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boyfriend to friend BACk to boyfriend
im going to warn you now it might be pretty long soo please bare with me.. and i promise to rate high
ok. i have liked this guy for 3 years
we really wansnt that close of friends and well we went out.. for 1 month then we broke up because he didnt love me as much as i loved him
then we went out again.. for 2 more months and i was mad at him alot and he was mad at me alot and we also made-out and did sexual things to much we went on 2 breaks to stop it. and we ended the break really early and we got into a fight on the 18th and.. then we made up it was okay and then we kinda go in another one..and then he was like i have to end this relationship ect.. ect.. and he said he can almost guarntee he will ask me back out.. but he said we need to be friends b.c when we went out we really wansnt friends and he said loving me isnt enough and he said if we fix things we can go back out.. so now its the 20th we have hungout with our friend asleast 2 times i have cried both times and we talked bout it the first time we did he said in about 2 weeks he will know ect.. ect.. and yesterday when we did.. we went back out for like 5 mins but i ended it because it didnt feel like we fixed anything. at all and he was saying how he doesnt know how long it will be we have to become friends first and all this crap and he was saying how he does want to be with me and does love me but loving me isnt enough and he said if he knows he doesnt want to be with me or love me after the friends thing he will tell me
but i want to be with him.. some of the shit was kinda my falut becasue after i fight i would come back soo how do i become his friend faster i mean i know we will become friends but i dont want it to take long b.c i want to be with him now.. because everytime im around him im sad
and he mentioned about dating other girls or someshit and i dont want him to until i know he doesnt want to be with me...and on the 30th i think i might ask him back out butt.. i have to be his friend soo help me please i have been crying for the past 2 days.. i want to be with him soo bad........
ill rate high!
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honestly i believe going through all of these things you are continuing your pain and heartbrokeness. They are experiences that will help but i think you need to find other activites so your life doesn't depend on him...i really do understand that will be hard. But being friends takes time and trying to become real friends while liking each is going to be hard so if you believe it's worth it you'll keep trying...but i don't think it'll ever really not hurt you that you're trying so hard...i wish you the best of luck and if it helps i'll pray for you cause i know how your situation feels.
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I know you probably don't want to hear this but I honestly don't think that he sounds worth all this pain he is putting you through. My advice I would give you if you REALLY want to be with him is kinda take a break from him for a while. For maybe a week or two just don't hang out with him or call him or anything like that. If he does like you, after you guys went so long without contact he will come crawling back to you and then you could be in control of the relationship which in this case would probably be a good thing.
But, if you think you can handle it, I would move on if I were you. In a way it sounds like you guys would be better as friends and that a relationship hear would be very very hard. But good luck either way!
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Sometimes things don't work out for many reasons. Be friends with him first. If your friends for awhile, he then will then be able to see if he has feelings for you. Wait because he seems like he's confused and doesn't want to ruin your friendship. I don't know if he wants a friends with benefits relationship more than going out. Just try to talk to him about it -after being friends for awhile. If you keep asking him out and vise-versa it might get worse and ruin the relationship.
hope i help. ♥
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