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Age: 16
Member Since: January 31, 2006
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Last Update: February 3, 2009
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My boyfriend is OBSESSED about the sims! He almost never stops playing that stupid game I dont understand it! When he got fired from work he had the gall to say 'I was low in aspiration!' I just want to smack him! Last night he wanted to have sex and he asked me if I wanted to 'woohoo'! I asked him if he was making breafast and he said 'sorry honey, my cooking level is too low' I'm so mad! If he says 'woohoo' one more time I might clock him! Please help me how do I get some sense into him? (link)
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you could do a few different things...you could try to have a serious conversation with him and explain how you feel calmly...or just let all ya anger out on him...or act like it's the sims and say let's have a conversation like in the sims and bring up your problem...that might keep his attention better. hope i helped XOXO best of luck
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im going to warn you now it might be pretty long soo please bare with me.. and i promise to rate high
ok. i have liked this guy for 3 years
we really wansnt that close of friends and well we went out.. for 1 month then we broke up because he didnt love me as much as i loved him
then we went out again.. for 2 more months and i was mad at him alot and he was mad at me alot and we also made-out and did sexual things to much we went on 2 breaks to stop it. and we ended the break really early and we got into a fight on the 18th and.. then we made up it was okay and then we kinda go in another one..and then he was like i have to end this relationship ect.. ect.. and he said he can almost guarntee he will ask me back out.. but he said we need to be friends b.c when we went out we really wansnt friends and he said loving me isnt enough and he said if we fix things we can go back out.. so now its the 20th we have hungout with our friend asleast 2 times i have cried both times and we talked bout it the first time we did he said in about 2 weeks he will know ect.. ect.. and yesterday when we did.. we went back out for like 5 mins but i ended it because it didnt feel like we fixed anything. at all and he was saying how he doesnt know how long it will be we have to become friends first and all this crap and he was saying how he does want to be with me and does love me but loving me isnt enough and he said if he knows he doesnt want to be with me or love me after the friends thing he will tell me
but i want to be with him.. some of the shit was kinda my falut becasue after i fight i would come back soo how do i become his friend faster i mean i know we will become friends but i dont want it to take long b.c i want to be with him now.. because everytime im around him im sad
and he mentioned about dating other girls or someshit and i dont want him to until i know he doesnt want to be with me...and on the 30th i think i might ask him back out butt.. i have to be his friend soo help me please i have been crying for the past 2 days.. i want to be with him soo bad........
ill rate high! (link)
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honestly i believe going through all of these things you are continuing your pain and heartbrokeness. They are experiences that will help but i think you need to find other activites so your life doesn't depend on him...i really do understand that will be hard. But being friends takes time and trying to become real friends while liking each is going to be hard so if you believe it's worth it you'll keep trying...but i don't think it'll ever really not hurt you that you're trying so hard...i wish you the best of luck and if it helps i'll pray for you cause i know how your situation feels.
XOXO
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Is god real im confused (link)
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Yes God is real there are many different religions....But there is only one...one that includes belieing in God the father,God the son and God the holy spirit... that should be Christianity and Catholic um...i guess what i'm tryin to say is try these out and see if these are right for you and you'll understand there is a God and all the pieces come together...i hope i helped and if you disagree well just look further into it....
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Okay, I would like everyone to be totaly honest you wont hurt my feelings.
Do you think that it is like pathetic/stupid/weird ect. that I have never had a boyfriend before? Oh and im 15.
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nope i don't think it's any of those things or anything else (that's bad) that you've never had a bf, cause some people just don't get bf's that early and cause boys can cause alot of trouble so it's not bad be grateful you haven't had any of those kinds of boy problems yet :)
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ok so i asked a question a long time ago about my boyfriends best friend kinda took advantage of me well to day i was talking to my boyfriend on the phone and he said that we needed to talk so i called him and he said i've been acting kinda shy and he said whats wrong?
and then it was quiet and he said again Your mostly shy when my buddy comes around Did he do something to you? Luckly my mom called and i had to go so i told him i'd talk to him about it later. What should i tell him or What should i do Please help me ASAP!
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the main thing in a relationship is honesty so you really should tell your bf the truth, just break it to him calmly and explain every part of how you feel...i hope i helped.. i wish you the best of luck
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Well, I used to go out with a boy, and he was like my first kiss and everything. And I still love him and its been 8 months. But, he has a girlfriend right now. I know he would go out with me if I asked him, but I dont want to break them up. But, I think I really do love him and he means the world to me. We broke up because my friends were being really arrogant and kept telling me lies and false stories about him so I broke up with him. Do I brake them up? How do I get him back? Please help me you have no idea how much I miss him and would literally fo anything to be with him.
