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okay this is actually a very long thing but ill make it as short as i can:
Theres this guy and we were like BEST FRIENDS last year and we were always flirting and everyone knew we liked eachother.. and then over the summer we told eachother that we really do like eachother.. and then the next school year rolls around and were still friends but like the whole school knows hes trying to ask me out, so things are a little harder and more akward but we try hard but then things start to get so annoying cuz people wont stop bugging us and like mostly him cuz he is just like retarded and too afraid to ask me out so we like take long walks talking about it and he says he wants to ask me and not me to ask him and that he still likes me and everyhting but he still doesnt do it.. it gets really old and i let him know that but things kind of continute the same then things start to slow down a little cuz we both have kind of lost energy trying to find time for eachother cuz were not in any classes together and not from the same town. So then all of a sudden he says he doesnt like me anymore.. after liking me for sooo long, and then a few days later he says he does and tehn the next week he doesnt, so RIGHT NOW hes saying he doenst but omg he acts like he likes me like even more now and he like i dont even know but now im hanging out with a lot of guys more than usual and he gets all like jealous kind of and i don know what to do, cuz we will prolly never end up going out cuz hes stupid but i still like him, but i hate him for what hes done to me and how he wasted my time!! ahh i need help! please do your best, i knwo this is kind of too retarded of a situation but i tried
<3 deathly confused
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oook u should still be friend'z w/ him no matter wut! k? nd u should talk to him askin him wut'z goin on nd y he neva asked u out nd tell him tht u wasted ur time on him for a long time..nd u shoudl ask him rite then nd there if he like'z u nd if he duznt then tell him tht ur movin on cuz u cant waste ur time on him wen he duznt lyk u..nd tell him 2 tell the truth cuz if he reali duz lyk u nd ur hangin out w/ other guyz he'll get reali jelouse nd it'z his problem 4 not tellin u da truth.
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if you guys are best friends, i wouldnt take that chance. i mean..you can if you want to, but i did take that chance. i was best friends with this guy named brett and i liked him since the 7th grade and he liked me since the 7th grade. im in 10th now. well i finally got single and he asked me out. that was a big mistake. we were way better off as friends. it was weird. i love him to death, but once i got with him i found out that it was not that KIND of love. it was the love that i would do anything for him bcuz he is just like my big brother. now things right now are kindof weird but we are still friends..but not as close. so if i was you i would make sure it was the LOVE LOVE that i thought it was. Good Luck and Keep Me Updated! *Bethers*
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Its not a retarded situation, lol. Dont worry, stuff like that happens a lot. I can tell that you two have a great bodn if you are able to talk to eachother about anything and not have to worry about it. So take another one of those long walks with him and sort it out. Figure out what is going on through his retarded mind and if you can tell he likes you then YOU should ask HIM out. Because even if he said he doesnt want you too, i can tell he cant make a decission on his own :P lol. But if that doesnt work then try getting to know those other guys better. And if your friend gets jealous again then its not your fault, because you discussed it with him. Good luck and i hope i helped! :)
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Hun..you def gotta get over him. when a guy makes up his mind then he means it. like the guy that im totally in LOVE with made it clear that me and him arent going to be anything. and i got over it..but i still like him. but babe life goes on. the world is going to keep going even if you and this boy arent going out! hope i helped! mauhh
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Deathly confused,
well it is not a stupid reatred question there are allot of people in ur position. First of all i would consider urself lucky to haev someone like u that much, but back to ur problem it think u should tell him that u r not gonna wait around for him and if he is to scared to ask u out then if is missing out and just try to ignore it when he keeps changing his mind about how he feels about u. That may not be the best advice but it just might help. i hope it all works out
Meetmyyimshi13
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i totally understand where ur coming from... but u def. need to talk to him and tell him that he rele needZ to make up his mind about if he likes you or not so u can decide your love life in the future... and if he tells you that he likes you, then try telling him how you feel about this nd' how u wanna have a relationship.. nd' then hopefully everything will fall into place! but if he says that he doesnt like you like he did b4 .. but he is still getting jelous of u hanging out with your other guy friends... then tell him to lay off nd' that he rele needs to think twice about what he told u b4 (( about not liking you ))... nd' if that doesnt work then tell him that you guys are still best friends no matter who u hang out with and nothing is ever going to change that so he doesnt have to worry if he doesnt have feelings for u like he said*
i hope i helped... nd' if u still need to ask ne thing orr get any more help.. im here for you... * just IM me on __ x Oh tOo cUtE 4u__
xOx-Tiffany*
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i'm confuzzled .. .. ... .... ....
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I understand completely what he is doing. He likes you, I can tell you that much. The reason he says he doesnt is because he doesnt want to keep getting bugged about it, and he is scared to ask you out. Although he may know that you will say yes he probably scared of committment.
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ok before you wast anymore time you must see a patern and if you really want him pretend that you dont.it worked for me no joke. he will miss you wanting him and then realize how much he liked it and then ask you out!! i am so serious you have no idea well good luck
muha,
Lisa
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okay tell him these exact words :"Either u ask me out now or it's over, I'm not waiting anymore for!" Let him know that he is wasting ur time and that u need a straight up answer from him! And tell him 2 not b afraid of asking u out! If he really luvs u he will take that into consideration!!
*BeSs*
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dear deathly confused
he definently likes u. u just simply need 2 tell him that if anything is gonna happen then it should happen soon cuz its gettin very annoyin 2 both of u. tell him that if he doesnt like u then he should tell u so u can get on w/ur life. hope i helped ya!
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