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I always look at the people around me, happy with their boyfriend or girlfriend. I sort of want a boyfriend, but sometimes it doesn't feel like it's the right time. I have a few guy friends, but not many. I don't hang out with any guys after school. There's one guy friend that I talk to a lot, but I don't like him like that (and he has a girlfriend anyway). So I need advice on what to do? I know you will all say "You're only 13 you don't need a boyfriend", or "Just wait until the right time, he'll come", but..I just feel so lonely sometimes, and I want to know that someone will always be there for me.
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Well I am kind of outgoing and all. But I would tell ur friends that and maybe they kno someone that is outside the skool that is lookin for a girlfriend. I dont kno maybe it will work!
Leah
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aww im sorry! i feel like that sometimes too bc im single at the moment.. im not gunna tell u that ur too young to feel lonley so dont worry. when i feel lonley the only ppl who i can come to for FULL support are my tru best friends, u need to let them in on how uve been feeling n they will have something to say to help u out trust me!! dont worry babe
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Okay, well, you DON'T need a boyfriend. I don't say that because you're 13, I say it because you don't. Don't rush into things! I mean, you wouldn't want to get into a relationship and then have to end it right away because you found out you didn't like the guy, or because the right guy DID come along, right? Just give it time. Get to know some new people and see what happens, but until then, just focus your attention on something OTHER than having a boyfriend. More important things in life!!
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it is realy up to you to try to get more friends. you have to put yourself out there and be ready to be rejected once or twice but you will soon get the hang of it! and no you are not to young to date. i consider it just haveing a boy that you are really good friends with. if that does not work dont try to look at other couples you have your friends to look after you! good luck and dont be shy! hope i helped you.
<3 Amelia
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...i think u should wait...wait for the guy who likes you soooo much he would do anything...girl it will be best in the long run and u'll be glad you waited and just get to know the guys well and have a good guy friend...they are always there for you!
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at 13...no guys will be there they aint mature to that point til they are about 19/20 and even some guys later.. dont forget they mature a lot slower... start makin better friends with the one you dont hang out with after school... you never know he could end up being the one u spend your life wit... so take ur time...find someone u like... dont rush it cuz ull only hurt in the end
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