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i don't think you should break them because what comes around goes around so that would come back to you. But if it's really meant to be they will break up on their own and he'll come back to you...oh and i'm warning you don't be a side chick it never feels good in the end i know. i wish you the best of luck. :)
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This question is directed toward all you christian colunists. I'm planning to get a tattoo soon and I'd like to get the opinion of other christians. So if you are a christian, I'd like to know how you feel about tattoos. (link)
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honestly i believe that getting a tatoo is up to you because you'll be the one who has to deal with God about whatever you do. I really don't believe it's bad to do it...but i've heard that we're not suppose to mark our bodies or something like that but i don't remember the exact words.i hoope i helped.
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why do girls try and make you jelious if the say they dont like you?? also do u think u can find love at such a young age like 15-16 and spend the rest of your life with them??? (link)
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girls usually try to make boys jealous even when they say they don't like you because she could be lying about liking you and want to see your reaction and if she'e ok with it...and yes i think love can be found at a young age and for those people to stay together for the rest of their lives. hope i helped...wish u the best of luck
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im a 13 year old female. my mom is very strict about "getting enough sleep" and i have a VERY early bedtime. i have to be off the computer by 8:50 pm and i have to be in bed and be watching a half hour tv show from 9:00 to 9:30. i HAVE to be sleeping by 9:30 pm. even if im not done with homework or want to read a couple more pages of my book, I HAVE TO BE SLEEPING. so i go to sleep at 9:30 pm and wake up at 6:45 am. I think i don't need that much sleep. my friends go to bed at 11:30 and they are still wide awake at school. and what makes it worse is that i have the SAME exact bedtime as my 9 year old sister. thats 4 years apart!! i don't think it's fair and i don't think its neccessary to be sleeping by 9:30 pm i feel if i went to bed at 10 or 10:30, i would still get the sleep i need. what time do you guys go to bed and do you think my moms being fair? how can i get my mom to change my bedtime? and shes very strict so i need some good ways to pursuade her with.
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i think if you tried to explain to your parent(s) that with age comes responsibility like a longer time to stay up maybe they would understand. Or that them treating you the same as your sis is making you feel younger than you are. I hope i helped even a lil bit.
xoxo i wish you the best of luck
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My mom & I are really close. She loves my dad and they've been together over 20 years. Her very first love has recently passed away. They had a serious relationship when she was 17. (She's 48 now) She saw his last name in the death notices and she's been severely depressed for awhile now. She had a very involved connection with this man and I feel so bad for my mom. They hadn't talked in years & she doesn't know what he died from either. She really wants closure, but I don't know how to help her. What am I supposed to do in this situation? (link)
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if you already haven't you could show her you're there for her and try to cheer her up like do somethig special or something that use to make her happy. i hope i helpd or sparked some ideas.
xoxo i wish you the best of luck and if it means anything i'll pray for her
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im 14/f my bf is 17. he is always talking about how he wants to marry me and how much he loves me. i love him. i know you will think im to young. im not to young to know love. alright. so he got me this necklace for christmas that has a heart on it that on the front our names are ingraved and on the back it says "7 or 8 more years..." theres a story behind it...but its about me and him getting married in 7 or 8 years. then for valentines day he got me a ring. he wants to get married in 4 or 5 years now.... and he calls me his wife. like when he intorduces me to his friends he callse me his wife. and even to his mom he says hes going to see his wife and stuff. and whenever i see a baby i want one of my own.... is that normal? to want to have his kid? me and him have never had sex or anything. were really jsut good kids in love. so is that bad/wrong/weird/normal? (link)
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yeah I think it's the norm. I mean I want to have my bf's kid but no time soon. I'm the same age as you. But like I believe in young love and it's real. XOXO hope I helped! :)
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Thanks for al the advice. Yeah it's weird a girl i just want to be friend with comes to our house while were gone and leaves me cupcakes on the kitchen counter. She trespassed. Don't you think this is crazy? What should i do about this?
But i also I used your advice and when we were leaving class I fianlly talked to her. I asked her where she'd been at. She had been sick a couple of days. She was smilling but looked up rarely and talking sweet but looked like she was in a hurry. What does this mean? What do you think i should say to her next? How can I tell if she likes me or not?
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It probaby means she might have gotten butterflies. Maybe she wasn't in a rush but felt really shy,like she didn't know waht to say. You should just be yourself and talk about things of interest, school classes, movies, music, etc. Oh and i think the cupcakes are a hint she likes you,you could tell by that or the looking away being shy and talking sweetly. hope i helped. :)
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this girl i like has a boyfriend. i was gong to ask her out but he beat me too the punch. im not one to usually get jealous but i was going to ask her out the same day he did. now i cant help but feel jealous because i really, really like this girl. i dont know what to do. I will rank high:-) (link)
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Hey, I think you could either give it time, and find something else to do in the mean time, but if she doesn't know you like her or you haven't expressed your feelings then if they were to break up she wouldn't know you were interested. So you could also try telling her how you feel. But my advice is not to damage the relationship she has now or she might resent you for it.
