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AY YOO!! my name is sara & i can give some pretty sweet advice =]. i guess i'm supposed to talk about me here .. soo yeah here ya gooo =]

my room's always messy & i hate capitalizing my i's. I'm a picky eater but i eat lots of food (mainly junkfood =D). i am very unorganized and i usually forget my homework, but i'm working on it. i don't like concentrating because i'm not good at it. i'm obviously not perfect, but then again who in their right mind would say so. i like using big words, and yes i do know what they mean. i'm a pretty good speller and i like acting literate when i'm actually not at all. i don't bother with people who don't like me. if you have anything against me, i'm simply not going to waste my time trying to get you to favor me.. in my opinion, its your loss. i type really fast and i use the backspace button alot even though i don't like to. i wish my eyes weren't blue, but i would never get colored contacts. i eat too many famous amos cookies and i love kettlecorn .. mmmm =] i know that i do not have all the answers to life, but i will try my best to help you people out. i'm pretty good at giving advice on friendship related things, because i think i'm pretty good at being a friend; considering i have no enemies. i'm not so good on school work related questions, but ask me them anyway & i'll give you a website where you can try to find what you're looking for =) i hate writing english papers because i suck immensely at organizing my thoughts. i am very gullable & easily influenced. i judge people way too much even though i'm not that confident. i need to stop that. actually, there's several things i need to change about myself, but you're not perfect either. i talk alot and sometimes i mumble because, i don't know why but i just do. i think i do it when i get nervous and i talk real quiet and it's annoying and i hate it. i also talk fast which is another thing i need to stop. i always have something to say, and i won't hesitate to say it. alright i'm done, bye.

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so my friends having a party and he invited all of my friends, except me..what should i do? should i confront him? or just leave it go?

PS.
it made me mad to know he did this but w/e

i would do what michelle said .. be like .. uh thanks for inviting me loser or something like that, unless you guys aren't like good friends, then it might be kind of awkward. if it's a big party and you guys are friends, then that's messed up that he didn't invite you. but if you're friends and it's only a little party, then maybe you guys aren't as good of friends as you thought =\ or you could've just slipped his mind .. lol i know that sounds bad, but it happens. hope i helped =] & good luckk! ♥

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Does it hurt to get ur belly button pierced???

i heard that the more muscle you have on your stomach, the more pain you will have. like if you have a six pack, it will probably hurt more than it would if you had a less muscular stomach. my advice is to not worry about the .. you're not gonna know if it hurts or not until you get it done, because the amount of pain all depends on who pierced it, if they're the kinda of person who says things don't hurt when they really do just so they seem tough, and on your pain tolerance level. soo just decide if you want it, and if it hurts, oh well the pain won't last, and if it doesn't, then lucky for you! ♥ [ps;;i know this is an old question,sry.]

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Okay so ive been going out with this boy, and well, i know i wanna start kissing him and all that stuff. I know hes not the shy type who wouldnt kiss me in school, but i kinda dont wanna wait forever for him to do it. So i wondering, should i just go for it myself? Im just afraid that when i try hes gonna like, turn away not wanting to kiss me back. So yes, my question, is should i go for it?

I think you should just go for it ♥ But try to make it a situation where if he WOULD turn away, (which i doubt he would) it would look like you weren't really trying to kiss him .. or you could just wait for him to make the first move, that's what I would do lol ♥ Hope I helped ya! =)

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hey-i love ur site btw-
does limewire cost anything?
anything at all.. like.. to get it/to download music?

if it does cost anything, how much, and do you know of any other free ways to download music? i know its not really legal.. but limewire is so widely used i would think it would cost something

♥ thanks! ♥

It's 100% free ♥ but yeah, I heard that it's illegal & you can get fined I think .. but I'm not sure. If you get LimeWire Pro then it costs money but not much at all =) Hope I helped! ♥

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hmm.. do you think that maybe you could give me ideas for a new screen name?? maybe something to do with like the word glamorous.. you know something cute =) thanksss

aly*

GLAM0R0USxL0VE
GLAM x0O
GLAM0R0USxBABE
ixamxGLAM0R0US
ixamxGLAM
GLAMx0Rx0US
GLAM 0R 0US
GLAMxL0VE
xGLAMxL0VEx

Sorry if they're not that great, I like the first one best though =)

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hi well i like this girl and my friend is kinda more attractive 2 gals and he asked her out and she said yes and then i was going to ask a girl out and didnt know she had a boyfriend and i feel really confused and lonely

Hmm, well I think that you should try not to let that kind of stuff to bother you. Or what might work better: is if you find 0NE person, that you really like and try to get to them. So if you really REALLY like them, you won't give up and they can see how much you like them. But don't just pick someone to like at random, make sure that they're special to you.

