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Hey im a freshman in High school, and would love to help you with any questions you have about life and dont worry all if this is confadetial.
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I love dancing, that is my thing (even though i am not the best at it...), i feel like i am free and that what ever i do it is all good and no one will judge that. I also am am into art, mostly 3-D, i love working with clay and doing models out of ne thing. I am also involved with the drama department at our school. My first year at dawson my friends got me hooked, and im not saying that is a bad thing.

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there is this girl that is obsessed with me at school. Before I even knew her she knew all of my classes, and now I see her ever time I turn around. After talking with her for only 5 min she said that her mom wanted to meet me. After she said that if freaked me out alittle and she was also saying bad things about one of my friends she I ignore her when I see her. Now she is applying at the place I work and I like someone body else that works there but it is going to be akward have her there. What can I do so she leaves me alone.

This is a tuffy... You should tell her how you feel and that you dont feel the same for her, she might be heart broken but you dont want it to interfear with you relationship with you girl at your work. IF, she still is hanging around you then you might want to consider just being friends with her, who knows you might end up likeing her. but i would not sugest it because she does not sound like the best girlfriend. Hope i helped! good luck and dont be to harsh. :)

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im a columnist... and it is way easier to give advice to other ppl then to urself..so can u guys help me out wit this one!! i have been friends with this guy for 3 years.. and the entire three years i have been in love with him... but now im confused b/c i think he is starting to like me again.. but the thing is is im moving on the day after turkey day... and im really gonna miss him.. more then he knows.. i just wish could figure out a way to tell him i love him before i leave.. but wait there is more... he talks to me and tries to get advice on this gurl and i get all shy and stuff cuz i dont wanna help him get a date w/ anuther girl... today he thought it was gonna be the last time he was gonna see me for a while so he hugged me and it was a really long hug.. like the one u give ur b/f when he is leaving for a week.. i started crying and he just gave me a kiss on the cheek and i went home.. now do u think he likes me...

p.s he told my friend last summer..sometimes he does and sometimes he dont... any help on what that might mean...

right no i think he is confused, but all he needs is alittle push. go up to him before you move and tell him. he needs to no otherwise you will be wishing you told him(make sure you tell him in person!). IF, he ends up not likeing you it is no biggy, you might feel sad for a little while. but you can keep in contact with him, and make sure he knows the real you and he will see how much he misses you. i feel he likes you girl so just go for it! good luck and dont be nervice! hope i helped!

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alrighty..well I am 14 and a female & I have this really good guy friend but a few months ago I started feeling differently about him..I told one of my friends and of course she had a big mouth and everyone knew..including him*. So he started being a jerk around me and just ignored me so I figured two could play that game & I just got really pissed at him. I was really hurt that he would ever treat me like that. So then, about 2 weeks later we were all hanging out together like usual but it felt really awkward between me and him. So he pulled me aside and we talked everything out & the only reason why he wasnt talking to me was bcuz the person I told that I liked him went back and told him that I absolutely hated him and never wanted to talk to him again..so yea..we hugged and made up all was well..and I also found out that he liked me too...and from what I know..he still does and so do I..but a few weeks ago he told everyone he was gonna ask me out that night but he never showed..i didn't want to start anything again so I just dropped it, but my friend didnt she told him that he didnt know how to treat girls and he wasnt boyfriend material. This bothered him..I would know bcuz I'm the one he came to and he also wanted to make sure he wasnt being a jerk to me...I know he cares about me and I want to be more than friends but hes too scared to make the move..and my theory is that guys should be the one to make the 1st move..what should i do? this has been going on for too long now.

People in this world feels that men should make the first move, but that is not true at all. Girls are affraid of being rejected but so are guys. so just go for it, if you no he likes you! he is worth it if you want to get to no him better. otherwise if you dont feel comfortable making the first move just keep acting the way you are he seems to like that. he will sooner or later feel it is the right time and ask you out. but dont wait for him, dont be shy. Good luck, i hope i helped.

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how do u get colors on ur background and pix and stuff.. email me at shorty730@msn.com (please make the subject advice columnist or summtin ill know so i dont delete it) or just reply to this.. PLEASE AND THANX ill rate with a good answer=)

Go into columb settings on the side bar (it is neer the bottom). then there are diffrent places to go to, to make you column pritty. such as, approved public styles, press preview and you can see how your site will look with thoughs diffrend designs. or your column colors, you can go to the ready made backgrounds and copy the html then paste it in the box labled Page background image (URL):. have fun with your site be creative! hope i helped, ask me if you have any more questions!

