknowledging that you wanted to kiss, just not yet.
btw don't go to mcdonalds.
its a poo place :( and its expensive
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Honestly you did nothing wrong. Its up to you when you kiss someone. If you kissed someone before thats great and you dont have the same comfort with him then dont do it. Wait until your ready. You have an inner instinct for a reason. When we make choices as such and they seem stupid they arent. Stick with your first instinct and dont do it. He knows that once he kisses you thats the first step to further action. Once he kisses you he will want to take the next step and then the next one and so on and so forth so just be wise and take your time. Also what does dating mean to him and why is he so pushy and eager for a kiss. If he plans on dating you there is plenty of time for that.
Good luck
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You need more time to adjust and feel comfortble with him & make sure good decisions are being made. He wants hanky panky and your not there yet. He should respect that otherwise let him go if he loves you he will understand. I went out with a guy when I was 16 for 6 mths no sex I liked him but I wasn't in love with him. You get that sometimes. He's the ex boyfriend I have the most respect for. You do things your way you say No for your own reasons that is very responsible. Good luck sweetie
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