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Camille, Erin, Michelle and Kristy are the coolest damn effers! Want to see?

Erin:
play.
pimp.
power.
peace.
perfection.
yummmmm...



Camille:
Loud.
Crazy.
Spontanious.
Band Geek.
Lover.



Michelle:
Cute.
Little.
Asian.
Nough Said.



Kristy:
Loud.
Caring.
Compassionate.
And a bit of dangerrr.
yeeeah nukka....

Whoooa ND Lunch Benchers. We are just to damn ahmazing.
Ya damn straight we are.




Hokay, so we are four girls: all different and all ah-mazing. We are VERY different: Camille is the blunt and loveable one, Erin is the genious sex kitten, Michelle is the obedient Christian, Kristy is the confused lover.
We are perspiring from the irony...
Yup, and if you ask stupid questions, we give stupid answers.
M effing stupid biznatches who be answering wrong answers need to go toe and hoat.-Erin




Hokay so, I am Camille. And that was a load of warm, bs Erin just wrote. We are 4 girls who sit at the same lunch bench together everyday at our HS. Me and Erin usually collaborate on our answers, but, most of the answers are from Erin...I just sit there and watch. Funny questions asked to us are thanks to Michelle...and Kristy..well...when you see low ratings, thank Kristy. So when your bf breaks up with you and you are devistated DONT ask Kristy for advice. But if you are looking for RAW UNRATED truth, ask Kristy, cause you will sure damn get it. Ok, nuf bout Kristy, Michelle May is the shhhiznit. She be all like pimpin ping pong fo lyfe. Me and Erin are all chillin and we be all real up in hurrrr.-Camille.

advice

first things first...
I am 16/f and the guy is 16 and my guy best friend...
Ok, well I really really love this guy, and I told him...and well things got all wierd but then one of my friends said don't talk to him for a while 'the lets take a break death-sentence' anyways so i did and well we havnt talkeds since about the 19th dec. and yea. yesterday he sent me an email that read something like "why aren't you on msn anymore!? thats all i have to say!" and well I answered it. now we havbt talked since that, should i wait for him to email me or should i email/call him?

Wait.

I know it's hard, but it's always better to leave a little mystery in your relationships with guys.

Make him think that you're busy, and, if he doesn't respond for a while (two-days tops), you should e-mail or call him.

Then make it seem like you just read his e-mail because you were so busy with your fabulous self.

But it's a good sign he wrote to you! Even though he might have been surprised when you first told him, there is a good change he is realizing that he feels the same way about you.

Hope I helped!

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ok so i was supposed to start my period like 5 days ago and i just started today..i feel like i would normally feel whenever im on my period but im not bleeding like i would...im usually heavier than this..i mean right now im barely bleeding at all. what does this mean?

Nothing.

You just did something to alter your cycle slightly (maybe you were stressful or ate less recently). It's normal after you're a few days late to be a lot lighter. It won't hurt you or anything.

However, there is a small chance that you did not get your period, and there is only a small leakage of blood. In that case, just remember to eat healthy and relax, and your period will come soon.

Hope I helped!
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hello. I am 13/f, 5'2 and i weigh about 138 pounds. Is that really overweigh? Also, what is the fastest most efficent way to lose weight other then the excerise and eat less? Is there a SPECIFIC exercise i should do everyday? -thanks ALOT

Cut out one sugary thing a day and add one healthy exercise.
For example,
do you drink two sodas a day?
Well, stop drinking one soda, and go for a 30 minute walk while talking on your cell instead of sitting.
That creates a 250 Calorie difference; you should be 5 to 10 pounds thinner in a month/two mmonths.

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Hi , I met a friend in chatting ... we made friendship for a year... then later we started talking on phone .. it went for another 6 months ... wwe stay in different cities...one day we met ... things are fine ,,, some days later she was busy and i too in our jobs.. and we didnt spoke to each other for a week ....... then later when i tried to speak on phone she didnt respond ,,, and later i had sent a mail describing through reasons .. at last she had given a reply ,, with a million dollar question .... " i dont see y u want me as a friend..... and i cant fake ne thg wch i dont feel " ....... can u pls give an advice how to get our friendship as earlier ? do i get her friendship back ?

Two Possibilites:

This girl's a bitch or she feels horrible about herself and seriously doesn't understand "why you want her as a friend."

If it's the first one, hate to sound so blunt, but...

screw her. Focus on your other friends.

