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I Am In Love With A Boy Who Has A Girlfriend


Question Posted Thursday June 22 2006, 1:06 am

Well, I used to go out with a boy, and he was like my first kiss and everything. And I still love him and its been 8 months. But, he has a girlfriend right now. I know he would go out with me if I asked him, but I dont want to break them up. But, I think I really do love him and he means the world to me. We broke up because my friends were being really arrogant and kept telling me lies and false stories about him so I broke up with him. Do I brake them up? How do I get him back? Please help me you have no idea how much I miss him and would literally fo anything to be with him.
--me


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JBella123 answered Thursday June 22 2006, 4:45 pm:
I would not break them up that is the worst thing you can do i would wait and jsut be friends but not to good becuse the gf might get jelous and that not good because you dnt want him to be mad at you.

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xXL0VERGiRLXx answered Thursday June 22 2006, 2:15 pm:
You have two choices, you can try to break them up, but that girl would be REALLLLLLLYYYYY pissed. or then again, you could wait until theyve broken up, then make you move. i think, for now.. just be like, good friends with him. if the girl thinks your 'too' good of friends, then back off a little bit. i mean, he could break up with her for just liking you again, but its not like you did anything that way. all the girl could accuse you of is being his friend, and that is certainly no crime. i hope i helped!

<3--- the outfielder l0ver girl

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WHYDOISTILLLOVEYOU_OX answered Thursday June 22 2006, 1:53 pm:
I am almost in the EXACT situation right now. Well the guy that i like, usually his realtionships dont last that long, except when they're with me; every other girl he goes out with lasts for no more than a week; i went out with him for nine moths. Anywayyy, my advice to you is just wait. I know its hard watching him be with someone else but just wait till it ends and tell him how you feel. Maybe by the time school starts again he'll be single. But, if the relationship DOES last longer than you can wait; then id just tell him how you feel; not while shes around or anything but just make sure you let him know how you feel. Let him come back to you; if he wants you he'll come back.but if he doesnt and hes still single then ask him out; the worst that can happen is he'll say no. GOOD LUCK. HOPE I HELPED :]]

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BabyGirl1sideonly answered Thursday June 22 2006, 11:26 am:
i don't think you should break them because what comes around goes around so that would come back to you. But if it's really meant to be they will break up on their own and he'll come back to you...oh and i'm warning you don't be a side chick it never feels good in the end i know. i wish you the best of luck. :)

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Basketball3846 answered Thursday June 22 2006, 9:55 am:
I would just go up to him and tell him how you feel. If he does end up breaking up with his gf because he still likes you then don't feel bad because you guysare just following you hearts and that's what you're suppossed to do.

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Brooke160394 answered Thursday June 22 2006, 4:12 am:
Well i think you should tell him how you feel and if he feels the same way it's his choice and you shouldn't feel guilty about it

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jumadel answered Thursday June 22 2006, 2:10 am:
Hi, my advice is don't break them up. If he's happy with her then your going to have to accept that no matter what feelings you have for him. However his relationship with this girl might not last long. If he end's up seperating, then he might feel a bit sad. What you could do then is be a friend and go around and see how he is, talk to him, but remain a friend. Once when he feels alright and you 2 have a special bond then you can build on your friendship and turn it very slowly into a relationship. We seem to nearly always pay the price for love and it's usually from hurt. I know how much this might be hurting you, but just remain a friend. Who knows you might be back together again someday. Daniel.

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xxoSGoxx answered Thursday June 22 2006, 1:31 am:
Dont Break Them Up . Nomatter how much you suspect that he would get back with you if givin the chance , hes not back with you and he is with someone else . You just have to respect that , its his choice to be with this girl , I understand how you still like him but I think you should wait it out and see what happens . Breaking them up will only be worse for you because chances are hes nto going to want you back if you ruined his previous relationship . If you realy love him and respect him than you will keep your distance for now and be there and ready for when and if they break up so you can finaly have your chance again . I hoped I helped you lol but this is my first advice on here

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lilangl1113 answered Thursday June 22 2006, 1:25 am:
If he likes you then it's not fair he's going out with this other girl. Talk to him about it. Tell him you still really love him, point out it's not fiar to the other girl if he still loves you, and I hope things work out! Hope I helped!

With love,
Amanda

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