Hope i helped you... even a lil bit! :) hope it works out for the best.
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I just started dating this guy a little while ago, and I like him, but it's so hard to talk to him. He's really sweet and I really do like him, but we can't ever have a conversation without awkward silences. Should I continue to go out with him and hope things get better, or should I just break up with him? Thanks. (link)
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Hey you shouldn't just break up with him ykou give it time... while trying to work it out. Like when ya'll talk, just bring up normal stuff what happened to yu that day, any good things that happened, movies, music, ya know the basics.
hope i helped.XOXO :) good luck
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okay my boyfriend (we were dating for 6 months) and he broke up with me saturday! well he already has another girlfriend! and i want him back because i am sick of crying every night and i miss him! how do i get him back he already misses me he said but he said that he likes the other girl too! and so i want ihm to break up with his girlfriend now and go back out with me how do i make him realize he should break up with her for me? and how do i make him realize how much he misses me!? (link)
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Umm...i believe he was just rebounding so the girl really doesn't mean anything. So to make him realize, you said he already said it so it's between giving it time and finding something else to do in the mean time. Also with him realizing to break up with the girl, if he misses you then he will break...i've been in the situation before or she'll do something that makes him upset and he dump her...so just give it time and don't pressure it...wish you the best of luck with love.
XOXO hope i helped!
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Okay this might be kind of confusing but bear with me please. So at the end of summer last year, I met this guy, Joe, through my best friend, Liz. Joe dated one of Liz's good friends, Grace. They dated for about 2 & 1/2 years and then at the beginning of summer, they broke up. So now its September, and Joe with his friend come by Liz's house, and I'm there with her. So I meet Joe, I knew who he was and about him & Grace and I thought he was pretty cute. He thought I was really cute too. He liked me and all. I wasn't even THINKING about me and him together, the thought of US never came to mind. I felt like I had no chance. Grace (his ex) was unbelievably gorgeous and so much different from me.Well anyways, so we started hanging out. He'd come by more often and we were both very shy. Later I found out that one of the reasons he fell for me was because I was so quiet. But anyways, so we would hang out; play tennis and just hang out with friends. I also got drunk for the very first time with him -- and that's a very goodmemory. I remember how he was so worried about me geeting home and everything that day. Ahh memories. We went downtown by the lake and shopped and everything. Then one day, we were walking, just the two of us, and we kiss. Later on the walk home, he told me about how he wanted to kiss me sooner but that didn't work out cause it was never good timing with his friends and all. So yes, then the following week we would hang out and kiss :) and talked online. He asked me do I see him as a boyfriend and all that and talked about us dating. The next time we hung out, he asked me out. It was perfect. I never met a guy like him. Never dated ANYONE like that. Too perfect for words. It was awesome, the best time of my life. Everything was going great, I couldn't have been happier. He was a bad boy, ditching school, band with his friends, typical guy stuff. But I was always able to count on him. He always chose me over his friends, and even stopped drinking. We went to different schools, and then I started working with my dad, so things got harder. He had his friends drop him off whenever just so he can see me -- it was like a dream come true. My prince charming had come. But meanwhile, Grace (the ex) found out and went crazy. She hated me and my friend/her friend for letting it even happen. She had people watching me and threating me all the time on the interenet that they're going to kick my ass for dating Joe. But I didn't care. My friendshad my back. I remember when Joe was over and I wasn't supposed to have anyone over, and he was over and my dad came home, haha... he ran out the back door and jumped the gate and everything barefoot. Lol poor him left his shoes. He had written me a song and everything, we even wrote each other notes in school. Now back to the psycho ex-gf, well me and her were sort of friends, we just knew each other because of my best friend Liz. She would always follow me & Joe, (she had a car so was EVERYWHERE) and yeah. Then one day, me and joe sort of got into an argument. Me and my friend Liz and some of his friends were all walking around the nieghborhood onour way to chill at this one park. His ex would drive by and stop and talk to Joe's friends. We were with a bunch of friends all walking when these little 12=14 year old were with us and they were talking shit to joe about me and just because bitches and giving me and my friend attitude so I wasn't gonna deal with it and me and my friend Liz turned around and left. He didn't even bother to go after me or call. I regret doing that, I know he must have gotten mad, I remember when I hung up on him, that upset him also. but anyways, so the same day I call him. And I call again. And I call again. No answer. Same thing the following day, Saturday. Then Sunday I call all day. Finallly I try one last time on SUnday night and Grace picks up. And she said he's with her now and all those times he wasn't with me, he was with her. I dropped the phone. It was crazy, my friends wanted to go right over there and beat her up. But I thought about and decided just to forget it. Lateron, I signed online and he was on -- so I instant messaged him. And I yelled at him and everything and then signed off and cried. And cried. I thought I got over him, I