If it's the second one, tell her you're always willing to listen if she wants to talk. Say that you enjoy the talks you have together, and you can't imagine givin those up.

Now, you've known her for six months, so you should be the best judge of whether it's the first or second option.

Hope I helped!

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I think my best friend *and only friend* doesnt like me anymore..She posted an away message while I was talking to her that said "Fuck you I dont need anymore friends" and then she called my cellphone while her friends were over and they were laughing and saying really bad things to me like pussy in the background. Im so upset, Im shaking. This has never happened between me and her and weve been best friends for 6 years. I wanna die..please help

I know exactly how you feel. For me, I felt so horrible I was physically hurting, and I couldn't think. But first, think of all the reasons you shouldn't kill yourself.

1. Family
2. Your abilities- sports, school, generosity
3. You don't want to make them think you're weak
4. It doesn't work very well that often and sometimes you end up in mental institutions
5. People all over the world know exactly how you feel- they are willing to talk to you. Hell, I'm talking to you right now.

Okay, for a while, try and focus on other stuff. This may be hard because your mind is on your friend. As far as who you should hang out with, pretty much any moderately normal group should be willing to hang out with you. You might be embarassed at first, but hey, that's how I met my best friend (and co-writer of this site!). If you hang out with a specific group, and still want to hang out with them, form an alliance with another girl you're fairly close to. There are good people in the world who are willing to support you and stand-by you even when you're not at your best. That's how you figure out who are your real friends.

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I'm 14/f, and I was on this pill for a year that made me lose my appetite. My doctor finally took me off of it...but now, my stomach has completely shrunk, because when you don't eat, your stomach shrinks. I can barely eat half of a hamburger without being so full, I want to throw up. I am *NOT* anorexic. I've gone from 88 pounds to 81 pounds. My doctor keeps telling me just to "eat more" but I can't just "eat more", or I'll get sick!

How do I gain weight and my appetite back?

She's right protein helps, but for you, you really need to see a nutritionist. I've had problems with food my whole life, and, even if you don't have an eating disorder, eating disorder clinics provide cheap advice about how to gain weight healthily. Because they have to help girls do it so often!

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Ok so my friends do these things they call bashings. It's where we sit in a circle and tell esch other what we don't like each other. I hate it i think it's ridiculous casue i feel like their trying to stream line me so i'm some form of perfect friend robot.
They say it's so we don't talk behind each others back. Whenever i say i think it's stupid and it hurts me they just say i'm so sensitive and can't handle critism.
What do you think is it a good idea or stupid?
What should i do?

That's horrible.
I've done it before.
The general idea of what the girl below me said is true,
but, girl, you need to be more subtle.
If you want to get the bashings stopped,
you can do any of these:

1. See if any other girl seems uncomfortable about it and talk to her. 2 is better than 1, and it'll be easier for you to stand up against the people who are bashing. And, if they get mad at you, you're not alone because you have her.

2. Find something better to do. Bashing isn't that fun, and teens are always looking for the best high.

3. If the bashing is at a set time, take a dance class or something fun during that time. Your friends can't blame you for "going to your class." You're off the hook, and you won't feel left out because somehow I think the bashings are tearing you guys apart rather than bringing you together.

4. Criticism is good. Take it like a man and suck it up. Ha ha. Not really. There's no excuse for making someone feel bad about herself.

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hey EveryOne
Please Answear Thiis QuestiiOn for me ii need ideas Please



What does customer service mean to you???

It means

1. Helpful (and not annoyed when you ask them to help either or too helpful when you tell them you're just browsing)
2. Not snobby (I go to a private school, so I always go to Bloomingdale's in my uniform and they creep up on me like I'm Paris Hilton, but when I come in after practice in my old Paper and Denim jeans, they treat me like I'm not there: and I buy stuff from them all the time!)
3. Being about to ask questions about and return products
4. Being genuine- you don't always have to have a smile in your face if you wouldn't normally smile. One of the worst things in the world is to see someone trying to smell when you know they'd rather be shooting themselves in the head
5. Keeping things organized. Put merchandise where it belongs. Do not put dents or anything into products. I usually try to find something first when I go into the store before I ask a worker. And, sometimes-shhhhh!- I don't buy stuff I'm supposed to buy because I get frustrated and can't find it.

That may sound like a lot, but I think it's pretty simple. If you can create an evironment like that, you are my hero.
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Yell out loud anything you want...
What did you yell?

I can't forget the curves of your body...

