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okay i know how to make myspace layouts and stuff but i wanna make one sorta like this site http://whateverlife.com/animatedlayouts.php the heart breaking one but i dont hav animation shop and i dont wanna download anything...is there anyway when i put the backround image on for the layout that i can make it move by using a marquee or something? will rate fives for anything (link)
well HTML is not necessarily my forte, but if you know codes, then you could probably read through it and find the codes for the background and alter them. It may take a while, but if you're patient then you might be able to find it. If you don't know HTML codes very well, then I don't know how to help you. I very mildly know them so I wouldnt' exactly know what to tell you to do, especially since i don't know exactly what you want. But you may be able to find a website full of HTML codes and such to find out how to do it. Or if you have a friend who's good at it, that always works.
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this isn't a question, it's a request-but please don't delete it.
Can people please stop finishing every answer with "hope i helped" obviously you hope you helped, and whether you say that or not doesn't change whether you actually DID help. please, for everyones sake just answer the question! (link)
well, not everyone really hopes they helped, not to be rude to anyone else. We take our time to give the best advice we can (well, most of us) and it is a sign of politeness and respect. Sure, people don't have to take our advice and we could be completely wrong, so adding "hope i helped" makes it much more sincere. I'm sorry that you have a problem with it, but i respect the people that i give advice to and i'm not going to lower my respect for them, so your opinion is your opinion, but those of us who use it use it for a reason possibly beyond you and that is fine, but we choose what we do and by choosing to do that, we are showing sincerety. So I'm sorry that you feel the way you do, but this is the way that I feel.


my boyfriend and i thought i was pregnant, because i forgot the last time i had my period. we were just laying together last night and he had his hand on my stomach and then he took his hand off like he took something out though, so i was like what are you doing? and he said your not pregnant anymore so then i said, what do you mean? and he said i prayed to god and told him we werent ready and to please take the baby away because you dont want a baby right now. and then he was saying id have my period soon and that everything will be ok now. and, i got it this morning. yeah its a silly question but the only reason why im questioning it is because i did feel like i had a little person in me and that i loved it, and as crazy as it sounds..i actually felt like i missed it like it actually was gone after he said all that. so my question is, is that even possible god could have done that? (link)
Well, since you haven't given your religion, i can only go by mine. It really depends on your belief system. For me, i don't believe it could have been done. I'm agnostic, so I believe in a higher power (or powers), but I don't really believe that there is this all knowing god to plays with us like we're made out of clay or something like that (okay, stupid analogy). But anyway, If you believe that it did, then it may have. It really has a lot to do with what you believe because nothing can be proved. I do believe that your feelings were true and if thats the way you feel, go with your insticts and your gut feeling. Its more about you than about anyone else so no one can really answer this question but you. You have to look inside yourself to figure out what you truly believe.
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I have this best friend and we have been friends for 11 years. Well she is kinda hard to buy for durring the holidays. She never really say what she likes and what she doesnt. I know her realyy well but when it comes to buying gifts its hard. Most years i can find something good and it works out but this year i coulnt. I had no clue what to get her, but her favorite store is american egale. So worst came to worst and got her a giftcard to there for 30$. Is that a bad gift? We have been friends for so long a gift card seems unthoughful. I feel like a bad friend. (link)
I personally love gift cards. The problem with my figure is that I'm kind of halfway in a dancer's body and halway more of a singer's body, so its awkward. I have large ribs and no boobs so its hard to find clothes that fit right, especially when someone else gets something for you. I like gift cards because then it shows that the person thought about where to get it (especially if you got it from her favorite store) and you can pick out exactly what you want and in your size. It even gives you guys more time together if you were to go shopping together. All in all, i think its a great idea.
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I have horrible acne, I just started going to the dermatologist. They told me to wash my face in the morning and at night, and then put on different creams after im done washing. They also gave me a pill. Which by the way, none of this stuff works, but it's all that's left.

Anyways, in the morning after I put the cream on, i need to wear foundation, but when i put it on over the cream it turns into this MESS! the foundation seperates itself from the zits. I'm dry and flakey too, but moisturizer just makes the flakes greasy. HELP!!!!!!!!! (link)
my suggestion is to talk to your dermatologist again and avoid wearing concealor. I don't really wear it and my skin is much better. The concealor clogs up your pores and makes your acne worse, even though you're trying to cover it up. Go back to the dermatologist and try to get a type that works better. They'll work with you to find what works.
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weird question..whats too high to wear your pants, like anywhere past your bellybutton?



no i don't wear them that high =P (link)
there isn't really a "too high" though wearing them too high can be irritating. It is basically whatever makes you comfortable. I happen to wear low rise jeans and I roll down my dance pants and such because i really don't like them up very high, but it's all about personal preference.
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do u have to use itunes to put music on your ipod? and if not how do i do it
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if its an Ipod rather than MP3 player, then yes. I haven't seen anything else that you can use. Its very simple and you don't have to give out your information. If you just download it, you can get things off of CDs and create a library. Then, you can't buy songs, but you can still put things that you already own on your ipod.
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i keep hearing this song and i love it.

its on that nike and ipod nano commercial thing and it's called "Here it goes again"

whats the artist? (link)
if we're thinking of the same song, i believe its by OK Go. Look up the lyrics and see if its the same, but I like that song.


