Question Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 10:25 pm
My boyfriend is OBSESSED about the sims! He almost never stops playing that stupid game I dont understand it! When he got fired from work he had the gall to say 'I was low in aspiration!' I just want to smack him! Last night he wanted to have sex and he asked me if I wanted to 'woohoo'! I asked him if he was making breafast and he said 'sorry honey, my cooking level is too low' I'm so mad! If he says 'woohoo' one more time I might clock him! Please help me how do I get some sense into him?
Xenolan answered Friday July 21 2006, 4:28 pm: Leave the room whenever he makes a SIMS reference. If that doesn't work, leave the relationship. This isn't a trivial thing; he knows it bothers you (presumably) and yet he keeps doing it. It is disrespectful.
Oh, and next time he asks you to "Woohoo", direct him back to his computer and sweetly tell him that all the action he's getting tonight is right there. [ Xenolan's advice column | Ask Xenolan A Question ]
LM answered Monday July 17 2006, 3:19 pm: I suggest having a conversation about it. Don't get mad at him, because nothing will get accomplished. It's entirely possible that he doesn't realize this bugs you so much. He may think it's cute, or he may not even realize he's doing it (since he plays so much). Next time you see him going over to the computer to play, ask if he wants to take a walk, watch a movie, or something. Or cook dinner with him, because he claims his cooking level is too low, haha. You can always hide the disc if nothing else works! But don't uninstall the game, because he probably has intricately disigned houses and complex neighborhood relationships, and if that all gets erased, he'll be very upset.
BabyGirl1sideonly answered Monday July 17 2006, 9:31 am: you could do a few different things...you could try to have a serious conversation with him and explain how you feel calmly...or just let all ya anger out on him...or act like it's the sims and say let's have a conversation like in the sims and bring up your problem...that might keep his attention better. hope i helped XOXO best of luck [ BabyGirl1sideonly's advice column | Ask BabyGirl1sideonly A Question ]
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