(if you know the song, I know you're a true G)

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at first my dad was thinking about letting me get a sidekick 3, but now he's totally against it and said my phone is "fine."

i need to pursuade him so maybe he will let me get a sidekick. i have verizon right now and my phone is kind of like the side kick and has a keyboard.

my dad thinks im wayyyy too young to have a sidekick. im 14. yet all of these little elementary and middle schoolers in 5,6 &7th grade have sidekicks.

i really want one so bad i havent shut up about it since it came out, so i need good reasons. nothing about the keyboard because i have a phone with that

Okay, I have a Sidekick3, and I'm 14, so I think I'm pretty darn qualified to answer this question.

5 Reasons for Getting a Sidekick

1. Texting, Internet, and Special Features (games, rings, etc.) prices are so much cheaper You pay a $20 a month flat fee and you have unlimited text, unlimited wireless Internet, unlimited Instant Messaging, and a bunch of other stuff. It might sound like a lot, but it's impossible to go over so you never have to worry about those "Oh My gosh! How did you send 300 text messages in a month" moments ever again.

2. It keeps me organized. Unlike the regular phones, where notepad and the do-list and the calender were there but kind of sucked, the SideKick's Notepad feature works really well. Just recently, I wrote my entire Christmas list on there.

3. It can keep you better connected with your parents. I don't know about you but my parents don't understand text messaging, so the e-mail feature on the Sidekick is perfect for telling them important messages.

4. It's not trendy like other phones. Bet you still know a lot of people with Sidekick2s? I do, and people are still always like "Wow, let me see your Sidekick." With the Sidekick, you can keep the phone for a long time and never be embarrassed about how old or ugly it us. You might want to also mention to your parents that this means they won't have to buy you a new phone soon...

5. If you figure out how to work them, the camera and music player work really well. Now, if you don't already have a camera or music player, mention to your parents how buying you the Sidekick will prevent them for having to buy you either the camera or the music player. Everyone likes to feel they're getting a deal.

The response below is good too, and I definitely think you should offer to pay for half. Not only does it save your parents' money, but it shows you really want the Sidekick as well. No parent wants to buy their kid an expensive phone only to find they aren't using it.

Good luck! =]

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Okay, this is the thing... I'm 15, and just got my period last year and i have a big thing with blood I cant see it , touch it or anything. So when i get my period i throw up sometimes beacuse its nasty or sometimes ill pass out.. and in school this is very bad what should i do ?

Totally agree with using tampons.
But also, next time you see blood,
1. take breaths and think of something totally random.
or
2.call a friend. Friends are usually good at getting one's mind off of the pains of life.
or
3. Exercise It makes you feel so much better about yourself Even if it's just like a 15 minute walk.
or
4. (my favorite!) get a really calming song or even a really crazy song that you can listen to you to get your mind off of the blood

Good luck.
Ughhhh...why don't guys have to deal with these kinds of problems?

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ohkay well im horrible at starting conversations and so is my boyfriend. and i feel like and idiot when were sitting around not talking about nothing. hellpPP?

Compliment each other. It starts a flirtatious vibe. Also, bring up a funny momment of the day or a story you both can relate to so you both have input on the subject.

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what are some foods that boost your metabolism

GREEN TEA!
But honestly, if you want to lose weight and eat the same amount of food, just eat a lot of vegetables. I know, sounds disgusting, but a bag of carrots (like five minutes of munching) is only 38 calories. Enjoy!

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Okay so i like this boy.
I guess i like him to much becuause i did stuff with him [if you know what i mean].
i found out he didnt like me
and that he kinda used me.
and that he liked another girl
he asked her out and they are going out but then i found out that he wanted to dump her for like no reason
but then i thought about it
and i think he just wanted to break up with her to do stuff with me
and not have a girlfriend to worry about.
do you think that could be the case?
but im not going to do stuff since i know he used me, but its to late to do anything now but im just wondering

thanks!

Yes he is using you. Yes he dumped that girl so he could get in your pants..again. And I think you should just forget about him. I know it's hard; it sounds like you like him and he's really hot. But, trust me, just leave it the way it is. Hey, wouldn't it be nice if you came out the stronger person and he lusted after you? Yeahhhhh.

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It's true that you can't get pregnant when you have sex when you're on your period because your egg releases, right? Or no... ? Thanks!

NO!
Even during ovulation, if the sperm touches the egg...well, you know.
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Happy Holidays.

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