I'm chines n I can't seem to find makeup that goes with my complexion and makes me look nice. My mother wears purple eyeshadow and violet lipstick and it really brings out her fetures and everthing but not on me. any suggesions (link)
Well, makeup is hard for everyone. I think your best bet is to go and talk to a professional. At your local mall there should be counters such as MAC or Estee Lauder. I suggest Estee Lauder, they're really good. MAC is good too, but they have really heavy makeup. You can try multiple ones and see. But Estee Lauder will most likely make you up so you can see it and you won't have to pay for them to do it, at MAC, you will. Ask them what are good colors for you. If you want to bring out your eyes or smooth out your facial features. Estee Lauder workers tend to be very nice and helpful too. So, if your more into softer colors, go for Estee Lauder. If you really like the darker colors or brighter colors, then check out MAC. It's all in personal taste, so you should probably shop around. If theres a Nordstrom nearby, they have a lot of makeup counters or you can try a Sephora(


ok so me and my boyfriend have tried having sex once before but it hurt really bad and a few other things happened and it just didn't work out completely. my question is, are there any way i can make it hurt less?
he fingers me right before and says im wet/relaxed enough but then as soon as he tried to put his penis in he couldnt, even though i felt i was relaxed too. also, the few times he did get in it hurt really really bad, i get that it's supposed to but are there any ways to make it hurt less?
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It's natural for it to hurt the first time. Your body isn't used to the action of it and it has never experienced that before. It is a very common, i know very few people who didn't have it hurt the first time. It really depends on the person, but it will probably hurt a few more times. After a while, you get used to it, but right now, it will probably hurt. I don't really know what might make it hurt less. Maybe going slower or using some type of lubricant. Other than that, if he is very...well endowed, then that is probably one of the reasons why it hurts a lot.
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haha okay this sounds wicked gayy but like you know how if your spanish when you have a baby and you speak spanish it picks up that language and then like if you move to ameica and they speak english they know how to speak both? well like if there is a baby raised by wolfes does it understand how to speak to animals? cus my dad told me that they found someone raised by wolves and they had to teach him how to be a human when he was like 7 and i want to know if anyone knows who this is becasue i want to know if like he could still speak to wolfes i looked it up on google but got nothing


i rate high please help [: (link)
well, babies don't just pick up languages, they're taught. So if a family only speaks spanish, then they'll teach the baby spanish, just as if a family speaks english, they'll teach the baby english. As far as talking to animals, he probably could. It would have been what he learned. He probably wouldn't know what he was saying and i doubt animals would've understood him, but he probably mimicked them, having been around it. I'm not really sure who it is that you're referring to because i never heard about that, but thats what i know about languages.
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My mom wants me to visit a gynecologist...but I'm scared...(and I'm only 14!)..
Will my doctor tell my mom that I'm not a virgin??
...I dont want my mom to know yet... because I am too young for it...and she won't trust me!!
Does my mom have to be in the room with me??
And since she wants me to go does this mean she thinks I'm sexually active?(even though I am)
I'm scared...HELP!! thanks. (link)
no, your mother does not have to be in the room with you. You can ask her if she can wait in the waiting room, and if she insists, just tell the gynecologist and they will help you. As far as telling your mother, there is a doctor/patient confidentiality, so no, they can't legally tell your mother, especially if you tell them not to. Who knows what goes through parents minds, but just make sure that you are careful. Also, if you don't feel comfortable talking about it with your mother, you probably aren't ready. I think that you should probably wait before having sex again, especially since you seem to think you're too young for it, which, in my opinion, i think you are, but thats just me. IF you believe you are, then by all means, go for it, your life is filled with decisions and this is one, but i think you need to really evaluate why you are doing it and if you're really ready. But, you still don't have to tell her, just talk to the doctor about it and everything should work out.
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i had a blackhead/pimple on the crease of my nose, like in the little dent/dip where my nose touches my face. anyways i picked at it and now it's become a scab, but it's big and ugly, should i pick it to make the scab go away? or not. and what can i do to make it go away without making it worse?
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well, first off, popping pimples and such isnt' the best for your face. I do it, and its horrible, but it actually makes them last longer, so in the future, if you're able to refrain, just keep washing your face and it should go away soon. as far as right now, i doubt that if you pick off the scab it will get any better. Its good to just leave it alone. You can always put some concealor or some other thing on it so its less noticeable and now that its a scab, neosporin is a good option, but i think its best to just leave it alone right now.
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im in 8th grade.
everybody has a fav. teacher in every grade. but the teacher i think is my fav. i thik i might be a lill obsessed over. i see her as a friend but still as a teacher i tell her almost everything, and sometimes she interested and nice to me and some other days she wont listen to me and tell me im annoying. and once she told me that if she looked at me for too long she would throw up. and im not ugly and she said it in front of the whole class.

