okay this is actually a very long thing but ill make it as short as i can:
Theres this guy and we were like BEST FRIENDS last year and we were always flirting and everyone knew we liked eachother.. and then over the summer we told eachother that we really do like eachother.. and then the next school year rolls around and were still friends but like the whole school knows hes trying to ask me out, so things are a little harder and more akward but we try hard but then things start to get so annoying cuz people wont stop bugging us and like mostly him cuz he is just like retarded and too afraid to ask me out so we like take long walks talking about it and he says he wants to ask me and not me to ask him and that he still likes me and everyhting but he still doesnt do it.. it gets really old and i let him know that but things kind of continute the same then things start to slow down a little cuz we both have kind of lost energy trying to find time for eachother cuz were not in any classes together and not from the same town. So then all of a sudden he says he doesnt like me anymore.. after liking me for sooo long, and then a few days later he says he does and tehn the next week he doesnt, so RIGHT NOW hes saying he doenst but omg he acts like he likes me like even more now and he like i dont even know but now im hanging out with a lot of guys more than usual and he gets all like jealous kind of and i don know what to do, cuz we will prolly never end up going out cuz hes stupid but i still like him, but i hate him for what hes done to me and how he wasted my time!! ahh i need help! please do your best, i knwo this is kind of too retarded of a situation but i tried
if you guys are best friends, i wouldnt take that chance. i mean..you can if you want to, but i did take that chance. i was best friends with this guy named brett and i liked him since the 7th grade and he liked me since the 7th grade. im in 10th now. well i finally got single and he asked me out. that was a big mistake. we were way better off as friends. it was weird. i love him to death, but once i got with him i found out that it was not that KIND of love. it was the love that i would do anything for him bcuz he is just like my big brother. now things right now are kindof weird but we are still friends..but not as close. so if i was you i would make sure it was the LOVE LOVE that i thought it was. Good Luck and Keep Me Updated! *Bethers*
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What are somethings you can add to coffee to make it taste better. I hate coffee with nothing in it, and I need ideas on what to add.
**I Rate High**
this french vanilla stuff..it is soo good. make sure to add sum sugar and creamer too! there is also this caramel stuff..its all good! :) *Bethers*
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Hey im 14 and this guy is 16 .. Soo we hang out all the time but my BEST friend hates him and thinks hes bad and stuff.. but whenever his around me hes really sweet my friend just says .. Oh he just wants a piece of ass and all this other stuff.. and i think my friends parents are itimated that he can drive ( because he drives me places). Were not going out by the way but everyone thinks we are becuz we act like it. hes a drinker too =/ liike he has this rep that he always goes to parties and gets drunk and throws up everywhere ! .. so yea =/ what should i do? should i stick with him.. i mean i like him but my friends hate him =/ PLEASE HELP
you are not always gonna make everybody happy. so if you want to go out with him, go ahead. your friends will get over it. if it works good, if it dont...forget him. i mean i think your friend is jelous because he drives you places and you spend time with him instead of giving all your attention to your friend. just tell em to get over it and if they dont like it too bad. tell her to go find her a boyfriend and get out of your face. :) *Bethers*
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is it ok to flirt with guys if ur goin out with someone?
ok..i got you on this one. NO, it is not ok to flirt with someone while you are with someone else. you can mess/play/joke around with them (AS FRIENDS) but NO flirting. that causes trouble. when you are tempted, ask youself "Would I Want My Boyfriend To Be Doing This To Other Girls" you should know what to do from there. It always works for me and my boyfriend. besides if you really liked/loved your boyfriend, then you wouldnt even think about other guys or flirting with them. sorry. *Bethers*
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My friend is going out w/ this boy. When he asked her out, he said that he didn't want to tell anyone. I'm the only one they told. His friends tease him because they hang out so much. She's starting to think that he won't tell anyone because he's embarresed of her. What do you think? If it's just because he doesn't know how to stand up to his friends, do you have any advice?
well..i would say this boy def. does not know how to handle, treat, or be with a girl. if you are with somebody, you should be proud of it and tell as many people as you can. obviouslly he just wants to see what he can and if he can get somethin out of her. dont let him get to her! why would you go out with somebody you dont want anybody to know about? hmm..tell her to dump him before she gets hurt and embarass him and front of his friends! *Bethers*
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Ok, I am dating this guy, we have been together for a while now and every time I go somewhere, my mom doesn’t want me to be with him, my mom hates him basically… and I wish she didn’t cuz I really love him and he loves me, but it is hard with my mom, so every time I go somewhere with a friend of mine, I sneak him with us, and every time I go anywhere, I sneak to his house or whatever. We’re not having sex, but we are getting to know each other pretty darn good. And I hate having to sneak him with me, but it is the only way we can spend time together, and I feel really bad having to lie to my mom to spend time with him. I’m 17 and I believe my mom should let me see him…what should or could I do to improve my situation…he knows how bad I feel having to lie to see him, but I love him and it will be worth it in the end. I just don’t know what to do, I don’t wanna sneak and lie until I turn 18.
