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i had sex two times in one week the boy came in me both times, how long would it take to find out if im pregnate?

wait two to three weeks and take an at home pregnancy test

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So last night i got fingered for the first time.. it didn't really feel good it almost hurt more than anything.. and it hurts to pee.. is that normal for the first time?

yes that is normal. you are very tight and so him fingering you makes you sore. it normal for pain and sometimes even a little bit of blood. but it will get better the more you do it

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Me and my mother were in the mall the other day and we went into Hot Topic, And you know those little sex shirts that they have, well my mom bought one!, ya and she is over wight so it was kind of gross, But that was not the worse part, then i hear her and my step father haveing sex, for the theird time! one tims my friend was over to! My problem is that when ever i talk or see them its like mad awkward, i cant help but want to say whats your problem or mom how was your night? how to I handle this?? And i dont really like the way my mother is buying clothes that I should eb wearing not her. what do i do??

sit her down and talk to her about it. maybe she is going through some kind of mid-life crisis. you are not a baby anymore so now your mom is trying to act like she is 19 again. i think if you talk to her and connect with her she will understand. and maybe ya'll can go shopping together at a place where she can find cute clothes and it might even bring ya'll closer together :]

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ok i had my first period 3 years ago on my birthday and it was heavy and somewhat long, i had it again exactly a year later about. now it comes every few months and i never know when its gonna come every time i do have it, i get super moody, its heavy and it lasts a few good days. i need to know a way to make it regular so i don't have to always wonder when its going to come. my mom suggested birth control, but i never know if i can take it at the same time every day because i have a horrible memory about stuff like pills and other kinds of medicine. any advice about any way to keep my period regular??

you should talk to your doctor about birth control. it will help the pain and keep it regular. im horrible about remembering things as well so i always take my birth control right before i go to bed. or you can set a timer on your phone and eventually you will get used to it

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16 almost 17/f

okay so i really like this guy. i met him about a month ago at a party. a couple weeks later we hung out for basically the whole entire day and we talked alot and one of my friends that was there said that he was always trying to find a way to talk to me. (who knows if shes right but whatever) anywaysss, about a week later he gave me his number and said to call him when i wanted to hang out again. i never called him but i texted him and we were texting for like basically the whole day...and night. he said he was gonna go to bed and he'll talk to me tomorrow but he never did...i kinda want to text him but im not sure if i should...should i let him text me? from a guys perspective, do you like when the girl makes the first move? i can hold a conversation with him for hours, hes really outgoing, do you think he likes me? what should i do?

text him girl! he obviusly likes you or he wouldnt have been texting you that whole day. text him and be like hey whats up. and he will text you back. then make plans to hang out

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my anus itches and ive read that it is pinworms on my anus , and i was curious so i looked and my poo and saw little wiggling maggots on it ,and that if you itch it and put your hand in your mouth the worms go in your body , i know you can get stuff to get rid of them but im to embaresed to tell my parents ... but i want to get the treatment

what should i do??

ps(im a girl and my age is 11-14)

you most likly have pinworm.
its very common among younger kids and is easily treated but you have to wash EVERTHING.
go tell your parents asap.

but dont worry too much
the doctor will give you something to take care of it

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I am goin to buy a music phone for myself with mp3/bluetooth/3mp camera, it should be sexy and should look good basically. Could you tell me which is the best in Nokia and Sony Ericcson??
Thanx a bunch..

all i know is that the sony ericcsons brake easily.my friend had hers for a few months and the bottons were craked in half and she just doent like it

sorry if i didnt help too much :)

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Hey,

Ok so the issue is a guy that im seeing is coming down to visit this weekend, and its going to be the first time we spend any real time together b/c he is a college student in Ann Arbor, MI and im a high school student in OH. At 21, he is 4 years older than me. I have never made out with a guy before, and I'm nervous that I won't do it right or that I'll disappoint him. He has a lot more experience in all that stuff than I do and I just want to make sure that he isn't let down. Guys, any advice on what you like from a girl when making out, or anyone, tips for how to do it effectively? Thanks a lot and if someone could respond asap I'd appreciate it!!!

in my opinion girls are natural born kissers. so dont be too nervous. he will take control and you will know what to do. just dont worry too much or you will make yourself too nervous to do anything

:]

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(16/m)
What do girls like to get as a gift?
(only girls answer!!!!!)

depends on what type a girl she is

cool rocker girl-cool necklace or ring. maybe a cd or 2

girly girl-something sweet pretty purfume or stuffed animals

tom boy- something sweet but not too girly maybe a gift certificate

i hope this helps, if you need more info just message ;}

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My girlfriend and I had sex for the first time yesterday, and I pulled out instead of using a condom (we didn't have one.) The next day she said her stomach hurt, like cramps or a general stomach ache. Either way, I think she is just freaking out, and I'm doing everything to keep her mind off of it and make her happy, but for my own sanity, what should I do, and should I worry about anything? I was basically sure everything would be fine, but with a freaking out girlfriend, I just need some clarity. Thankkkk youuu

well you always need to use a condom because that method is bullshit. she could have gotten pregnant

the good news is that it is very common to feel a pain in your stomache for the first few days. she is probably not pregnant because girls dont usually feel the signs for a week or two

i hope this put your mind at ease!

