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i dont see y u want me as a friend..
Hi , I met a friend in chatting ... we made friendship for a year... then later we started talking on phone .. it went for another 6 months ... wwe stay in different cities...one day we met ... things are fine ,,, some days later she was busy and i too in our jobs.. and we didnt spoke to each other for a week ....... then later when i tried to speak on phone she didnt respond ,,, and later i had sent a mail describing through reasons .. at last she had given a reply ,, with a million dollar question .... " i dont see y u want me as a friend..... and i cant fake ne thg wch i dont feel " ....... can u pls give an advice how to get our friendship as earlier ? do i get her friendship back ?
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edit-you said thanks my dear friend so that makes me wonder what you consider friendship?
if she wrote that then she doesnt value your friendship that much and its not worth it.well if answering that question causes you to be false then its not right to be friends if you cant answer her then maybe you shouldnt be friends. your very lucky that meeting someone turned out that well over the net and i wouldnt test your luck.
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Well talking online and talking in person are two very different things. I dont meant to hurt your feelings or anything, but it sounds to me like she just doesnt want to be friends, and you cant make her. You can tell her how you feel and what your friendship means, and leave it at that, and see what she says.
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Two Possibilites:
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This girl's a bitch or she feels horrible about herself and seriously doesn't understand "why you want her as a friend."
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If it's the first one, hate to sound so blunt, but...
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screw her. Focus on your other friends.
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If it's the second one, tell her you're always willing to listen if she wants to talk. Say that you enjoy the talks you have together, and you can't imagine givin those up.
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Now, you've known her for six months, so you should be the best judge of whether it's the first or second option.
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Hope I helped!
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