i had the same problem, cept im only 15. well, i had to sneak to see him too. and i found out after i broke up with him that he was still smoking weed after i asked him not too and stuff. so he pretty much LIED to me the whole time we were together. (8 months) my mom told me i could be with him when i turned 18. but that was too long away. i told him i was gonna stay with him, but it got really hard. ive heard around that he will *F* any girl that was willing. and that made my trust for him go down even more. well..i finally broke up with him and just today he told some girl to tell me he thought this girl named corin was cute and sweet and was thinkin it would make me mad. and i told him i didnt care and good luck and if he thinks it makes me mad then f himself. SO DONT GET YOURSELF IN THIS SITUATION. do whatever feels right! you will be 18 before too long! SO just let your heart tell you what to do. and if it makes your mom mad, i dont know..just follow your heart! Good Luck! *Bethers*
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ok it started when me and my mom were just home doing nothing and my two friends were knocking on the door and my mom told me not to answer , but my frrieds saw me so i told her i wnated to , but these to friends arent my nicest friends ,anyways, before i could even get to the door she yelled out "what do u want!?!?" in a real loud rude voice and they answered "oh we're here to collect a book your daughter borrowed from me" and my mom lied and said "no she;s sick" and went back to her T.v . a f ew minutes later she noticed they were still at the door so she yelled agauin "leave!! why are you girls still here? " and they said "ok fine..sorry!" and they left.but they came and said "listen vcould you just give mne back my book!?!?!" and my mom got really p[issed an dyelled at them to egt away . i was inb tears at taht point feeling so embaressed and ii told her how she embaressed me and all ahse did was scream at me telling me taht i should shut up . i just wnat you to help me find out a way to make her change and not to embaress me anymore . please answer me . i'd appreciate it. tahnk you bye.
dang. i would say your mom is CrAzY! umm..was she menstral?¿?¿ lol *Bethers*
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i tried out for dance team with my relle good friend and i found out i made it but she didnt i was relle upset and liek couldnt relle be happy formyself the next period she was mad at me becuase i made the team and she didnt nd i tried to talk to her about it but we got over it but still she also liek hits me liek shes joking but she relle hurts me so i hit her backl nd she gets all pissed but i dont let people jsut hit me without me doing anything how should i deal with her??
oh lord. she is just jealous. stay away from her until she gets over it. tell her certain people are better at certain things. and that just wasnt her thing. itll piss her off, but tell the truff! *Bethers*
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My cat has a bad habbit of tearing up the toilet paper rolls. I have tried putting the rolls on backwards so the paper won't roll off when she plays with it, but she is still tearing it up good. I end up thowing away 1/4 of the roll when I go into the bathroom. What can I do to prevent my cat from doing this?
haha..my cat used to do the same thing. until we got a higher toilet paper holder thingy. you should try it! give your cat some yarn or something. my cat loves to play with paper balls. *Bethers*
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What should I do I like alot of boys and one is my friend but should I tell him or keep it to my self??
i would def. tell him because you never know he may like you. i let every boy that i have ever liked know about it, because i dont see how they didnt know anyways. anybody can tell who you like. i mean its obvious. so go ahead and tell him. it might even turn into something. if not, keep it on a friendly basis and it may turn into something later! good luck! *Bethers*
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Hey Im Kristen. I just wanted to say that you give some GREAT advice ;) lol Anyways, I also hava ?. My mom has been REALI rude lately..I mean shes NOT actin like a mom..She is acting like a frickin RUDE teenager!! lol I know this sounds Crazi, but its def. tru! I tri ta talk to her, but she just says mean things bak to me, or she ignors me ..I dunno wat ta do..She was never like this before!! :( Shes always down grading me and saying that i look fat n stuff..I know im not SKINNY, SKINNY. lol But im not FAT! >:( Does your mom ever act like that?? PLEASE answer this..I dunno if its jus me, or it reali is HER.lol THANKS SO MUCH..ILL RATE YAll GOOD! ;)**
hmm. do you ever act like that? maybe she is just trying to get a point across that that is how you act? maybe. i would def. find out whats going on. i dont know but my mom always says if i wanna be treated like a grown up, act like a grown up. she tells me i act like a little kid so she will treat me like one. i dont know bout your situation tho. good luck and keep me updated. *Bethers*
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this is a really fast question. how do you get a guy interested?
o goodness..FLIRT!!! act really interested in him and just invite him over or to hang out after school or work or whatever. good luck! *Bethers*
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Thnx sooo much for your advice on my friend liking my boyfriend, she is now dating one of the other guys she like and i'm really thankful that you gave me that advice
Lata
Lizzy
no problem hun! anytime. have any more questions? hit me up! lol *Bethers*
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Sorry if this question has been asked before!!
You see, i wash my hair everyday, and it always smells soo good like my shampoo! I let it airdry, + it naturally goes curly.