PS. sorry this was sucky advice - but I did my best since you didn't even ask a question lol ♥

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Hey my name is Katie and i live in Michigan. I noticed on your column we had lots in common. so i added you to my favorite collumints. i want to know what do you do to your hair to keep it straight?
~dory16~
by the way i am also a columnist

I use a straightener =P lol. Just go to walmart or something, buy a hair straightener, read the directions and use it whenever you want your hair to be straight =) Hope I helped!

[ just so you know, I added you lol ♥ ]

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what does giving head mean?

It means to suck on a guy's dick. Any more questions, google it or ask someone else .. I don't wanna get banned lol ♥

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why do they make cars that go like 300 miles per hour if the speed limit's like 75 miles per hour

Some roads might let you go the maximun speed limit, so they give you a wayyyy higher speed just incase you're allowed to drive at that speed. It might be to test you lol .. or maybe for off-roading or something? =) ♥

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well ive been going out with this guy for about 3 weeks now and i really like alot!! we started makingout and it seems like thats all he ever talks about or thinks about some timez i feel like he only wants to makeout and thats all im for sure he tells me he loves me and how he loves talking to me and how he thinks im beauteful so im kinda lost lol i dont know if im just being stupid or is he just really horney lol please help me

idk .. he might just be trying to get some =P Just don't make out with him & stuff so easily. Make him work a little bit to show him that you're worth it. If he really likes you and thinks you're worth the struggle, he'll keep trying to get you back. If he doesn't and he goes on to another girl, then he probably didn't like you that much =\ I'm sure he likes you at least a little bit, but maybe not as much as you deserve to be liked and appreciated. Good luck hun! Hope I helped! ♥

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alright well.. my hair is pretty straight medium length i guess. i was wondering what products or what can i use to make my hair wavy? besides braiding it; any ideas? thank youu hun ♥

Well you could scrunch your hair .. I answered a question about it a little bit ago, let me go find the answer ♥

i would use gel. (your hair can be dry or wet but dry works better usually) just take the gel (the spray gel from LAlooks works really well) and put it on your hands and get it on your hair and scrunch it. you just take and kinda squeeze it and push it up against your head to bring out the curls .. lol i can't really explain it but yeah. you just tilt your head, grab the hair and close your hand around the hair and push it againt your head. the gel will eventually dry and get kinda hard but it washes right out ♥

You can go here to find out more about scrunching hair: http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art4077.asp

hope I helped =) ♥

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can someone give me ideas for sns about the o.c. or adam brody?
rate 5s for anything
thank so much

I've been told I'm good wiht screen names, so I'll answer this =)

OCxOBSESSED
MRS BRODY
MRS ADAM BRODY
OC x ADAM BRODY
OC x3 LOVER
BRODY x3 LOVER
i x3 Adam Brody

* sorryyy .. that's all I can think of right noww.

* Since there were alot of O's .. you can change any of them to 0's (zero's) if you wantt .. or change them from caps to lower case =)

hope I helped!! ♥ :D

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hey everyoneee ... what is everyones general perception of south jersey or the people in it? even north jersey idc! thanksss =]

the whole thing where people make fun of jersey is stupid .. I don't get it anyway. Maybe I don't get it just because I'm from there .. idk it might be that everyone thinks it's trashyy .. haha idk but i still like it there alot alot alot =) ♥

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okay. me first period was on july 2, 05. it came only for a day and it was really light. then on july 4, 05 it came again for about 2-3 days and it was a little bit heavier. not much, but there was more. then i didn't have it again until january 2, 06 (sometime around then) and it only came for a day and it was really light. then, i just got it again today and its january 19, 06. it was still really light. my period is SO messed up and it drives me crazy, because i have no clue when its going to come (i don't even get cramps that much.. i can barely notice them if they are there) and i hate it because its a total waste of pantyliners.. =P soo yeah my question is.. well first of all is this normal, and secondly, should i just keep on wearing pantyliners all of the time? since i don't know when its going to come? because i just think its kind of a waste because earlier.. i went about 6 months wearing pantyliners ALL the time and it drove me crazy!! soo yeah what do you think i should do? because its so light it doesn't leak through my underwear even if i don't have a pantyliner on. (at school, i didn't have anything with me, and i got it before lunch and it never leaked because it is so light) THANKSS!!!! and i love your site btw! =]

I think it's normal because maybe when you got it in july, maybe it wasn't really your period .. it could have been just dark discharge or somethingg? idk.