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theres this one kid on my bus and hes mexican. i have nothing agains mexicans but he is really annoying. but i feel bad 4 him kas he gets harrasses so bad on the bus. every one makes fun of him. i laugh at it sometimes because it is a little funny but i still feel bad. what can i do to stop them frim makin fun of him?

i have the same problem at my school. there is nothing you can do. this kid brings it appound himself. you need to not get envoled, because if you stick up for him once you never no if he will start haning around with you all the time. dont stress about it. hope i helped!

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omg i have tried ban, teen spirit, secret, and dove deodarants and none work for me! does anyone have any that work for them that may work for me? cuz i am tired of my shirt be wet from sweat underneath my armpits, and being afraid that someone is gonna see it...plz help!

for now wear thiker close so it will not show. Then go to your doctor and ask them. it might be embaressing but girl believe me it will be worth it!

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What should I wear to a dance? It's not formal. I am a blonde with green/blue eyes and pale skin. I'll rate high. :-)

hey chica you should wear a strapless green (not lime) dress so it will bring out your eyes(green blue eyes are so prity) then if you want to dress it down since it is not formal i would wear a pare of jeans. as for your make- up use a light blush, light blue/green eye shadow (not to heavy) and eyeliner! then you should curl your hair. that would be so cute! good luck and have fun. hope i helped.

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Ok..so me and my boyfriend haven't been in this relationship very long. I really like him, but he doesn't go to my school, we both aren't good phone talkers, and he doesn't have AIM (to my knowledge). I want this relationship to last. How can we spend time together? [BTW..our parents don't know we're dating and they don't exactly allow us to date yet even though were both like 15]

if you dont want your parents to no that you are dating then just ask them to drop you off at the movies and you are meeting some friends there (by the way i am not encuriging this behavior, just giving sugjestions). or just download aim of the computer! here is the site it is kinka long, https://my.screenname.aol.com. Good luck! hope i helped.

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13/f
I always look at the people around me, happy with their boyfriend or girlfriend. I sort of want a boyfriend, but sometimes it doesn't feel like it's the right time. I have a few guy friends, but not many. I don't hang out with any guys after school. There's one guy friend that I talk to a lot, but I don't like him like that (and he has a girlfriend anyway). So I need advice on what to do? I know you will all say "You're only 13 you don't need a boyfriend", or "Just wait until the right time, he'll come", but..I just feel so lonely sometimes, and I want to know that someone will always be there for me.

it is realy up to you to try to get more friends. you have to put yourself out there and be ready to be rejected once or twice but you will soon get the hang of it! and no you are not to young to date. i consider it just haveing a boy that you are really good friends with. if that does not work dont try to look at other couples you have your friends to look after you! good luck and dont be shy! hope i helped you.

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What would you do if your boyfriend that you really like hates your best friend, and he cursed her out for no apparent reason? What would you do? This is my situation. please help. I will rate!

Ok you may like this guy, but if he does not respect your choice in friends then i would dump him he is not worth it. or talk to him and make him listen, if that does not work dump him. good luck. hope i help!

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my mother 2 months ago got married, to a man she met over one of those dating websites, hes from england, and in the one week he came over to visit, they married. he left for a couple a weeks, and now he will be here till january. hes been here for 2 months so far, and hes annoying my mom, (me also) and he won't pull his weight, and hes not helping with bills or anything, so now my mom said if he doesn't bring in his money for a job he got then shes divorcing him in january. well with that now said how do i explain to my friends, that now i prolly wont be going to england, and that my mom is going to be divorcing the man that she recently married, and met over the internet... its put so much stress on me about my mom coming to talk to me about how she can't stand him, and my grades are slipping and shes mad about that, but she doesn't realize shes putting it on me... what do i do?

-sometimes im miserable, but thats so typical-
-but of all the things i am-
-i am beautiful-

just tell your friends that your mom thought she married a diffrent person, and that they might not be able to compramize with each others diffrences. They are your freinds and they should still like you if you were going to england or not. Good luck! Hope i helped.

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HEy uh i love this girl but im afraid to tell her.I told her once that i liked her but she seemed to dislike me even more and all her freinds hate me.What should i do?

I feel you should first get to know this girl before you decide you love her. Start a convorsation with her so she can see taht you are a good person. become friends then go from there. but dont chace her off again by saying you love her. good luck! hope i helped.

