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My name is Christina. I love to help people out&give advice. :]
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I know this is the wrong catergory but my hair gets gross feeling easily. I straighten it & I wash it twice a week. But my hair gets so nasty feeling after like the 2nd day. But if I wear a headband then I can wear my hair down but it still looks kinda bad. & If I wear it without a headband i cant wear it down all week cuz it'll get nasty looking & feeling. & Im thinking of getting sidebangs sooner or later. So my question is how can i wear my hair down & have it feeling nice & silky until i wash my hair again ? Do you have any products I can use ? Thanks for the help
You should probably wash your hair more often. You're really supposed to wash it every other day.. so I think that's the problem. Also my friend told me this trick that when your hair is greasy, to rub baby powder into the top of it. I've never tried it .. but I guess it's worth a try. Just make sure you don't replace that with washing your hairrr. Hope I helped :]
There's this guy from my clique who likes to irritate me. But anyway, he makes fun of everyone. I'm rather close to him as in like I can talk to him. Both of us belong to the same clique and I guess i can talk to him pretty well as compared to the rest in my clique.
Recently, he kept criticising bout me. Whenever he knows a guy is interested in me, he'd be like "What?! He has really bad taste". There's this other guy who was interested in me and he happens to know that guy as well. So he was telling me "Ya, anyway, he has really bad taste. His favourite girls from the FHM magazine are all not nice."
And he likes to put me down, saying for eg "everyone in our class is quite pretty.. except for ___(my name)"
And when i just randomly told him that someone said i look like one of the girls from a pop group,(the girl is a tomboy) he'd say "ya , people say that you look like the ugly lesbian part of her right?"
And I'd be like OK FINE! just what the hell is your problem. Can someone tell me just what the heck is he doing cos he's really pissing me off a lot. And it's not like he's so handsome ok! He's not handsome at all! And I'll be like yeah what right do you have to criticise people's appearance.
He actuallyy might like you. Chances are if he teases you about your looks.. he probably actually think's you're pretty. Especially if you tell him that a certain guy likes you - that probably got him jealous and he was just making fun of you. Hope I helpedd. :]
(not sure if this is in the right category, if not SORRY!) anyway my big problem is i had my FIRST ever period on July 5th, and i havn't had it since! i'm really really worried. and i've never had sex so it wouldn't be that i'm pregnant. (i'm 14)
also, i'm pretty sure it was a period and not my hymen broke. because it lasted for 4 days.
please help me, i've been worried since august 20th! thanks.
Don't worry about it. You're fine. When you first start to get your period, it's irregular for I think about two years. So if it's a little late, it's normal. :]
Is lipgloss, lipliner, eyeliner, eyeshadow, mascara, foundation, and concealer too much for a 10th grader?
I haven't seen other girls wear this much makeup.
Is this too much makeup for my age? [15]
It's not caked on or anything... I'm just wanting your opinion.
If it's all neutral colors and kindof matches your face&isn't all caked on your face, then it's all not too bad. But if you have like hot pink lipgloss and like red lipliner and blue eyeshadow.. then yeah it's too much. I think maybe lipliner may be a but much... but it really depends on the color. Just make sure you don't loaddd it all on. Hope I helpedd :]
i need to think of three leaders that are or were effective.
please help me, because i can only come up with hitler, because even though he was effective, he was a bad man..
http://business.nmsu.edu/~dboje/teaching/338/great_leaders_list.htm#adventure
http://www.time.com/time/time100/leaders/index.html
There's a lot thereee.
Hope I Helpedd :]
[14/f]
when i was 12 i noticed the hair on my arm was growing and there was more of it, so i figured i could get rid of it the same way i get rid of my leg hair, by shaving it. Well I did and I regret it now because the hair keeps growing back darker and thicker and I have to keep shaving them since its so dark. Is there anything I can do to stop the hairs from growing in as dark and thick as they are? Or am I screwed for life?
If you keep shavingg your arms it'll probably keep growing thicker & darker. You could try bleaching your arm hair so it doesn't appear as dark, and maybe wax it. But I don't really recommend to keep shaving it. Hope I Helpeddd :]
tomorrow im getting acrillic nails. but how much does it usually cost?
Betweeen $20-$30.. Maybe a little more or less.
I really want to get my cartiledge peirced. I've asked my mom about it and she said I could get it done, but it hurts like a mother for a long time. (Then again she did it herself when she was 17.) Which one do you think is better to use a shot gun (you can just get done with it), or a needle (this way you won't have all the pain at once, but it will take longer)? I know either way it will hurt but how much? My mom also told me a piece of your cartiledge comes out, is that true? If I do do it then I will go to a real place, not somewhere like Claire's.