I would wear pantyliners just in case .. since it is SOO irregular, I would want to be safe .. but that's just me.

Ask a doctor next time you go whether it's normal or not .. us on advicenators aren't doctors lol.

Thanks for the compliment! ♥ :D

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this may seem like a dumb question but i heard someone talking about it.

lets say you use a public bathroom & you're a girl. if there's sperm anywhere near the toilet, on the seat, in the toilet itself, is it possible to get pregnant?? if you were juss using the bathroom??

thanks!!

okayyy well i just answered a question like this so i'll copy & paste the answerrr from beforee =)

no b/c it has to get inside of you and it dies like 5 seconds or something after it gets in the air .. plus, someone or something has to physically put it into your vagina. so if this was a question about you, then chances are, you're fine =)

hope i helped!!! =D ♥

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I'm a tiny little person (13/f) and my mom wants me to exercise. Aside from burning off fat and staying at a healthy weight, why is it important to exercise?

okay well there's many reasons -

* not just being at a healthy weight, but being healthy in general.
* it builds muscle and keeps you in shape and looking good.
* alot more reasons that you can go to www.toneteen.com to find out about (there's more about it in the next paragraph)

i know it seems like a drag, but trust me exercising is very good for you .. i can't list all the reasons why it's healthy because there are so many reasons for each different part of your body .. but there is an excellent website that i'm sure will have many answers to any questions you have =) just go to www.toneteen.com and there's all kinds of charts, calculators to check averages for weight and stuff, a whole bunch of fitness stuff and alot more. it's a great website. most of your questions will probably be on that website, so go there =) hope i helped! if i didn't i'm sure the website will lol ♥

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is it gay for a guy to go on a diet?

gay isn't whether you diet or not - it's if you're a guy who likes guys. just because you diet, that doesn't make you homosexual unless you do like guys. so my answer is no, DEFFINITELY not. unless you meant gay as in stupid or something, then it's still no. ♥

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ok can you get pregnant by being AROUND sperm. not actually having sex?? like if it was on a surface er in the shower. like if you use the bathroom & theres sperm er anything??

thanks

no b/c it has to get inside of you and it dies like 5 seconds or something after it gets in the air .. plus, someone or something has to physically put it into your vagina. so if this was a question about you, then chances are, you're fine =) hopem i helped! ♥

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wellllllllll..... i moved here last year, and everybody hated me, they didnt want a new kid, the girl who is now my best friend was the only one who gave me a chance, but the problem is, she is really popular and her friends hate me, and she has had to choose who to stay whith when she is with me because they just bug her about it, i feel reallly bad, What do i do

friends can be tough .. if she's really your true friend, she'll pick you. although she shouldn't have to pick .. i would first try to find out why they 'hate' you and try to get them to like you. i know i know that sounds bad, but hey that's how you make friends. if for some stupid reason your friend chooses her old friends over you, don't be upset. you're better off without her - TRUST ME. that too sounds so cliche, but it's the truth. if she doesn't pick you, screw her .. you'll find someone better. and if she does pick you, make sure it's for the right reasons. maybe you should point out to your friend that she doesn't have to choose she can be friends with her old friends AND you. if her old friends ditch her cause she hangs out with you, then screw them too =) haha good luck babee!! ♥ :D

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15f christian....

I used to always masturbate. quite alot. but then about 2 weeks ago i read something that said that masturbating is a sin. well ever since i read that i havent masturbated, i actually gave in yesterday but then i felt reallllly guilty afterwards. is this bad because i mean will it mean i'll never be able to enjoy masturbating? is this normal and will i ever get over it? please help. i rate 5's!

i heard that before too, and i think it's stupid. there's like a whole lot of things that are 'sins' but i don't think they should be sins because according to the bible, God made people, all people and their feelings included. which means when he created us, whatever it is that makes people want to masterbate, God gave us that. so if it's a sin, God shouldn't have given people hormones that make people wanna have sex and all that stuff. idk it might be a stupid answer .. maybe He wants us to fight it or something? haha idk. that's just my reasoning. hope i helped? =) ♥

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