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do guys like it if girls ask them to dance or go out w/ them...ive always wondered. or does the guy have to do it all?

Girl the world is not rotating around a guys desision if he is shy go for it and if he is not then go for it. we have to get away from the idea that guys are the only ones that ask girls out! good luck and i hope i helped!

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hi, im 13/m i have this gf we started going out like 2 months ago and its been really cool and i really like her alot but now i found out shes been smokin pot and drinken and shes only 13 though it was her first time it was kinda shocking cuz i expectede more from her i still like her but i sont kno if i wanna handle this i dont know what to do should i keep going out with her.

If you realy have feeling for her you should try to help her. i am not saying that it is going to be easy but she is worth it! and if she likes you she will take everything you say to heart. try to work through it. at this age there is so many good and bad things to try out unfortunetly she chose the wrong thin... just help her. I hope i helped.

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my mother is very unhappy about her figure and she wishes to hide it. Are there any specific colors she can wear to make her look thinner? If So Please HELP!! Shes always so unhappy. Thanks!!

omg! black black black. or darker colores like brown or dark red! also vertical strips help make the body look thiner! (not horizontal!) I hope i helped!!

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Ok, I have this friend who I've known since like kindergarden, and she started to hang out with the people who I absolutly despise. They (I'm sure of) are using her, just to get back at me. Becasue they hate me to. So one of the girls she is haging out with, started to call me a Lesbian because me and my friend (who is a girl) were walking down the hallway locked arms (which I think is harmless). So my friend started to belive it. I thought she knew me well enough to know I'm not. I love boys I flirt with boys not girls! OMG she got me so mad. Well anyway the rumors stoped because I set everyone straight, but my firned is acting like nothing happened! She didn't even apoligesed to my face! How am I supposed to deal with such a back-staber!?. Plus I don't want to loose her as a friend. But right now, we are kinda on the edge of ending the friendship! PLEASE help!

ok girl you deseirve a better friends. from what you are telling me she is not a very good one, if she is taking the side of her "new" friends. There are alot of other people looking out for you! Dont even try to deal with her. if she want to still be friends with you then she can come to you and apoligize. hope i helped.

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hey im about 5'7 i have medium brown hair but then kind of light.. im pretty tan and i have green/brown eyes.. i want to find sum hairstyles and make that will make me look hott!..plz dont tell me look in magazines for hair.. plz explain a hair style to me and makeup.. thank you

or jus IM me at ulshxo

Natural look~
if you want a natural look with you tan skin then i would go for some lighter browns and maybe even some burgandies (dark red). Then for the hair you can expiriment with a curling iron or crimper or even some hair exesserise.

More fun look (this is what i think you are going for)~
To make all the eyes come to you i would use some greens or blues on your eyes (dont make it to dark!) for the blush i would use one that would match you skin color with alittle bit of pink (never use only pink blush it does not work). you may want to use think eyeliner dempending on you eye shape and deffinently use maskara! it will open up your eyes so all the guys will see your green eye color. As for the hair just have fun like i said before. hope i helped. IM me if you have anymore questions!

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my hair is straight...and up to my waist...all my friends have wavy hair nd always scrunch their hair..its reallie cute..but when i try doing mine it doesnt turn out right...like i'll put my hair in braids over night, take it owt nd use my aussie sprunch spray, but it just doesnt stay in..any advice?!

your hair prabably is to thick and long (to hevey to hole the curals), to hold curls. what you can do is go get a perm, they do not look fake at all. or if you dont want it to be permainate then you can just use a curaling iron. hope i helped and if that does not work just find your own cute styl! have fun.

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Last night i went to the movies with this guy i like. He didnt make a move on me so i desided to just hold his hand. Well after the movie he walked me to my car and i kissed his cheack good night. He texted me later and told me how hott i looked. I'm not really sure if he likes me or is just kinda using me. I want to be more than just friends with him, i want to be his girlfriend. But i dont know how to, what should i say to him or ask him to move to the next level?

you should just talk to him, get to know him more, find out if his intentionas are good ;-). from what you told me they do. then talk to him and tell him. guys dont always have to make the first move. guys are affraid of rejection as much a girls are. go for it girl! hope i helped.

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okay has anyone ever like put on coverup or something and it looks all flakey? is there anyway to make them go away or a certain way to put it on without it looking like that?

make sure before you put on cover-up you apply some creem on your face it will make it go on smoother! hope i helped.

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