was into another guy -- well then he chose another girl over me, and yeah. Then he came back and I rejected him and all that because I'm not gonna deal with someone liek that. SO I really don't even know what I'm asking. Him and Grace have been together ever since. I ran into both of them the other day at a store which was really awkward, he was with his friends in the store and I was with mine. Then they left the store and his girlfriend -- Grace -- and his sister come in. Then they leave and are waiting outside in the car for us. We goto our car and trhey pull up and then she says something and flicks us off and drives off. But anways, I just can't seem to get over him. Its crazy cause this all happened quite a while ago. Maybe its just because he was my first SERIOUS boyfriend? I have no idea what to do... and I really want to believe that one day WE WILLE get back together. I just hope and pray something along the way will happen and we will be together.Like today for example, I felt like breaking down and crying. I went with my friends downtown, on the train. And they were with their bf's and it reminded me how we used to be like that. Last time I took the train was with him. We went to musuems on Columbus Day. Memories :( It was just so heartbreaking. Do you think that we will get back together? People say "THINGS HAPPEN WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT!" and I wanna follow that, because well thats how I met him. I wasn't even looking for a boyfriend. ANd now every guy I look at or my friends want me to meet/date, I just can't. And it kills me because I want to be with him and no one elsre. DO you thinkin it's possible for us to get back together? Maybe later on in life? It was my mistake because I was always so shy and not really OUT with my feelings, and I regret not telling him how I feel, he always thought I didn't like him or anything. Although we dated for only about 2 months, the memrories and the times we had together even before we began officially "dating" ... they mean soo much. I just wish I had another chance. Do you think it's possible for us to ever get back together? Do you think he ever thinks about me the way I think about him? Is there ANY chance of us getting back together in the future? (link)
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Hey I went through something similar to this and it didn't work out. But yes if you really believe you still like him enough to put your self in that situation again then yeah you could get back together. I mean if you start to move on and do other things and activites to keep your mind off of him then either he'll come back or even better some one better will come along!Oh and yeah i think he thinks about you the same way, even though i'm not a boy i've come to learn that boys do sometimes feel the same way and do think. He did you dirty so yup absolutly he thinks about you, his conscience definetly gets to him. But i wish you the best of luck and hope i helped.
XOXO
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This is going to be long... sorry!
Last year I had the pleasure to spend the summer with an incredibly awesome guy that I fell in love with. He was so sweet and was always looking out for me. After I started school again in august, I got word that his father was getting transfered to Illinois. I live in Fl. Well, the time came and I told him goodbye. We broke up then, because I didnt want a long distance relationship and neither did he(at the time). It had been a year and a half, and i had lost touch with him. On christmas, he showed up at my door... i didnt even know he was coming! That was a shock!Anyways, He called me a few days later and wanted to go to the movies... so we did. He left 3 days after that and i never got to tell him goodbye. I haven't heard from him since then and it has almost been 2 weeks. He said that he was going to drive straight thru to Illinois because he had to start school again. I am so depressed because i know it was meant for us... but the distance is horrible. We are 1212.16 miles apart! I have no way to contact him. I know he still loves me and I still love him. I am getting more and more depressed every day. I dont want to forget about him... that is not an option. I just want to contact him somehow but I dont want to come off as desperate AND i want to get rid of my depression without having to go to a doctor. Have you ever been laying on your bed in the dark and turned the radio on and you just cry to every song every night until your eyes are bruised? Well, i can say that for the new year (2006) i have accomplished that! (link)
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hey i have turned out the lights,turned on the radio and cried my eyes out before, i think just a few days ago, but i hope i can help...getting in touch with him-maybe your parents have an e-mail addrress or if you're lucky a phone number...just tell them you were good friends if they don't know you went together...in becoming UNdepressed i've listened to hyper songs, exercised,joked and played with my friends, or just day dreamed in fantasy about the way things could be. oh and if he popped up before it definetly may happen again...hope i helped even a lil bit. : /
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Every guy in my grade thinks im prude. They Think im pretty and hot and all, but they wont date me becuase they think i wont do anything. I WILL though, i just am relly self consious and i always think there is something on my face or something when boys talk to me. How can i change this?! please help me :] (link)
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Yo I don't know if this will help any but...if you are talking about changing being prude or the boys thinking your prude then here i go... there is probably no way to change this unless u prove your self which i don't recommend... and i am in that situation right now and i haven't tried to prove myself once and most of the boys who are talking about me are either prude themselves or sex freaks. It's crazy but really true. so I hope i helped even a lil bit.
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