Any help is appreciated!
I reallyy don't recommend getting your cartilige pierced with a gun. You aren't supposed to; but I got my cartilige pierced with a gun & it barelyy hurt. It just had a little bit of pressure. I got it done 3 years ago & I haven't had any problems with it. I guess that using needles are a lot better for piercings.. here's some with some information..
http://www.ladygodivas.ca/piercing_information%20pg%202.htm
http://www.infinitebody.com/gallery/ear/earcart.html
http://www.teenhelp.org/groups/archive/index.php/t-7291.html
As for where to go, I'm not really sure where you live.. so you could try using a phone book and look for some piercing parlors. If you want a really good one, you could try to see if you know anyone else with their cartilige pierced already and ask where they went and if they recommend it.
If you get anything pierced I'm guessing that only a reallyy tiny piece of skin or cartilige or whatever will come out. But I'm not positive.
Hope I Helped :]
age:13
gender:female
school is starting for me tomorrow and i need some advice on how to take on people who make fun of me.the school i go to is 7-12 graders combined in one school.and theres one perticular guy i can't stand.his name is nick and i used to have a crush on him.but then i found out he was a real jerk.now he makes fun of me saying i wouldn't date you in a million years.and when he would pass me he would make a barfing noise.and he makes fun of me and my bf cause we're such an odd couple.people say he's a freak and everything.he makes very rude remarks about us.and i can't just ignore it cause i've done that before and he doesn't stop.and i want to tell him off but i don't know how.my sister has stuck up for me for years but now i can barely see her so i have to face him alone.what do i do?
sorry this is long.
Hmmm.. Immature much? He sounds like a biggg jerk. What you should try to do is do NOT show that you're irritated, mad, or upset. If you show that he'll probably think he's winning and he'll keep bugging you because he thinks its funny. But if you show that you don't care he'll give up and probably stop bugging you. Just ignore him... he's a jerkk&very immature may i add. :]
Does anyone have any ideas on how to keep a relationship fresh? Like what activities could be done(expensive and inesxpensive)? I need help because I don't want my realationship to fall apart.
Don't see eachother every single day. Me and my boyfriend only see eachother maybe 2 times a week at the most. You'll appreciate eachother more and realize how much you really miss eachother, so seeing eachother will be special. For activities.. one day you could just stay home & watch a movie. You could make a small bonfire another time. You could go to the movies, and maybe next time maybe try to double date with another friend. You could go to a fair or a carnival if there's one during that time. You could go to the park, or have a picnic. You could go to the mall, either to just walk around or to look at stuff. You could go to a party together or a get together with friends. You could try minigolfing or go-karts. You could give eachother little gifts every once in awhile.. those are alwaysss fun. ahahah Umm, and of course try to talk on the phone maybe everyday- it doesn't have to be a 3 hour long conversation. Just as long as you're checking up on eachother. There's a lottt of things you could do togetherr. Hope I helpedd :]
You know what they all say "When you give a guy all he wants, he gets bored quickly." What are some examples of that phrase? like what are you not supposed to give all he wants? I've been dying to know what they exactly mean by that.
Thx =)
I kinda think it may have something to do with sex. Like if a girl is dating a guy for a few weeks and they move fast and they have sex... he will get bored eventually of doing the same thing over and over again and end up dumping her; vs. if they waited to see if it was worth it, and moved slowly.. the guy has something to look forward to. It's like when you see a shirt in a store that you reallyy want.. and then once you take it home, and wear it a few times.. it kind of loses it's glow. It's not as special once you have it. I guess I mean that it's kind of nice to want things, and not to always have everything.. you'll always have something to look forward to. Sorryy this was really long but it was kinda hard to explain it. hahaha Hope I helpeddd :]
what are love handles?
Love handles are the fat that is on your sides&sometimes tend to hang off the sides of your pants. hahaha, Hope I helpeddd :]
sorry if this is long but i really need advice ok i live with my dad, and i need to get bras, i need/want a cupped bra, but
1. i don't know wat size i am and i dont know how to figure it out.
2. and i dont know which 1 would be right for me
i would like to have 1 regular sports bra, 1 regular cupped bra, and 1 sports bra that is sorta cupped. how many bras do you think i should need? how do i get those bras with my dad?
as much advice as possible plz help me!! thx
You could try out this website;
http://www.kidzworld.com/site/p950.htm
I know if you go into Limited Too there's like a tape measure in the dressing room & it gives you instructions to figure out what size you are.
If you go with your dad, just tell your dad you can figure it out by yourself, and look around for one while he goes and looks around for stuff for himself. It shouldn't be too bad. You could ask him for money ahead of time & you can check out yourself.