i totally see her more as a friend or like an aunt or sumthing.
since she told me i was annoying and insulted should i just leave her alone and treat her like anyother teacher?? it will be like losing a friend thow. (link)
if she is saying things to you like that, you don't need to just stay away from her, you should tell someone. If she was saying it in a joking way (I know my history teacher jokes a lot) then you might be fine, otherwise, it sounds like you should talk to an administrator because things like that are not right to be said, especially in middle school. Right now, it seems like, she might be having some of her own issues and i think you should just back off. I know there are some teachers that are amazing to talk to, but she doesn't seem to be one of them. See what happens in the future and then make a final decision, but this just doesn't sound right to me, though i had an abusive teacher in 6th grade, so that could be why.
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what is a "butterface" ? Ive heard a guy refer to a girl in my school as one. He said she had a nice body but a butterface..what does that mean?? (link)
It sounds like he's saying that she has a nice body, thin or whatever, but that she has a chubby face. I'm not exactly sure on that one, but thats what it seems like. Maybe she has chubby cheeks or something like that, but thats what i think it means, though i'm not entirely sure. I've never really heard that term before.
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i bought my boyfriend an ipod nano for christmas and it doesnt have the installation CD or anything like my mini does.. i was going to help him set it up but how do i do it? just plug the ipod in to the comp. after he downloads itunes and it`ll automatically start or what ?? (link)
yes, i have the nano and thats what i did. THere should be directions in the box, just in case, but i didn't get a CD either. You just plug it in and itunes will pop up and you can start working with it.
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ok i have a nokia 6101 with t-mobile and im trying to send a picture from my phone to my email address and it keeps saying message sending failed or something like that...why is this happening? could it be that im sending too many pictures? in the past week ive sent 5 to my computer this is my 6th...can someone please help me! thank you very much xox (link)
usually, i know on my phone it is, that if the message is failed, that you don't have good reception. If its worked previously, then thats probably it. Otherwise, you may have run out of picture texts(though i doubt it) or your computer might just be being a pain. Sometimes if you send a lot, it decides not to let you. Wait a little and try again. IF it still doesn't work, go to a t-mobile store or kiosk and talk to them about it.
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i've had sex once
when i have it again
even though i popped my cherry the first time
could i still bleed the second time?
and will it hurt again



wb :) xo (link)
It is possible to bleed again, yes. It doesn't mean that anything is wrong, it just means that your body still isn't used to it because its a new concept. If it bleeds a lot and doesn't stop, then thats when you have a problem and should check up on it with a doctor. Otherwise, you should be fine and bleeding may be minor or not even there. As far as hurting, it will probably still hurt. THe first few times it will hurt because, again, your body isn't used to it. After a while, you'll be fine.
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Ok..I'm a redhead 15/F and i really like this guy. Well he seemed to be diggen me or whatever soo one night i texted to see if he wanted to do something tom. He texted me back and said he is not attracted to redheads and that if i like him more than that than its not gonna work because he doesnt like me. I was heart broken. I mean red hair is kind of rare and i mean im not ugly at all..and i dont have the pale skin like one either. I look a little different but still i have red hair. My question is..in your opinion is red hair ugly and why dont guys like red hair? (link)
red hair is certainly not ugly and that guy is a jerk. He seems really shallow to me. Don't even think about what he said. If he can't see past appearance and see whats inside, then he's not worth it. Find someone who you like who likes you back and isn't just in it for looks. Also, don't get someone who is with you only because of your looks. Guys are stupid and teenage guys are worse so just stick it out. If this guy is a possible friend, then stick with that, otherwise, don't give him a second thought, he's not worth it.
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I have a boyfriend that i "like." i've been going out with him for a month. And even though he understands my beliefs and opinions, I'm starting to feel that we are more likefriends. But the problem is, i've recently met a guy who i could see actually being with. But he thinks my religion his as he puts it "Bulls__t". Should I dump my understanding boyfriend for my new possible lover? (link)
Well, if you still like your boyfriend, then you should stay with him. Dumping one guy for another is never the right option because if you do that, then it will probably be done to you, and usually by the person that you dumped the boyfriend for. The other guy sounds like a jerk anyway. If he can't understand your beliefs and the way that you think, then he's not worth a thought of yours. Maybe give it some time. If things end up not working out with your current, then you can look into a new guy, and if its meant to happen, then you'll end up with him. Otherwise, something else much better will come along.
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