The thing is, i straighten my hair; a lot, with the CHI [ceramic hairstyling iron.. it's my saviour!! :D hehe] my hair isn't dead, but it always smells kind of.. well, burnt i guess. So my question is, how can i get it to not smell like that? lol. It's kind of embarassing because people are always playing with my hair, and if i can smell it, i'm pretty sure they can too. Is there any kind of product you can put in afterwards to give it a nice smelling scent? Some sprays i've tried have only made it frizzy :S
thank you in advance guys!!
omg. i used to have the same problem! i have naturally curly hair too. i also straighten my hair. to make it smell really good, i use vitamen gel like stuff in a really small bottle with a black lid on it. i forgot the name brand, but i will tell you the next time i get back on the internet. but it makes your hair smell really good plus it makes it shiny and smooth. it is great. *Bethers*
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is age nuthin but a number? i mean like im gonna be 14 soon and i like three ppl who r all juniors and im a freshman. thats not bad at all but i am a young freshman ya kno? and my mom doesnt have a problem with me going out with ppl who are older then me but i kinda do. i just feel so young and these ppl r like 16, 17 and almost 17. how do i stop falling for older guys?
yes. age is JUST a number. because i am 15 and my boyfriend is 18 about to be 19 and i love him very much! so just dont worry about it, if you like them and they like you..go for it. good luck! *Bethers*
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I always feel left out and out of place and I always wonder what life would be like without me. I know I have friends who love me but I always end up thinking what would happen if i died... would it make a big difference? I especially wonder what my ex-boy friend would say ... I just want to feel needed, someone who will love me back ... some how when i have a boy friend or someone close to me i feel like i have a purpose ... is that normal ... to want to be needed?
i used to feel the SAME way as you. when i would fight with my parents or get mad at a friend i would always tell myself nobody would care if i died, so why am i still in this world? (immature, i know.)i would always think about who would care and who wouldnt. and when i got my boyfriend (the only one ive "really" loved, idk for some reason i havent thought about it since.) maybe the same will happen with you. good luck. *Bethers*
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theres this guy that i have a major crush on, and i've known him forever (since i was 4) and we went out when i was 9 and he was 10, but then when i turned 10 me and him got into a silly argument and i broke up with him. after that i haden't seen him or talked to him for 3 years. but he lives 2 houses over from me. =/ i recently started high school, and he takes the same bus as me to school every day, and i see him often in the halls. i really like him again and i have no problem talking to him, but i want to tell him that i still care, and that i'm still here. please help because i have no idea how to bring that convo. about because idk how he feels. =/
ok. yall were immature back then and im sure he would understand if you just came out and told him. if he felt the same, he would tell you im sure. just ask him to hang out! thats the best way to start it off! good luck *Bethers*
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ok i know this is a question alot of people ask..but i like this guy..like alot and we're good friends and we talk sometimes..i guess? i wanna tell him i like him but i can't..cuz im too shy..and he doesn't have a screen name..Ah..so are there any ways to show him i like him..without ya know..atchually saying it directly..alomst like flirting? Thanks!
tell him hes cute/hott everyday ;) and just ask him to hang out after school one day or on the weekend. he should dig it! lol good luck *Bethers*
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im a junior in high school. but i want to open my own restaurant/be a chef.. i want to go to FSU. but i want to noe if that is the best college for that and if not what r the best colleges to go to for that type of major. tanx
Sullivan is the BEST one for that. it is spesifically for chefs and stuff..try some research on it! it is in kentucky. good luck. tell me what cha think. *Bethers*
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My best friend's boyfriend was beating the shit out of her.. he made her give him head in front of his friends or else he'd beat the shit out of her.. she had bruises and i saw them.. she told me about it.. i tried talking to her and him.. she tried talking to him.. it was never gonna end.. so i talked to tara (a school counsler) with 2 other people.. and we told them what we have seen and what was going on.. now she blames me.. and only me.. she said i ruined her life and she hates me.. she said that i blew it out of proportion and her lame fucking excuse for it was that he gets worried about her and then he gets angry so like when ur so angry u wanna hit someone that's what he does.. hello but am i the only one who doesn't hit my signifigant other when i'm pissed off?? i just don't know if i did the right thing.. i love her so much she's my best friend and i'd do nething for her and i just felt like this whole thing with her boyfriend was waaay out of control and i couldn't do nething more to help! i had to tell someone.. i dunno but i feel like killing myself and i dunno what to do... first i wanna go kill him.. then i'll kill myself.. sounds like the best plan to me but ya know there are people who actually care about him surprisingly and i couldn't never kill neone but that's beyond the point.. i dunno what to do about my friend and meanwhile it's throwing me in a hole i can't get out of and i just dunno what to do.. please help :'(
i think the best thing to do is tell her to talk to somebody. i wouldnt get in her buisness. she is the only one that can put a stop to it. i mean, if she didnt like it, she could put a restraining order on him or break up with him. i wouldnt interfere. there are plenty of ways she could put a stop to it. *Bethers*
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