I hope I helped :]
PLEASE HELP IS NEEDED AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.
14/f- lives with mom, aunt, grandma, grandpa, dog.
today i went over to celebrate my 2 month anni with my boyfriend. we were going to go swimming and then out to dinner at the mexican resturant guatalajara. my mom dropped me off about 11am. about 2pm we get a phone call at his house saying that my grandpa was mad and wanted me home at 5:30. i asked if i could stay later so we could eat dinner. he said flat out no and that he was going to pick me up right away. i was lke then can you wait til 5:30. he said no. my mom came to pick me up from his house in tears. he had pushed her out the door to pick me up. once we got home, we yelled an cussed at he which led up to him hitting me, my mom, and my aunt, who had to separate me from my grandpa. he hurt my aunt and broke 2 of my mom's fingers. the reason he is so mad is cuz i was out with a boy. just that. nothing else. he yelled at me and told me to move out. like he wants me out on the street without a home.
does he have the right to hit me like that? why would he be so mad that i was out with a boy? what should i do? should i tell someone that he hit me, enough to possibly cause a bruise? what should i do?
Wow.. That's completely wrong. He had no right to hurt you, and two other family members. Maybe he needs help. You shouldn't be hit by your own grandpa just because you're going out with a boy. You should maybe tell a guidance counselor and ask what you should do. Maybe your grandpa has a problem and he can't help how he reacted. Sorryyy that I wasn't really a help//I just don't know how someone could react like that to just dating. Hope I helped & sorry you had to deal with this .. :\
I had volleyball try-outs for 8 hours, and my legs are so sore fromdoing conditioning that I can hardly move. The problem is, I have more try-outs on Monday. Any tips to recover beforehand? I am so sore, and I desperately need to get better.
Make sure you stretch reallllyy good before & after practice& at home if you're still hurting. ++icy hot. Hope I helped :]
So, I have a few LEGO peices I Sharpied back when I was dumb, and I wanna get rid of the marks now. Can anyone please tell me how to get rid of the marks? Like, what to use, how much of it, where to get it, etc.
Thanks,
-Fyce
PS: Here's the link to the type of sharpie.
http://www.sharpie.com/sanford/consumer/sharpie/productcatalog/tipfamilydetail.jhtml?attributeId=SNATT_SUP_9200006¤tType=SNTYPE004
I'm not positive this will work, but maybe try using hand sanatizer. I know that the little girl my mom babysits colored all over our computer screen & my brother just rubbed hand sanatizer all over it and it came off really easily. It's worth a tryyy. Hope I helped:]
I have a diloacating knee cap its really gross i know i goes "out" when i run or kick or stand on one leg sometimes. I wear strong knee braces but this past weekend it did it while i was wearing them. My mom thinks i need to get surgury and so do i but we disagree when, she thinks it should be before soccer season so I don't injure it further, and i think i should do it after so I don't have to miss the season (I am a starting forward for varsity) When do you think would be the best time for me to get it?
Thanks
You should probably talk to your doctor to see how serious your condition is. I know it'll suck reallyyy bad to have to miss a soccer season because of a knee injury [it happened to me this year :\], but if you wait, you may be out of soccer for even more than just a season. So basically I suggest that you just discuss it with your doctor to see what he thinks. :] Hope I helped.
ok so i'm 13 and everytime i start to make friends with a guy i end up likeing him and i like having guy friends cause i dont know it's different but how can i have guy friends without likeing them???? is this normal ??
Yes it's normal, don't worry about it. If you get close to a guy & end up being good friends at 13, than you probably will end up liking them. Don't worryyy about it. :]
hey I give and get advice from this site all the time but i dont know how to look at the answers to the questions I asked like a couple of days ago help?
Under Welcome,____(your username)____ it says Your Questions. Click on that and there are the questions you asked. You can click on the question to look at the answers. Hope I helped. :]
13/f this may sound stupid, but i really don't like braces, they gross me out and soon I have to get braces. I know theres pretty much no way i can get out of them, and i can't use invisiline or anything. the only thing that will work for me are real metal braces. Is there a color or something that will make it look less gross? And is there a way that I could make the whlole braces process go quicker. Any tips or just anything about braces would be greatly appreciated.
Try not to use like white, or gray.. they tend to change colors with your food and they start to look dirtyy. Try using maybe a darker color like hot pink or navy blue..etc. There's not really a way to speed up the process, but I know if goes by faster if you make sure you go to every appointment when they're scheduled and to follow all instructions, cuz if you don't it actually adds a few more months on. Hope I helped! :]