im a columnist... and it is way easier to give advice to other ppl then to urself..so can u guys help me out wit this one!! i have been friends with this guy for 3 years.. and the entire three years i have been in love with him... but now im confused b/c i think he is starting to like me again.. but the thing is is im moving on the day after turkey day... and im really gonna miss him.. more then he knows.. i just wish could figure out a way to tell him i love him before i leave.. but wait there is more... he talks to me and tries to get advice on this gurl and i get all shy and stuff cuz i dont wanna help him get a date w/ anuther girl... today he thought it was gonna be the last time he was gonna see me for a while so he hugged me and it was a really long hug.. like the one u give ur b/f when he is leaving for a week.. i started crying and he just gave me a kiss on the cheek and i went home.. now do u think he likes me...
p.s he told my friend last summer..sometimes he does and sometimes he dont... any help on what that might mean...
sexyybrunette answered Tuesday November 23 2004, 12:12 pm: if i was him then i would have a hint that u either really like me or that ur gunna miss a really good friend. so it could be either one of those.. b4 u leave i think u should tell him how u felt about him, and if u ever do move back then maybe something could happen between you two. even if u dont move back, still let him know, cuz im sure he would be happy to know how u felt [ sexyybrunette's advice column | Ask sexyybrunette A Question ]
MedicatedSanity answered Tuesday November 23 2004, 7:30 am: aww... you gotta tell him... probaby person to person is best. Maybe you could knock on his door in the rain, cry, and when he sees you say "I love you.... I'm gonna miss you so much." Or something like that... You have to tell him... you don't want this hidden secret to go forever untold. [ MedicatedSanity's advice column | Ask MedicatedSanity A Question ]
jajakle answered Tuesday November 23 2004, 2:00 am: HELLO, WELL LETS DIG IN HERE, THE REAL ANSWER IS THAT YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH THIS GUY, WELL, GUYS SOMETIMES TO HAVE THE TENDENCY TO LET EMOTIONAL THINGS FLY OVER THERE HEAD, MEN DONT THINK ABOUT THINGS LIKE THAT ALL THE TIME, WELL, BEFORE YOU LEAVE YOU NEED TO LET HIM KNOW, DONT SIT OR PONDER ON THE QUESTION, WHAT IF, OR HE MIGHT... SOMETIMES... OK!!!! LIVING LIFE AS A PERSON WITH AN UNANSWERED OR UNASKED QUESTION, IS LIVING LIFE BLIND, A FULL OF FALSE HOPE.
IF YOU LOVE HIM, YOU LOVE HIM, IF YOU THINK YOU LOVE HIM, YOU LOVE HIM, I YOU KNOW THE TRUE HIM, YOU LOVE HIM, IF YOU KNOW YOURSELF, YOU'LL NEVER KNOW IF YOU WILL EVER GET TO LOVE HIM, FIND OUT FOR YOURSELF, COURAGE LIKE A LION [ jajakle's advice column | Ask jajakle A Question ]
Bigmouth247 answered Monday November 22 2004, 10:33 pm: right no i think he is confused, but all he needs is alittle push. go up to him before you move and tell him. he needs to no otherwise you will be wishing you told him(make sure you tell him in person!). IF, he ends up not likeing you it is no biggy, you might feel sad for a little while. but you can keep in contact with him, and make sure he knows the real you and he will see how much he misses you. i feel he likes you girl so just go for it! good luck and dont be nervice! hope i helped!
ilovejojo703 answered Monday November 22 2004, 10:18 pm: ok im a guy and no im not gay cause i just like helpin ppl and as u can see i have an obsession wit jojo but anyway....guys r dum they have no clue if u throwin hints so just tell and if he really likes u then your prob. is solved an if e dont just try to stay friends
superGiRL21 answered Monday November 22 2004, 10:06 pm: what it sounds like to me is that he's torn between liking you and not liking you. After all you are moving-i personally think he likes you but this is from an outsiders opinion so i don't know a whole lot about the situation. Maybe sometime this week you can make it a point to get together with him, for dinner, for lunch, or just to say good-bye. And be honest. Let him know what you are feeling for him and just pour it out-what have you got to lose? you're moving. At least now you can move without any regrets! And who knows-if he's really your perfect match you may run into him later in life when you least expect it-so savor the memories you have with him and move on for now. Stay strong-im so sorry you have to move when you finally find someone you like :0( Best of luck!!! [ superGiRL21's advice column | Ask superGiRL21 A Question ]
Lindsay answered Monday November 22 2004, 10:06 pm: i dont think he likes u but show him u do so kiss him like really kiss him the next time u c him
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