:]

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Ok so I have a best friend for 10 yrs. We met when we were 12. Opposite sex of course. Ever since the first day, he has wanted to be just more than friends. But I didnt want a relationship at the time and I was the sweet innocent girl who loved bad ass jerks all through school. So anyways, we have been best friends for 10 yrs. We have both dated other people and done the whole serious relationships, but none of them worked out. I moved a state away when my parents moved to be closer to them. Its been 4 yrs since my friend and I have seen each other but we talk all the time. Through all this time, he has been in love with me and has always hoped that I would feel the same way. He is almost done with college and wants to start a career and looking for Mrs. Right. And really wants me to give him a shot.
I have always loved him. I just never could be with him back in school because we were best friends and I didnt want it to change. Even after we graduated and went separate ways, I always knew in the back of my head that some way, we would end up together. But every time I think I can even try to go on a date with him, I chicken out. I just get so scared and I dont know why. When I look back on my life, one of the best things that have come out of it so far has been having him in my life. According to him, we have not been friends for 10 yrs. but been married for 10 yrs. We have so many things in common, we have the same outlook on life and relationships, I know that he is the perfect guy for me. So why do I keep chickening out? Why am I so scared? He is coming to visit me this week and I am excited and petrified. Even though we talk all the time through phone calls, email, instant messaging, web cam, etc. I just get so many knots in my stomach and just get so nervous. I need some advice.

you love him! :]

you have always known weather you relized it or not that he is your mr. right

atleast give it a chance

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My family (husband and 2 kids) have not had a real family vacation in 8 years. My kids asked to go to Disney World. They are ages 15 and 12. I booked a 1 week vacation about 4 months ago. We are scheduled to leave June 28th. My mother has since been diagnosed with stage 4 ovarian cancer. Her surgery is June 27th. My only sibling is flying to NJ from CA to be with my mom. I told my husband to go on the Florida trip without me because I felt that the right thing for me to do would be to stay with my mother. He is refusing to go without me and blaming me for ruining our vacation. Is it right for him to blame me? We can’t cancel without losing a lot of money. We will not be able to book another trip anywhere in the near future because fuel prices are sky high, and we would have already lost a bundle. Do I go on the trip or stay with my mother who may be dying in the near term?

first of all your husband is not seeing the full picture. your mom needs you and would you really have fun knowing that your mom might need you?
sit your kids down and explain the situation, they are old enough to understand that you need to be with your mom. tell your husband to go with your kids so they can still have fun and you can devote your complete attention on the one who needs you the most right now, your mom.

ps i hope your mom gets better and i will pry for yall :]

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This is an emergency...
Im gaining so much weight from taking "the pill" so anyone or anybody kno any diff type of birth control method that doesn't make u gain weight and makes u have fewer menstrual periods? Please need help asap!
Thanx so much in advance!

i understand where your comig from. i take yaz and it doesnt make you gain alot of weight. plus it helps with acne and lighter periods

but you should talk to your doctor

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13/f

so i like this guy names sam.
we talk on myspace on the time
10 comments a day... or something like that

we talk about music, summer,,, ect.
i dont know if he likes me or not.
because if you message somone you cant really tell if they are flirting because you cant hear their voice,
what should i do?
we rode the same bus and everything.

i want to hang out with him. but i noticed that i am not on his top friends list. does that mean that he isn't interested?

it seemed like he liked me when we were in school because he would always look at me.. kinda like he wants to know if i am looking back sorta thing

how can i tell him that i am interested without completly coming out and saying it?
pleace help

ok. if he seems like he is flirting then he probably is because guys arnt natural flirts like girls are. just because you arnt on his top friend that doesnt mean he doesnt like you. maybe he just doesnt want to show that he likes you because he doesnt want to get rejecated. try to make it more obvious..flirt but dont be slutty. if it doesnt change anything then talk to him about it. its a new day and age! girls can ask guys out..worst comes to worst he just wants to be friends right?

so dont worry and do what come natural!
:]

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Ok, so I'm 16/m...

Yesterday I went to the movies with this girl I like. We were flirting and I'm 99.9% sure that she likes me. We've hung out a few times before and I was wondering if I should just ask her out already, or hang out with her again...

well, girls dont justt go to the movies with a guy because there friends!!! :)

ask her out-she likes you

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You know when people say stuff like "2nd base" and "3rd base"? What are the bases? Please someone explain. Thanks.

1st base-kissing/making out

2nd base-handjobs, feeling you up etc..

3rd base-anything oral blowjobs/eating you out

4th base-SEX!!!


dont worry i didnt know what all of these things meant either until 8th or 9th grade. :)

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